How to develop a social circle with non-Asian women?

A little about me, I grew up as a Taiwanese-American in a predominantly Asian community(like a lot of us). I mainly hung out with Asians, went to Asian clubs, and of course was interested in Asian women. I also recently graduated from college in LA.

Lately, I've been more interested in meeting white, Spanish, and hapa women and forming a social group where we can hang out/go out together. Even if they're strictly friends, I'd be cool with that because I think it'd be awesome to interact with women of different backgrounds. From my experience, it generally takes a greater deal of dominance, sexual confidence, and social savviness to speak with women that aren't Asian and having these women around me would allow me to internalize these concepts/skills.

For the guys that have done this, how/where would you recommend meeting these women to build up a social circle?

My thoughts:
-Day game and night game.
-Interest-based organizations, clubs(i.e. classes at a gym, volunteering, meetups)

What do you guys think? Any suggestions?

Hey ucl09!

Welcome to the forums! As for your question, what i do to expand social circles is to make friends with guys first because its MUCH easier than girls. Then try meeting girls, plus, those guys should probably know girls, therefore you then plan an event that is usually done in larger groups such as clubbing, team sports, paintball, etc so they would invite more people to join in for you to meet. Even if they're more guys, just meet them and continue from the first step for them to help you meet more people, hopefully there will be some girls in the fray.

I find its easier to meet girls through guys than girls through girls because girls might get the feeling you're just using them to meet their friends, which you are doing but you don't want them to know this and girls usually feel safer if they have good male friends close by. With guys, it's like just hanging out and it so happens to have females around too.

Then it's game on for you, try to meet as many as you can.

Hope this was helpful.

Move away from an Asian area,
I had that problem awhile ago. It's demographics,

Hi,

Passive way:

Don't you have any non-asian friends around you? At least one or two right? Go hangout with them, and you will know their friends.

Active Way:

- Go join some activities where there are lots of non-asian people. Join a sports class, interest group or whatever.
- If you are living in a non-Asian city, it should be easy!

My example.

I live in Asia, most of my friend are Asian, so how come I got more Non-Asian friends now?

- Go to http://www.meetup.com, join those who have lots of non-asian people
- I cold approach random people from coffee shop, street, bars
- Every month, I organize a mini party (junk trip or whatever) and ask these newly met people to join. That way you become their friends and they will introduce their friends to you too.
- Once you have access to the group, you have access to other groups!
- Girls will introduce me to their newly arrive girlfriends, as they know I am cool to show them around. The ball gets rolling.
- Just keep texting/calling people whom you met once or twice only in bar or from cold approach, once they agree to party with you for the first time, they become your friends and things will be much easier!

Comon! I live in Asia and the majority here are Asian, and I still manage to have more non-Asian friends (boys and girls). So If I could, you have no excuse!

My only weak point is being too friendly... Shxt!

Go out to both day game and night game. And only approach non -asian women. That's the difference. yes you may need to be more dominant etc. however its a developable skillset.

Go out to events where theres alot of non-asian girls, and make some friends with non-asian girls including guys. Then you'll start being around them a lot more. Pretty simple, just go to where they are at.

It's extremely difficult to develop a social circle full of white girls when you live in the Asian suburbs. Think about the demographics,

A lot of people who socialise with well off people live in well off suburbs.

The opposite is also true, there are suburbs in the U.S and Australia where the average income is well below national average. These people generally speaking only associate and hang out with each other.

Generally speaking ethnic minority groups will cluster into small parts of the country and will only associate with their own kind or something similar.

Obviously these are huge generalizations, I have to leave western Sydney (poor suburbs) if I want to meet a really nice white girl who lives in a really nice and wealthy white suburb with really nice white parents. With game I could pull it off without having to move but I'm talking about playing the statistical game and opening up more opportunities which are not usually there.


Sadly, you are a product of your environment, so hang out with good people and getaway from places which do not benefit you.