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So is this "phenomena" or fact of life the same with everyone? Please share similar/different experiences and why....
So the attractive girls, the ones you just find super hot (and probably know that they are) are the ones that are hard to get--> i.e. the ones you have to try harder with, "use game" whatever. This is probably cuz they're hard-wired to be aloof since they probably get way too much attention- is this sociologically correct?
So the ones that actually approach you, make the first move, "make it easy" for you are not usually the ones you would necessarily drool over (I'm not saying the fat ugly chicks approach me first, but like the average, plain jane types) that I have nothing against but they don't make me heart go a-flutter, if you know what I mean. So if we are accepting chumps, these are the ones we end up with in life unless we try with the really hot ones right?
Okay, so main questions-
1). Are the hot ones really worth the "extra effort" of pursuing when all is said and done? My experience has been hit or miss with this one, what about you guys?
2). Does the lack of "chase" in the beginning with the average ones bound to fizzle the relationship in the end, because it was "too easy"? My experience is also hit or miss with this one, what about you guys?
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