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Hello!
I'm a 23 year old Asian male, from Toronto, Canada. Some hobbies of mine include hanging out with friends, working out, bicycling, and archery.
In regards to my experience with women, i was raised in a very strict traditional Asian lifestyle when i was young and had become very shy meeting people until the past few years. I am very analytical and until recently had thought everything can be solved through some sort of logical reasoning. I thought that by changing myself would provide me with more confidence and kept telling myself if i accomplished x or y that it would provide me with more confidence with women. For example, I did not like my "bowl hair cut" so i cut it shorter, layered it and now it is naturally spiky without any hair products. I was too scrawny so i worked hard at the gym and now weigh 230 lbs [at a height of 5'10]. I thought my thick framed glasses were nerdy so i replaced them with contacts.
I am most concerned about day game, because the club scene is not really my thing. I thought i'd leave a field report of my latest set so if you've read this far, any feedback would be greatly appreciated;
In my tennis class, there was this really cute blue eyed blond girl. It took me about two weeks before i even managed to approach her and talk. Before class began i said hi and made a comment about how hot the weather was because we were in the middle of a heat wave, introduced myself and said that it would be so much better to play fully nude. She laughed and we started talking about activities that were fun to do in the nude, swimming, suntanning, barbequing? [lol] etc. We didn't talk about the most obvious one, sex, she didn't mention it and i thought it might have made the conversation awkward.
After class had finished, i ran over to her and mentioned how i really enjoyed playing in the heat because i liked being all "hot and sweaty". I don't think she got it or just ignored it, probably the latter but then we headed towards the same direction to leave class. I had planned out the question in my head to ask her to either get some water with me or grab some food, but the words just could not leave my mouth no matter how hard i told myself to just ask, my mind went completely blank and before i knew it she said okay well im going this direction, i just replied with okay, see you later, and walked off. Arrggh.....
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