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gABBA
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Post subject: Hey everyone, huge noobie here  Posted: 19 Oct 2011, 17:23 |
Joined: 19 Oct 2011, 17:04 Posts: 4
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Hey everyone,
I'm 21 years old, in my fourth year of university, and having great difficulty with women. I've been visiting the website and forums trying to figure things out myself for the past few months since there are no bootcamps near Toronto and thought i'd finally join in the community since i feel i am making a lot of progress and may have something to contribute.
I have huge AA and freeze up even before i even get close to a girl i find attractive. I can't stop imagining different situations, all of which turn out negatively.
My current goal has been to just approach and have a conversation with atleast one girl i find decently attractive every day for monday through saturday while maintaining a steady eye contact [i'm REALLY bad at this eye contact thing]. Pretty much the A to C phase, i'm not even bothering with DEF until i can get a solid ABC unless she's very responsive. haha
I'm going to post a field report after this about my latest encounter, take a look if you're interested =]
Thanks for reading ^^
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Post subject: Re: Hey everyone, huge noobie here  Posted: 23 Oct 2011, 16:35 |
Joined: 05 Aug 2011, 12:01 Posts: 68 Location: cleveland ohio
Bootcamp Graduate: LA Oct 2011
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Im much older than you, perhaps the oldest person to ever take a bootcamp. Im 60. I like to think I look 50. Anyway, there is a rime and reason to social interaction. I was in denial, but there are techniques that work. The first step is to make your efforts and read, "The Game" by Neil Strauss. Its an eye opener. I went from Cleveland to LA for a 5 day one on one that was fantastic ! If you have the time and can afford a little more than the usual 3 day group BootCamp, it can change your life. Be prepared ! Just like a University Diploma, is only a beginning, so is learning the art of Social Interaction. Its not only about meeting hot women, its about making a life.
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