Gaming Successful High-Value Women?

I met this woman, who's probably a 9 in looks and who seemed to be very successful in her career. I ran game on her and only managed to email close. Though it was a valid email, she did not reply =( and I have a pretty decent text/online game actually... So it must have been that I did not demonstrate enough value when I sarged her, and she gave me her email just to be polite.

My question is: can you game women whom you are out-of-league of? I know that Game works in cases of women who are in your league or beneath you (career, looks, status and money wise). But in the case when the woman is above you in one or more of those things and she just has her shits together, how big of a gap in those attributes can you still bridge by having Game?

You will never be able to get a woman if you think she is out of your league, period. The mission is not 'finding out how to game women that are out of your league', the mission is 'improving your confidence in order to be in her league'.

There are no "leagues". The closest thing to "league" is a person's level of confidence. At this point, you don't think you are good enough for her and THAT is why you're not getting the girl. If you think a woman is better than you, you will act accordingly and she will SEE that and then act accordingly. In most cases, you will by trying REALLY hard to make her attracted to you, which she can smell a mile away.

The goal: Dispel with the idea of leagues and realize that if you don't know what a woman's fav candybar is, you're not going to know what type of guy she likes; maybe she just got done dating a rich guy that was an asshole and just wants someone down to earth that can relate to her small-town upbringing. Once you realize that your confidence, personality and intelligence are infinitely more attractive than money, you will start to attract both success with women and success in life.

Real World Solution: Pretend girls are ugly and fat.

Listen, I love beautiful women and I love talking to them and, yes, i believe they should be on a pedestal, but it is this pedestal that is hurting you and making you less confident than you should be so, for the time being, treat them like you treat the fat girl that really likes you. Be kind, interesting, confident, playful and, most of all, don't try so hard! Ever realize why the girls you're not into are into you? It's because you're just a nice, fun guy that's not out to get them!

Hope this helps!

Thanks Gareth,

You're right, in retrospect, I think I always try too hard when sarging girls who are 8 and above... that's why I was never successful with them... I will def keep your advice in mind when sarging next time - ALL girls are ugly and fat =D

TheGarethJones,

What a great advice. They(higher rated HB)are just regular human being,but guys just got too intimidated by the look.
This gives her power to place herself in 'higher value' and the guy in lower value once she sense that guy becomes the 'sucker' to her look and trying hard to get her attention.


HH

That's it! You guys have to remember that we are just people. Regardless of money or looks or social standing, we are all exactly the same.

Be the one that makes the connection with the girl. Look at her and see her for herself. She wakes up in the morning and looks in the mirror and plucks her eyebrows and waxes her legs and puts on deodorant. Be the guy that sees that and understands that. Don't allow her pristine vision to screw you up, internally.

We are all people with the same feelings and the same hearts and the same bones; when you talk to someone, embrace that.