Fingering in NYC

Hello my friends,

Two Fingahz here (pronounced with a Boston accent). I recently took the New York bootcamp and I can only describe my experience as exhausting, miserable, hell, inspirational, eye opening and life changing.

Some background on myself. I’m a 26 year old Southeast Asian that looks very Hispanic; some of my fellow students didn’t even know I was Asian until the 2nd or 3rd day. I was once in a relationship that lasted 7 years. We were engaged for about a year and a half until she left me for a white guy. She said something to me at the end that made me feel like an absolute loser. While crying and feeling sorry for me, she said, “How are you going to find another girlfriend?” After getting so mad at her, I began to get pissed off at myself because I realized that she actually had a good point. I was a complete AFC.

I decided I needed to turn my life around right there and then. My friends, who I lost touch with during the relationship, were there to pick me right back up. I was able to build a great social circle, partied all the time, become carefree and finally learned how to live life and have fun.

Shortly thereafter, I had discovered The Game and became inspired. I started reading everything on pick up and studied products from various companies and websites. I still went out a lot, but NEVER approached. My game, if you even want to call it game, was to walk on the dance floor and grind with the girl hoping she wouldn’t walk away. It was pathetic, but there were occasions where the girl wouldn’t blow me out and things got a little hot and heavy, until the song ended or her friends would drag her away.

One day last year, a buddy of mine living in NY called me and said he needed a roommate. Although I had a decent job and was happy living in Boston, I said “Why the fuck not? You only live once!” A month and a half later I quit my job, left my friends, my comfortable life and took on the biggest city in the United States.

My AFCness came back quickly. My roommate wasn’t a big partier and his friends were very tame. I had no one to go out with and I was never really good at making new friends that weren’t already part of a social circle. At least not close friends.

I found myself to become very boring and predictable. Similar to how I was when I was in my LTR, only without the sex. I needed to retransform myself again and decided to sign up for the ABCs of Attraction bootcamp and never look back…

I realized this is going to be a lot longer than I thought, so I’ll put this post in the intro section. I’m distracted by the Celtics-Lakers game and will post my review later. It’s a pleasure and an honor to be a part of the APB Alumni family!

Happy Sarging!

two fingahz,

Welcome to beginner's hell, brother. You got my number-- let's go sarging next week when I return from L.A.

-Man Cannon

Hey Man Cannon,

We should definitely go out and sarge. Have fun in LA, that should be an awesome weekend!

-TF

NYC is the best alumni crew in the world. Welcome!

Make sure you should come to the alumni event tomorrow!