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 Post subject: Dating as an Asian American
PostPosted: 19 Jul 2012, 09:05 
Koi Fish

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Ben did a great guest post writeup for my blog that I want to pass along.

http://www.getgirlsnotgame.com/dating-as-an-asian-american/

Click it, Read it, Like it, Share it...Enjoy it ;)


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 Post subject: Re: Dating as an Asian American
PostPosted: 19 Jul 2012, 13:05 
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 Post subject: Re: Dating as an Asian American
PostPosted: 22 Jul 2012, 12:39 
Koi Fish

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Sorry bro, I respect that your article has brought positivity to others but personally, I don't understand why there is even a need to mention you're an "Asian American"

I'm an Asian American but to me, it's a non-issue. I honestly did not read through your whole article because I could see right away that being "Asian" has somewhat been a challenge to you.

Fuck the media. Their opinion only matters if you agree with it. It's kinda like if I said to you "hey man, how does it feel like being a girl?" You'd probably look at me like "wtf??" It's like you wouldn't even acknowledge it by saying "I'm not a girl man, I'm a man" because it's a non-issue. You know you're not a girl.

Anyways, I'm writing this because from the short time I'm reading through this website, I'm noticing that many Asian guys are experiencing a similar experience, thus my rationale to share my thoughts. Fuck it! It's a non-issue. If someone does hate on you for being Asian, whose frame of reality is stronger? Theirs or yours?

Seriously, if any of you guys who have this "asian inferiority complex", I highly recommend visiting Japan, Korea, China or any fucking where in Asia. There you'll find tons of Asian men who have no "clue" about this "asian american inferiority complex"

Trust me guys. A person can "feel" who you are and if you truly don't care that it's an "issue" being Asian-American, they'll know. And if a chick doesn't like Asians, fuck her, she's not the only chick in the world.

PLUS TRUST ME GUYS, CHICKS IN THE US ARE FAT AND NOWHERE NEAR AS GOOD LOOKING as chicks in Japan, Korea, Russian, Sweden, Brazil. Seriously... so keep that in mind.

I will say this.. logistics do suck in Los Angeles and SF compared to other countries meaning that there aren't the high numbers of hot ass women that you'd find in other countries. If you like white girls, go to eastern europe, fuck man.. they're hot. If you like asian girls, go to asia.

Good luck all and happy fucking!
Fucksong


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 Post subject: Re: Dating as an Asian American
PostPosted: 23 Sep 2012, 11:01 
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Joined: 23 Sep 2012, 10:47
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fucksong wrote:
Sorry bro, I respect that your article has brought positivity to others but personally, I don't understand why there is even a need to mention you're an "Asian American"

I'm an Asian American but to me, it's a non-issue. I honestly did not read through your whole article because I could see right away that being "Asian" has somewhat been a challenge to you.

Fuck the media. Their opinion only matters if you agree with it. It's kinda like if I said to you "hey man, how does it feel like being a girl?" You'd probably look at me like "wtf??" It's like you wouldn't even acknowledge it by saying "I'm not a girl man, I'm a man" because it's a non-issue. You know you're not a girl.

Anyways, I'm writing this because from the short time I'm reading through this website, I'm noticing that many Asian guys are experiencing a similar experience, thus my rationale to share my thoughts. Fuck it! It's a non-issue. If someone does hate on you for being Asian, whose frame of reality is stronger? Theirs or yours?

Seriously, if any of you guys who have this "asian inferiority complex", I highly recommend visiting Japan, Korea, China or any fucking where in Asia. There you'll find tons of Asian men who have no "clue" about this "asian american inferiority complex"

Trust me guys. A person can "feel" who you are and if you truly don't care that it's an "issue" being Asian-American, they'll know. And if a chick doesn't like Asians, fuck her, she's not the only chick in the world.

PLUS TRUST ME GUYS, CHICKS IN THE US ARE FAT AND NOWHERE NEAR AS GOOD LOOKING as chicks in Japan, Korea, Russian, Sweden, Brazil. Seriously... so keep that in mind.

I will say this.. logistics do suck in Los Angeles and SF compared to other countries meaning that there aren't the high numbers of hot ass women that you'd find in other countries. If you like white girls, go to eastern europe, fuck man.. they're hot. If you like asian girls, go to asia.

Good luck all and happy fucking!
Fucksong


I think the whole point of the post is to point out that the stereotype is incorrect and unfair, and by pointing out that he's an Asian American shows he has the right to challenge the stereotype.

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