Brand New and Eager to Learn

What's up everyone?

I'm 25 and newly single. I'm fairly new to the game. I first started getting into pick-up/self-improvement after a relationship of 5 years suddenly ended. I was single and clueless on how to meet and attract women. I started reading articles and blogs about positivity and attraction for about 5 months. I was really just starting to get into it but it all halted when I got into another relationship. Luckily this time it lasted only 1 1/2 years. Now here I am 25 and living in a big city. I'm looking to make the most of my eligible bachelor status this time around.

I have a lot of aspirations in life and definitely do not want to be in a relationship anytime soon. I spent most of my golden years between the ages of 17-25 in relationships. I was just comfortable being in those relationships and spent all my time and energy in them. No real personal growth was made though I did learn some very valuable lessons.

I'm a huge advocate of self-development and am making it a lifelong journey to be the best man I can possibly be. I want to see how good I can actually get and maybe someday help others. I have a passion for improving myself in order to improve the lives of people around me.

As a kid and throughout highschool I was a really shy guy. Very softspoken. I didn't really say too much. As I've matured I've gained more confidence and have gotten better with women. It's a long way from that really shy skinny kid that I was back then but I'm still not satisfied. I feel I have a lot more potential and I'm really eager to see just how good I can get at this.

I hope to learn from you all and hope to provide input to help you guys whenever I can as well.

Welcome to the forum!

Welcome to the forum! You have plenty of time left, 17-25 isn't the only prime time in life. Best of luck and looking forward to your future posts and feedback!

Im 60 ( really ! ) and new to the game . There is an iternity before us and after us. Go for it !

Serenade,

From what you've indicated here, it sounds like you've already had some success in connecting with women, but as all grown men are apt to do, it sounds like you want to actively seek out new and exciting romantic adventures for yourself.

I have some past experiences that are similar to yours-- very shy in high school, very soft spoken, didn't really say too much. But unlike you, I never gained more confidence and I never got better with women until after I was actually taught how to do that. So, kudos to you for figuring out that much on your own. For me, taking the bootcamp gave me the principles, lessons, and the right fundamental skills and conversational basics that I needed to meet, attract, and date lots and lots of women. And then, after going out and meeting lots and lots of girls experiencing all different kinds of romantic adventures with all different kinds of women, I finally go to the point where I found the girl that I _really_ wanted to be with.

So, as you begin your journey now, there is no question in my mind that if you do end up taking the bootcamp, that it will enable you to find the romantic adventures that you seek.

-William

Thanks for the input William. Good to hear you've had a similar background and are now having a lot of success with women. My closest friends and I always push each other to be the best men we can possibly be. I think that has played a large part in me being able to have success with women.

I'm still debating whether I should take a bootcamp or not. I'd like to get my funds in order before I take any leap.

Take the boot camp. Its a life changer ! In the end, as with all life aspirations, what you get out of it is what you put in. I didnt realize that it was possible to change course, but I did.