Be careful what you wish for.

The old saying that the grass is always greener on the other side holds so much truth.

I know that there are a lot of guys out there (and women as well) that have a lot of difficulty in finding someone to be with. It is frustrating, maddening and lonely at times.

Well, don't think that being highly 'attractive' is a walk in the park as well.

My girlfriend and I have a huge blow out at least once a month about either her or I garnishing more than desirable attention from the opposite sex.

We know that we are very 'attractive'. Not just physically but personality wise as well. Wow. Big deal. We can not turn off who we are. We have tried but all we would end up being are total assholes. And the world has enough of them already.

We are both 'tired'. Tired of people always trying to get our attention. Trying to make small talk to chat you up. And for both her and I, trying to laugh off or make light of uncomfortable and inappropriate sexually disguised comments.

I have no idea why anyone, guy or girl, would want to be a pick up artist or a playboy. It is getting to the point for us that we don't want to go out anymore. We would rather stay in, order take out and watch a movie. Thank god for netflix!

I haven't been to a dinner party yet where someones wife or girlfriend, who had enough alcohol to edge the edge off, make very blatant sexual suggestions out loud to me. With their husbands or boyfriends sitting right there. I can take of myself but why the F does this happen all the F'en time? My girlfriend and I could just be sitting there at dinner. Yes, just the two of us and some idiot guy will saunter over and openly hit on her with me sitting there. It's not just maddening, it's enough to make someone go crazy.

So be careful what you wish for. Being a pick up artist or playboy can really make a stable relationship that you really want to be in and love being in very very difficult.

Heck, I don't even consider myself a pick up artist or playboy. Just go out there, be yourself, meet someone nice and enjoy one another.

Being good with woman isn't any easier or harder than not being good with woman. People talk like picking up chicks and going out is hard, it's not.

It's a lifestyle choice, Settling down with your girlfriend and being a hermit is also a lifestyle choice.

Maybe these married woman want to invite you and your girlfriend over for a swingers party haha.
These things do happen and your situation is not special, maybe just on these forums which have a large number of social retards.

Hey Minh,

No. For me, it is not a lifestyle choice. I am myself. Always me, myself and I.

There is very little that I do that garnishes the unwanted attention that I get. The same for my girlfriend.

At a dinner party not too long ago. Just standing there. Holding my drink, a woman comes up to me, looks at my shoes and loudly comments I have really big feet. Geez. Can't you be more subtle? Can you not say it with your boyfriend right next to you?

The night was filled with other women overtly flirting with me. Again, it isn't fun and it isn't an ego booster. It is and has become invasive. It is tiring.

So, again, a word of warning to those who want to be pick up artists or chick magnets. Be careful what you ask for.