Today was actually a day2 with this girl. I was able to bang her the first night that I met her. Yup, pretty happy about that. Anyway, for our day 2, the deal was that I was supposed to take her our to dinner, and she was going to take me out for dessert. The dessert part didn't really happen, though....
Now, since I got the SNL the first time I met this girl, I tried to see how little I could do this time around and still get away with it.
ATTRACT & APPROACH
Since we already had an SNL, when we met up, I didn't really need to do much in this phase. She was sitting in the waiting area, and I just motioned to her to stand up. When she did, I pulled her in and frenched her. That was about all the attract & approach I seemed to need in that situation.
BT SPIKE & BANTER
I noticed that when we sat in the booth, as we were seated next to each other, she was tracing the outline of my ear with her index finger. I wasn't really facing her, because we were sitting next to each other. However, I could see that her body language was slightly turned so that she was semi-facing me. So, I didn't bother with any high fiving or other bt spiking; I only did some banter with her about stuff that happened that day and week.
COMFORT
Here, I did bust out 1 DHV story: experienced man. From that point forward, we spent about 20 minutes talking about that experience. She asked me a few questions about it because she's a little younger than me (6 years). Since we were in the comfort phase, and I completed 1 DHV story, I decided to gently introduce sexual topics into the conversation, starting with
DIRECT INTEREST
me: I think your personality is soooooo sexy.
her: [giggles for a bit] Thank you!
This girl is really beautiful, so I was purposely trying NOT to say anything about her physical attributes, which by the way, are pretty fine. We go back to eating for a bit, and then I say:
me: Your personality is totally sexy. Whenever I'm next to you [pause] my brain just goes totally nuts.
her: [giggles again, continues playing with my ear.]
me: [I put her hand on my leg. She complies, and then starts doing sexual kino on my thigh. I had my hand on her inner thigh, but I removed it, and she started doing the sexual kino on my thigh even more.]
...some banter...
me: Come here. [I motion her to lean in so I can whisper in her ear]: What is the craziest place you've ever had sex?
her: Um...... a car?
me: Hmmmm.... that doesn't sound all that crazy.
her: Oh yeah? Why is that?
me: Well, have you ever thought of doing it in [pause] well, I'll just leave it at that.
The objective that I had with this thread of conversation is to go deeper into D. Not necessarily surface level DIRECT INTEREST, which is what we usually do in the field when we first meet a girl, but DOMINANCE. I wanted to take direct interest to that next level where I'm not only showing direct interest in her, but I'm showing that I am already directly interested in her, I"m assuming she's already directly interested in me, and I'm going to dominate her (in conversation, of course, which then leads to dominance in other activities
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...we continue eating, and banter a bit more. I"m fractionating this girl like crazy because I"m going back and forth between common banter topics and full-on dominance and direct interest topics.
me: Hey, you know what? After we finish dinner, I want you to treat me to a dessert wine at the bar.
her: ok!
me: We're going to have a dessert wine for a few minutes, 'cuz it's really noisy in here, and then we can go have that dessert that we said we'd do. (Note: At this point in the conversation, I had absolutely no intention of taking her out for dessert anymore)
her: Sure! That sounds great.
me: Then, while we're having our dessert wine, we're going to share a little secret, but only while we're drinking our dessert wine.
her: What do you mean?
me: You'll see.
At this point in the interaction, I could see that this was only a day 2, and this girl was passing compliance tests left, right, and center, giving me unsolicited sexual kino, she was voluntarily playing with my ear, and she was just overall looking like she was really enjoying herself. So, being that this was a day 2, I could have just gone straight for EXTRACT AND ESCALATE, and then FUN, but I wanted to push the envelope a little further before we left the venue, just to further emphasise the DIRECT INTEREST and DOMINANCE. I can recall the Asian Playboy saying in my original bootcamp in 2007 something like, "the way that you lead the interaction from the beginning will set the tone for the remainder of all of your interactions with her." So, in keeping with that philosophy, I wanted to see what I could get away with here.
We get over to the bar and I utilize the BLP techinques that we learned during day 3 of the ABCs bootcamp to lock her into set while we're at the bar. There were some amogs at the bar, but nobody came anywhere near us. We got our dessert wines, and then I mini-isolated her into a seat in the corner, again utilizing more BLP techniques that we learned during day 3 of the ABCs bootcamp. As soon as she's locked into the set, I'm about to give her her drink, and then I pull it away and say:
me: You know what, before we have this delicious dessert wine, we're going to have our secret.
her: Sure!
me: I only want to stay here for a few minutes... because it's really noisy in here.... so I want to get out of here as soon as we're done with our dessert wine. BUT, while we're here for these few minutes.... [I motion her to lean in so I can whisper].... [whispering] I want you to go to the ladies room, take your panties off, and put them in your purse.
her: [giggles and turns away] No!
me: [whispering again] Just for a few minutes. Then, after we're done, you can put them back on and we'll leave.
her: Hmmm.... ok. [she complies]
In keeping with my objective for the evening, I thought, "hmm... now that I have her panties off, what else can I do?" So, as we enjoyed our dessert wines, I did some sexual kino on her inner thigh, and decided to go further in to DIRECT INTEREST and DOMINANCE and slowly moved my sexual kino up her inner thigh, up to the point that it was on her clit. I then gently and slowly teased that clit while we were drinking and bantering. During this time, I was purposely talking about EXTREMELY mundane subjects, including:
1. 80's music
2. Why disco music is no longer in fashion
3. Why I like classic rock n roll music
As I talked about these subjects, I started fingering her pussy with my middle finger under her dress. Since I BLP'd her into the set in textbook ABCs of Attraction fashion, I was able to guarantee that her logical mind would not take over as I was doing this. Then, I noticed that she was moving her hips forward and backward in order to push my finger deeper into her pussy. After about 25 seconds of that, I proceeded to bounce her out of the venue.
shit test #1
her: Where are we going?
me: For a walk in the park.
I could see right through this one immediately. She was waiting to see if I was going to give the AFC answer:
typical AFC answer: Um... uhhhhh.... back to... uhhh.... my place.
Instead, I just said that we're going for a walk in the park with total and supreme confidence, as if it was so as-a-matter-of-fact that it would be socially retarted if she didn't comply. She complied.
As were walking down the street, I spontaneously cave-man her in-between two cars, french her, and start fingering her pussy up her dress. As we were frenching, she again began moving her hips forward and back in order to push my finger further up her pussy and back out again.
At this point, I was reminded of that little Asian Playboy and Johnny Wolf voice inside my head that constantly says:
Asian Playboy: GENTLEMEN!!! I DEMAND RESULTS. THIS IS A COMPETITIVE SPORT, AND IT'S WINNER TAKE ALL.
So I decided to push the envelope even further. Normally, when I get a girl back to my place, I proceed to get her all hot and take her clothes off and push the interaction further. However, since I was able to get each successive compliance test to be progressively more deep into the erogenous zones, I decided that I'd try something different this time. Note: I've never done this before:
I asked her to sit on the couch, and I went to wash my hands in the bathroom. When I came out, I sat next to her, and did some sexual kino on her leg, but without turning my body language to her. I continued to face forward. She then saw this, and started leaning to face me. It was truly a triumphant experience for me. Then, I moved my hand progressively up her thigh until my pinky was rubbing her clit, and I could hear her moaning. Normally, at this point, I'd get on top of the girl and start making out with her and then proceed directly to the bone zone. However, I decided to try going deeper into DIRECT INTEREST and DOMINANCE by moving her hand onto my belt buckle to have her undo my belt and zipper. I then pushed my pants down and then gently moved her head there. Then, she just started going at it. At a certain point, she stopped, and I got this:
shit test #2:
her: [mischevious face]: What? What do you want?
I could see that the intention behind this shit test was to see if I'd give the typical AFC answer:
AFC answer: Um.... uhh....... could you please ..... uum...... service me?
However, thanks to my ingrained ABCs of Attraction curriculum and training, I would not allow myself to give that answer. Instead, what came out was:
me: [I put my hand on the back of her neck, grab a big wad of her hair, and pull her in to my face so that I can whisper in her ear]: I want you to SUCK my COCK.
She immediately let out some kind of moan and proceeded to go apeshit sucking my cock. During the 2nd day of my bootcamp, I recall the Asian Playboy indicating that women like to be dominated. However, it was not until this particular day 2 that I fully understood that principle.
...I bang her for several hours, and then we conk out and go to sleep. When we wake up in the morning, she gets dressed and puts on her makeup. She insisted that we see each other tonight, and originally I was thinking that it would be a bad idea to do that, but I said yes due to these circumstances:
1. I've been feeling pretty horny lately
2. I have a day 4 with a girl that has LMR up the wazoo, hb6.5controlfreak
So, I set it up so that I can continue to game hb6.5controlfreak, leave her wanting more, and then get my shit off at night with hb8.5 again tonight. It's kinda nice to have 3 or 4 fresh horses in the stables that are ready to ride.
her: What should I wear tonight?
me: Wear a mini skirt for me. And shave that pussy.
-Pump Action.
