Lay Report: Subway Cold approach 2 day lay.

I'm talking on the phone with my dad while I walk down the escalators to the subway waiting zones. A HB7.5 walks in front of me. She hears me then turns to catch a glimps of me wth her peripheral vision. Aproach Invitation.

I follow her to where she gets in line. AFter I get off the phone, I kino turn her and ask her if this is the right place to wait for the Train that takes me to "Sun yat sun Memorial Hall." She turns and smiles, no words ome out. The guys next to her tells me it is. I'm annoyed at the guy.

After we enter the tram, I stand close to her, facing her. I reopen after 2 stops. "Are you familiar with this area? I 'm looking the for the museum of contemporary arts."

"Yes, but it's not where your stop is at."
"oh, I know, I'm going to SYS memorial for a Job interview."
She IOIs with hair touching and hand scratching and I turn to Direct interest and Comfort.

I tell her I'm new in town and love to go to museums and such. She's back from University in Canada and explains she's somewhat familiar with this area.

"I guess I asked you cuz I think you're really pretty."
"No, there's prettier girls in City hall area."
"I don't do this much, but would you like to go get some coffee sometime? I'm getting off in 2 stops and I hate to not be able to get to know you better."
"okay"
I hand her my phone and she punches in the number.

I exit and tell her I'm all nervous and that I'll call her friday afternoon to go out.

I head to my interview and we end early, I give her a call back.

"Hey are you free? Let's meet up for coffee or dinner today."
"okay."

AFter I failed with my oneitis, I learned my lesson. I need to stop gaming non stop. I need to learn to be Real, fun, not fake and a routine junkie. I ran no "game" on her. I lowered my shield, exposed my weaknesses, told only truths, and we connected. Our eyes locked the entire night. blinking was the only interruption.

She later felt up my arms after asking me if I worked out. Then she felt my chest.

I left early, I had to wake up early for work the next day.

After work the next day, I call her. WE end up meeting at a international area where there's tons of chique cafes and coffee shops. We hold hands the entire time; our gaze and conversation gows deeper. I am myself, not a self indulgent PUA wannabe, but utterly real and honest about all that is me. I speak nothing about gaming, playing girls, or pua related routines or stuff. "I want to hold you, do you have an early day tomorrow?" She says no, she's has an appointment at 11am. " Let's go back to my place. It's a blink of an eye away from here."

I pay the bill and we head to my place. "promise we won't do anything, I just want to hold you." She giggles and agrees.

I don't even try to escalate her like I did for my oneitis. I take my time. We talk about matters of substance, we talk heart to heart. I listen and then she listens. Then I tell her lets talk ore in bed, "if that's okay with you." She nods and we move.

I remove a piece of clothing and talk for 15-20 mins. Then another piece, then more talking. soon, we're down to both wearing only panties. It's been 2 hours of talking and stripping. We make out and talk and eventually my finger is in her. then it happens. We end up doing it 2 more times and we fall asleep. I didn't need any pills, no sexual performance anxiety and no embarrassing " I can't get it up" b.s. We connected and I'm totally turned on.

I debrief 1 day later after another session and she tells me she knew she wanted to sleep with me when she felt my arms and chest the first day; it could have happened in 2 hours of meeting her.

She tells me how shocked she is, she never moves this fast. She tells me her eyes glazed over after 1 hour of talking to me. She says she feels like a highschool student being in a romantic encounter the fist time. All this from my acting real. No more gaming and trying to see everything and anything as a shit test. She tells me:

"I never hold hands with a guy the firs day, this is so not me."
"I understand, thank you for sharing that with me," then I kiss her on the cheek.

I picked up another chick the same day, HB8. Shceduled a day 2, but she never called me back. I picked her up and walked her back to her pad, I think I coulda closed right the and there wit " could I come up and see how your place looks?"

But I didn't, I flagged down and cab and told her we'll meet up later in the week. But in hindsight I knew it was possible because I stopped gaming. AFter attraction was done, which was in almost 10 seconds with proper body language and 1 joke, I went straight to serious, real, comfort. I made myself vulnerable to her. I lowered my defenses. I was nonreactive and gave off a giving, honest and caring vibe. I was being myself.

nice quote man.



nice. as Man Cannon said it, I'm most happy when I follow my heart... can't beat genuine interest.

cool, man. she sounds like a cool girl. congrads.

The Game...of no Game. Nice!

And nice sig quote - you come up with that?

lol, thanks guys, my dad told me an analogy about guys and women in our lives. Then I sorta put that quote together, so it's really his thing.

Guitar Hero,

I was getting worried at the point where you said "we were both wearing panties."

-Man Cannon

HAHAHA

shit

Really??? Holy cow, your dad is awesome!

I feel like I've missed out so much from lack of such male guidance in my life... Instead, bless his heart, but my dad only gave me pithy, self-defeatist ideals that backfired against me out in the real world. Like bringing a plastic knife to a gunfight. AGGHH!

Guitar Hero! You are the man! Seriously bro, I am so happy that you were able to find a happy medium in your game.

As I told you during the bootcamp, you are a great catch. Women are lucky to have you. But you used to give in too much too fast. Now you can just follow the same stucture of the game, and the ABC's of Attraction, while being geniune and direct. Great job bro, I'm really really happy for you!

Thanks brother, that means alot to me=)