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William
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Post subject: One thing that motivates Man Cannon  Posted: 13 Jul 2008, 00:17 |
Joined: 16 Sep 2007, 08:06 Posts: 865 Location: NYC (BC: NYC Oct, 07)
Bootcamp Graduate: Yes - NYC Oct 07
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One of the things that really motivates me and makes me feel so fuckin' great is seeing my fellow Asian American brothers implement the ABCs of Attraction curriculum, put it to use in the field, and try out new things they've never done before. Whenever I feel a little down, I usually try to go back to the things that are going really great in my life, and I use the feeling and the memory of those really awesome things to keep me positive and in a good mood. This is one example.
I just got off the phone with one of my students, willwonkurzz. He took his bootcamp 5 months ago. We hung out a few times over the course of the past couple of weeks, and he has been observing my systematic implementation of the method out in the field, and has been using that as a reminder for himself. Well, willwonkurzz has met a girl that makes his heart bounce, and I could clearly tell by the intonation in his voice over the phone that he's happy with this girl.
In describing the circumstances under which he was able to get slightly more serious with this girl (they are no longer just casually dating), willwonkurzz has gone way above and beyond what he would normally do with a girl. He was able to, for the first time, be completely direct with her regarding his sexual interest and intentions. This marks a pretty big breakthrough considering the way he used to be around women, and I'm so friggin' proud of the guy. Doing something like that takes a lot of strength and courage. There's actually no benefit to my life by him getting intimate with this girl. However, the sense of fulfillment and satisfaction that I get from seeing a student that I coached meet the girl of his dreams is an immeasurably awesome feeling.
That's just one of the things that keeps me motivated.
-Man Cannon
_________________ Formerly known as Man Cannon: Visit my blog: www.BetterAsianMan.WordPress.com: A lifestyle blog & podcast for Asian American men.
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Tommy Wu
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Post subject: Re: One thing that motivates Man Cannon  Posted: 14 Jul 2008, 19:35 |
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Joined: 05 May 2008, 16:20 Posts: 479 Location: San Jose, CA
Bootcamp Graduate: YES (BC: New York City, June 08)
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Before meeting Man Cannon and other members of ABC, I was feeling down and had started to lose faith in my ability to learn game. I have to say that the positivity that Man Cannon and other members of the ABC brotherhood (Initial D, Raven, Tank, KurayKillua) have helped me in those dire times. I'm pulling myself out, and the support is definitely appreciated.
Thanks.
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Gatsby
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Post subject: Re: One thing that motivates Man Cannon  Posted: 18 Jul 2008, 16:38 |
Joined: 13 Aug 2007, 20:07 Posts: 400
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Ditto to Martyr's comment.
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Rumble
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Post subject: Re: One thing that motivates Man Cannon  Posted: 18 Jul 2008, 19:08 |
Joined: 06 Jul 2007, 18:41 Posts: 625 Location: Chicago (BC: Vegas, Sept 07)
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i need to move to ny 
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Ozziesaurus Mex
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Post subject: Re: One thing that motivates Man Cannon  Posted: 26 Jul 2008, 10:47 |
Joined: 21 Jun 2007, 20:05 Posts: 481
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