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Text / Call – Next move ?
Hello Gareth, JT
After using your text to sex techniques via text messages, I went on a date last night with a girl I have known for years but have never been friends with and never had any interest from. We were texting each other very sexual texts before we agreed to meet up.
I know this girls history with guys and she is a very sexual girl, has had many partners and does not view sex as a big deal. However, she does make these partners invest heavily in her with time and money before sleeping with them usually and she often plays several guys at the same time. She specifically (and stupidly) told me that her tactic is to make guys want her really badly and desperately and one of the things she does is totally ignore the guys calls and texts after seeing them and this drives them mad and this gives her a power kick. This has not yet happened to me from her but I would like to avoid it.
So last night in the date, I ran my usual game on her and she was having a good time laughing and being very interested. She told me that she gets very turned on by a man speaking to her in Spanish even though she does not understand a word of it. Luckily I am fluent in Spanish. After about an hour, we were sitting besides each other and I started escalating through kino and by speaking to her in Spanish in a very sensual way. She told me she was getting too horny around me and needs to cool down. So she would get up and sit opposite me across the table in this private club we were at. After a while, I would tell her to come sit next to me again as it makes me look bad to have a girl sit far away from me especially when this is a private club that I’m a member of and people know me there (I said this in a jokey way). So she would come back. This happened back and forth a few times.
She did tell me that Spanish turns her on so much because she had a boyfriend who used to give her great sex and would speak to her in Spanish during sex so she associates the language in a very sexual way.
Whilst she was sitting next to me in this club, she would rest her body on mine by leaning back into me. I would then start biting her neck and I would whisper Spanish words into her ear. She then asked me what these words meant and I told her that it was what I was going to do to her. She wanted details so I told her how I was going to devour her and dominate her sexually in explicit details and she asked me to tell her more. She was getting very horny, groaning and grabbing my thigh, and telling me that I was not “playing fair” as she gets very turned on by my Spanish as that is her “only weakness”. Despite this, she did not want to get kissed. I did kiss her but only for about 10 seconds before she moved away. At the end of the night, I offered to take her home but she got in a cab and went home. I messaged her saying “U get home ok?” and she replied saying “Im in bed now cooling down”.
Please note: around the beginning of the night before all this sexual escalation happened, she told me that she likes to get guys very horny then leave them without having sex with them because she gets a high from knowing that the guy is very desperate to have sex with her. She said she also makes guys chase her by ignoring their texts and calls after seeing them as this makes them really mad and so she gets a power trip from being chased and admired. When she told me this, I told her that a previous girl tried doing that to me and I just went of and fucked other women and forgot all about her, and that this girl became very upset that she lost me, so these games wont work on me. She also said that she would never chase a guy.
What would you recommend I do so that I do not fall into this trap that she sets for other guys? What would you recommend as the next step? I should point out, I might not be able to see her until after Xmas. However, if that is too long and would kill attraction then I can see her before.
Thank you very much
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