Just got this question from Arturo and I wanted to share it with you, because I think it brings up a really important topic that I want to share my thoughts on. First, read below:
“hey
my name is arturo, and i would like to ask you for some specific advice.
What if the girl you are texting is only laughing and is giving no material to work on and is no commenting the thing you tell her...
Example:
Me: hey you are my favorite forbidden fruit
She:hahahaha!
Me: the more i talk to you, you are sweeter.
she:hahaha
and after that she only laughs!! seems like stupid but i want that laughing habbit out of her so i can scalate.
thanks, appreciate it
”
Girls laughing to every response is a pretty common problem that a lot of guys have and there is an easy way around it. First, let’s break down your text game (I’m going to be as honest as I can), and then we’ll talk about how to solve the problem.
You are being SUUUUPPPERRR cheesy. Why are you telling her how great she is? Why are you constantly complimenting her? In all reality, you’re probably just making her uncomfortable. In terms of compliments, you always want to give a woman a specific compliment so that she knows it’s coming from the heart, not just something general that you’ve seen works in the movies. When complimenting a woman, you’re going to have more success making her feel good by saying something like, “I really like how perfectly done your hair is. How long did you spend doing it?” rather than, “I like your hair.” You want her to feel special more than you want to use a line.
Your English isn’t very good. I have to be honest here, one of the first prerequisites to having good text game is that you have to speak English well. In this case, what you’re saying to her might not be hitting home (making her feel good) because of the way you’re wording it. Frankly, depending on the girl, she might even be laughing at you because of how it’s worded. We want to eliminate those types of variables for maximum effect.
You’re not giving her a reason to respond. You’re just complimenting her, which is never going to illicit any useable response. We know this from club game. It’s why we don’t just walk up to girls and say “You’re hot.” Because they’re just going to say “Thanks” and walk away. We want to get them engaged. Next time you text her, give her a reason to answer you. ‘Hahah’ is going to be her default “I am responding, but you haven’t given me any reason to respond” text, so you’re going to need to do something to get her engaged.
In all interactions, whether it be in person, over the phone, or over text, you must assume that you’re going to do 100% of the work. In order to get her engaged with you, use questions to get her responding and then, once you’re having a proper conversation, use our Text To Sex to escalate and seduce here right in the palm of your hands.
Hope this helps!
