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 Post subject: the "Older Guy" Syndrome
PostPosted: 12 Oct 2011, 11:04 
Sage

Joined: 05 Aug 2011, 12:01
Posts: 68
Location: cleveland ohio
Bootcamp Graduate: LA Oct 2011
I would like to hear from any other guys that have taken a boot camp OVER 40.
Is it the Emperor New Cloths Syndrome to deny that older guys are spinning their wheels ( at least in the United States ) if they are seeking females under say.....30.

Im evidently the oldest guy to take a boot camp...Im 60...but look 50.


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 Post subject: Re: the "Older Guy" Syndrome
PostPosted: 12 Oct 2011, 22:38 
Alumni

Joined: 14 Jan 2008, 23:16
Posts: 1305
Location: Las Vegas, NV
Bootcamp Graduate: Yes (BC: Vegas, Jan 08)
Hey Malibu51,

First, I think you are doing great! I love your positive attitude.

I am over 40. I took the bootcamp a few years back.

Hooking up with women in their 30s is actually very do-able for you. From my field experience, women in their 30s do like older men or the really young guys (in their 20s). The young guys are usually just boy toys to them. But the older men are what they actually want to keep. (IMO)

I winged a friend of mine last week who is in his late 50's while he was visiting my city and he hooked up with a 24 yr old blonde (model type). It was his first one night stand ..haha. I think it was b/c my amazing wingman skillz that night LOL.

PS. i have a female friend who is 24 who is planning to marry a man over 60 and have a family. So hey, I dont see any age syndrome for anyone.

Enjoy yourself out there!

Straycat


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 Post subject: Re: the "Older Guy" Syndrome
PostPosted: 12 Oct 2011, 22:57 
Koi Fish

Joined: 27 Sep 2011, 22:09
Posts: 30
Location: SF Bay Area
Bootcamp Graduate: Yes. SF Nov '11
Heh Malibu, I agree with Straycat. Two giant thumbs up on your attitude!

From now on I dub thee "OG". From someone of my 'urban' background, that's a sign of serious respect, yo. (seriously, no joke).


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 Post subject: Re: the "Older Guy" Syndrome
PostPosted: 13 Oct 2011, 03:08 
Sage

Joined: 05 Aug 2011, 12:01
Posts: 68
Location: cleveland ohio
Bootcamp Graduate: LA Oct 2011
Thanks Guys for the MOJO !
Years ago I gave up on the scene in the USA. Bought into what my expat buddies overseas were saying about american women. Had a girlfriend for a year in the Philippines. Also no problem with a hookup in Shenzhen, China. But America is my home turf and no matter how the clock is ticking, I want to make my mark here !


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 Post subject: Re: the "Older Guy" Syndrome
PostPosted: 19 Oct 2011, 14:17 
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Joined: 04 Sep 2007, 12:27
Posts: 212
Bootcamp Graduate: YES (BC: NYC, Oct 07)
I'm 35 years old now. Not too old but not really young either. I think a couple of times girls made comments of my age of being too old. On side note they were all Korean girls that said that. That's because to Korean people age is important thing but I think with non-asian girls it's less of an issue with them. Age just like anything else like looks, income , height...etc..can be used as an excuse not to live your life fully.

I say fuck them if a girl has an issue with your age...or any other issues.


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 Post subject: Re: the "Older Guy" Syndrome
PostPosted: 19 Oct 2011, 15:15 
Sage

Joined: 05 Aug 2011, 12:01
Posts: 68
Location: cleveland ohio
Bootcamp Graduate: LA Oct 2011
Its all experience. Im game now to approach anyone who strikes my fancy. If Im rejected, I dont look upon them as a problem. I later reflect on my game and determine if another idea, or word, or glance etc..might have made a difference.
Im a success in business because I never accepted a locked door as a hinderance. I didnt realize until my bootcamp that the same attitude will work in the social world.
For you guys who are just reading these posts, but have not tried a bootcamp, try it ! Read "The Game" . You only got one life to live
and you should go for it.


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