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 Post subject: Help! 26 year old virgin.
PostPosted: 24 Dec 2011, 22:31 
Hungry Ghost

Joined: 05 Dec 2011, 09:02
Posts: 5
I'm an asian guy who has gone through these steps in life

1 - Get good grades
2 - Go to university
3 - Get a job
4 - Get a gf only after step 3

Now that 2011 comes close to an end, I also realized that I am sadly still a virgin at 26 years old and never had a serious relationship! I was an abcs of attraction alumni (took a bootcamp one year ago) and took the advice that JT recommended me. I lost some weight and currently have braces (the metallic ones coz i dont qualify for invisalign). Currently I have not gamed a lot since i've got the braces and I am hoping the braces will come off by the end of 2012.

So are there any virgin guys who are 25+ who are struggling like me on this forum? It seems that everybody have lost it around 15-20 and before they took a bootcamp.

Also,
Since i can't get any girls on a date because of my braces, should i get a hooker to get some sexual experience and lose my v-card?


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 Post subject: Re: still virgin at 26
PostPosted: 26 Dec 2011, 03:35 
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Joined: 11 Jun 2008, 19:52
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Location: Heidelberg, Germany
Bootcamp Graduate: YES (BC: May 09, New York City)
well, continue to work hard on improving yourself as a man. That will help you in the long run, becoming a more attractive man.

Concerning your braces, I doubt that it is such a big issue as you assume. We always see things as more negative as others in that regard. Sure, there might be some girls who dislike it, but there are for sure more girls who dont care at all. There is no need for excusing yourself for wearing braces. you should be proud, that you do sth. to improve your looks/health.

Not sure if hiring a hooker helps with sexual anxiety. I doubt it, but maybe others see it differently.

Summary: Improve yourself as a man and dont assume that others only see you in a negative light.


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 Post subject: Re: Help! 26 year old virgin.
PostPosted: 04 Jan 2012, 15:28 
Bodhisattvas

Joined: 21 Jun 2007, 20:05
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I had braces for 4 years... when I was younger it didn't change my game for me. After I got them removed I hated wearing a retainer so after a while I stopped.
Most of my teeth remained aligned but 1 or 2 shifted back, but it have nicer teeth than before braces.

Its nice that you listed your academics but what else are you doing to make you an attractive man? How do you balance your life? What steps are you taking to create a solid strong identity?

Say you pay to loose your v-card then what? you are still in the same situation minus some sperm.



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