LR: first lay report coming out of an LTR

So I met this girl from one of the FR's I wrote. She's the crazy hb6.5 with a nice body.

After meeting that night, we texted back and forth. I have been very busy lately trying to finish my required hours at work and because I have to leave for Asia next tuesday, I've just been busy busy busy.

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Then one night she texted me and asked if I wanted to join her and her friend at O' Reilly's, a bar on the party strip of the town.

I don't have a car and she told her buddy who's a cab driver to come pick me up. I just had to tip him $10 and no meter.

When I finally arrived I meet her friend hb6.5 tattoo. She's also a little crazy too. (What I mean by crazy is that they seem really hyper, and they talk a lot, I can't get a word in, so I mostly just listen and nod)

We get to the bar and they've already ordered a fish bowl, a big bowl full of Captain and Coke and 3 straws. Eventually I told Fratboy to come join me as my girl had a friend and he could try his luck.

Fratboy comes and we all basically barhop the entire night until closing time.

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hb6.5 tattoo had chatted up a storm with some guy and my hb6.5 gets annoyed and orders fratboy to get his car and come back to pick us up. She's so demanding.

While waiting, hb6.5 asks me if I wanted to stay over tonight and she continues with

"but you can't be gross, don't think you're getting lucky tonight."

I smile and tell her I'll try not to be gross.

eventually fratboy returns and we head to her place. She invited us inside and her roommate is still up. We all chat and hb6.5 asks if fratboy wanted to sleep on the couch. Fratboy thinks about it and hb6.5 takes me upstairs.

We get into bed and she gives me a bunch of resistance.

She'll put my hands on her and then when she's feeling too excited, she'll throw my hands away and tell me "don't be gross" or "oh you're too gross!" or "okay we have to stop."

I realized we might not have built enough comfort and that's why I was met with all this resistance and LMR. so, mustering up the last bit of energy I had, I proceeded to building comfort.

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We talked about some random stuff, like when was she working again, when's the next time she has a day off, etc.. How I'm glad I came out, told her thanks for being persistent with trying to get me to come out, etc etc. Eventually we started talking about more intimate topics and some stories to turn on some attraction switches, like how I came to be in the middle of America and my passions. I cold read her and told her how I like the sweet side of her and that she should show me more of that side.

She became more responsive, however I was still far from getting over that huge hump of an LMR. I had to wake up at 10am the next day and I really just wanted to sleep. Around 4 am I didn't even care about the full close anymore.

I tried one last time to turn her on again, to mount her, and was met again with rejection. until finally I just went to sleep. I remembered Johnny taught us how we should deal with LMR and if that's not going well, we should just sleep and try again in the morning, so sleep time.

morning comes around, like 2 hours later, and she's shuffling about in bed. I turn her on and it starts all over again....

"don't be gross" "okay that's too much!" "okay you have to stop."

Each time I would stop and let her cool down. Eventually she started going at it by herself and so I went in.


We had sex for no more than 5 mins and she tells me to get off of her and "that's too much." "you're so gross"

I've had enough and just went back to sleep.

After we woke up she made me breakfast and wanted to pay for my taxi ride back home. Nice...what a gentleman, I think to myself, and we part ways.
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She was sweet but her LMR and constant back and forth really made me have a draining night.

Thinking back, I realized she games me more than I gamed her. I sort of just passively let her lead the interaction. The only part I took initiative was the sex, which was very tiresome.


But at least I'm kind of getting back into the groove.


Things she did well:
She showed me her room a week before and rushed me out, this made me comfortable and not scared to come back. She persistently tried to bump up my BT and would always try to find something interesting for me to come to with her through her texts. She gave me space when I didn't respond to her texts, but would continue to text me the following day. She number closed me the first night with directive and determination. She extracted me and figured out logistics using Fratboy. She did preventative LMR by telling me I'm not getting lucky tonight."

Things I did well: I didn't get mad when she rejected my trying to have sex with her like 50,000 times. I let her lead the interaction until it was time for me to do my part. I became a girl. I got to experience what it feels like to be gamed.

Things I should work on: I should be the guy. I should go out more after all my work is done, which is kind of impossible right now.

Anyways, sorry, the majority of this lay report is about my dealing with her major LMRs and constant back and forth between wanting sex and then thinking it's too much stimulation.

She still keeps texting me to hang out with her. If I didn't have to work so much, I would, but just thinking about all that work right now and missing out on a much needed good night's sleep dealing with her LMR just turns me off.

The point is, at least I got laid and even though I didn't finish, the experience is helping me to forget about the oneitis.


As always thanks for reading guys, comments and suggestions are always appreciated.

-GH

After readng this, it seems like either this girl just like knowing she has control in the interaction and loves the validation it giives her, or she was giving you token resistance and likes to be man handled and dominated against her will. It literally makes no sense why a girl would make it that easy for you to close and then just put up all that resistance and let you fuck her for a little while. I think she has rape fantasies and shit like saying no while fucking turns her on. Good job on plowing with this girl though lol, she is obviously off her rocker.

Yea she definitely likes to be in control. The only time I took over was in bed. Thanks for the reply Jay always appreciated and I'll keep working on taking the lead. Wish me luck.

Luck wished and granted Keep husting.