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ozmonger
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Post subject: I suck at PUA!!!  Posted: 09 Jan 2012, 01:21 |
Joined: 26 Apr 2011, 00:17 Posts: 65 Location: Monterey Bay,CA
Bootcamp Graduate: Dec. 2010 L.A.
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I took the Dec. 2010 bootcamp in Los Angeles and I've been going out 3 to 6 nights/days a week consistently. I have about 3000 sets so far(a conservative estimate). I'm getting very depressed and discouraged as I only banged 1 chick and she was a BBW I scraped up on Craigslist personals. I'm angry and frustrated as I see other alumni putting in far less effort and getting laid 1 or 3 months post bootcamp.
I have several pre existing handicaps such as blepharospasm, monotone voice, boring personality, extreme shyness, age, low energy....you name it I have it.
What can I do? I need to get laid! I'm considering giving up PUA. How much more torture and humiliation do I have to endure?
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RockSoldier
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Post subject: Re: I suck at PUA!!!  Posted: 09 Jan 2012, 11:36 |
Joined: 08 Jul 2009, 12:37 Posts: 25
Bootcamp Graduate: YES (BC: New York 1on1, July 09)
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Hey -
I have just started sarging again and realize how difficult it is too - and as you can see from the first FR I ever wrote, I get easily discouraged as well.
Make sure to remember what you did well, but also remember and learn from what you did poorly.
Now, luring fat chicks into your house with a trail of Doritos probably doesn't help your state of mind either. The point should not be to get laid but to turn yourself more confident - then you will get laid anyway!
I don't think you should compare yourself to other PUAs, but instead you should learn from them - read and write field reports. All the tools that you need are there and everyone could better help you if you give play-by-plays of what you did during the pick up rather than just saying "I suck." Look at everyone on this message board: we are all sure that you are the man.
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Keeper
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Post subject: Re: I suck at PUA!!!  Posted: 09 Jan 2012, 16:54 |
Joined: 20 Dec 2008, 13:20 Posts: 26
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The fact that after supposedly "3000" sets you still haven't bothered to improve your tonality and express your "boring" personality through the use of storytelling already tells me a lot about the reason why you aren't being successful.
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