I was finishing up some work and, unfortunately for me, I was in a rush. As I'm walking through the streets of Union Square, a beautiful Asian woman walks past me. Based on her appearance and body language, I was fairly sure she isn't from this country. I knew that since my gut told me she wasn't from this country and that she was Asian, I had to somewhat give some thought to my approach. I couldn't kino her right from the get go because I might frighten her. She had that look to her like she was fragile. lol.
A (Attitude, Attract, Approach) and B (Buying Temperature, Banter, Being In The Moment)I chase after her a great distance away and at about 4 or 5 feet away, I open my mouth and in a friendly tone say, "Hey there!" to get her to turn without being startled.
She turns around.
I stop jogging after her at about proper speaking distance. I give her a warm smile and raise my eyebrows to show non threatening facial/body language. I kino her on the shoulder and say, "Listen, I saw you from over that and you walked right past me. I wanted to tell you that you are SO beautiful and I wanted to say hi." My god, she was stunning! I thought she was beautiful from several feet away but upclose, words couldn't describe how gorgeous she was.
I tell her my name and ask for hers. With a smile, she tells me her name and we shake hands. She attempts to walk away but I stand my ground and plant my feet as she starts walking away. I turn my face and torso to her and I tell her, "You must be Christmas shopping like everyone else here."
She stops and turns to me. "Oh, I'm not. I'm actually on a one hour break from volunteering at that church over there."
"I'm familiar with that church." I slowly walk closer to her so that we are at proper speaking distance again. "I'm actually working right now and you caught my eye so I had to stop what I was doing just to talk to you."
She gives a flattered kind of laugh.
"Hey, listen, I was going to get some coffee before going back to work. You should join me." I give a warm smile.
"Okay that sounds nice." She smiles back.
We walk together to the nearest coffee shop.
C (Comfort, Connection)*INSTANT-DATE*I place my order and I ask her what she wants. I pay for the both of us and while we wait for our drinks, we talk.
She tells me she's Filipino and on a layover. She tells me she works as a flight attendant based out in Dubai. I tell her about my friend's cousin who works for the same airlines who is also based out in Dubai.
At this point I'm pretty much doing all the talking. This was expected.
Silence.
I look at her in the eyes and we smile.
I poke her on the arm.
She laughs and says, "What are you doing?"
"I'm trying to find your button so you can talk."
She laughs.
"You're too shy."
She laughs.
"You need to talk to me more." I smile.
She starts to ask questions about me. Where I'm from, what I do. I tell her.
The barista calls my name to pick up our drinks.
She follows me and I hand her her drink.
D (Dominance, Direct Interest)"Listen, I really have to run," I said.
Her face displays genuine dissapointment.
I continue, "It's a shame that we caught each other at such a bad time. I really want to get to know you better."
She nods her head in agreement.
I tell her, "Look, I know this is very brief and I would ask for your number but I know that if I contact you you're probably just going to ignore it because--"
She interrupts me and says, "Let's exchange emails!"
"Do you have an American number?"
"I do, but to be honest, I don't remember it."
I hand her my phone. "Here, enter your email here."
"Okay!" She grabs my phone and types in her email.
As she types her email I fluff talk about phones or whatever. I can't remember. lol.
I tell her that I will email her and want to see her tomorrow.
She tells me that she leaves SF the next day but comes back every month or so.
I tell her that I want to see her the next time she comes back.
She says she wants to see me again too. Then she asks me if I understand Tagalog. I tell her yes. I tell her to say something me in Tagalog. She does and I respond back in English.
She laughs.
I go on to tell her in Tagalog that it's really cold outside today.
She laughs in agreement.
I tell her, "Hey, I'm really going to email you. Don't forget me because I know there's a good chance you're just not going to respond back since we didn't talk for very long."
"I won't forget you!"
I put out my pinky finger.
Before I could say anything she locks her pinky with mine and says, "Pinky promise!"
Later that evening I email her like I said I would.
Two days later she finds me on Facebook and sends a friend request as well as a message about how it was nice meeting and all that other stuff.
As I look through her Facebook I see a good looking white guy in a couple of her pictures. The comments mention him as her boyfriend. Hmm, she never mentioned a boyfriend. lol. These look like old pics. Eh, you never know until you try.
Based on his pictures he's tall, he's good looking, probably fit, and probably fucking boring.
I got this.
Time to use Text to Sex, baby!
