FR #31 - Seeing the Matrix Again, Objective Found!

I learned so much tonight. This was fantastic... Keep in mind everyone-

Every single night out is an opportunity to learn, grow and become better than before

Tonight's main lesson learned - "It's not so god damn different out here..."

I used to be so worked up that LA was so tough, so tier 1, so crazy difficult. The last 2 nights I've gone out have been a WASTE because I was so god damn shell shocked and scared. I was so fearful and afraid of failure, but I saw that after I failed, it's not so bad. In the NLP manual I am currently studying, it states:

Change is always instant. It's never gradual and it happens immediately.

After pondering this thought, I looked at my trip to LA. Sure I had to plan it, get plane tickets, and pack 2 bags, but when I got here, I was instantly here. It wasn't like my left leg was in LA for a week then my head shipped later, I WAS IN LA IMMEDIATELY AND I HAD TO CHANGE, ADAPT, and CONQUER. When PUAFusion was scared shitless on the first night of his bootcamp with me in January, his change was INSTANT, since he CONQUERED night 2. He got over his AA, his fears, and limiting beliefs because he immediately chose to not listen to the voice of doubt and insecurity. It was INSTANT.

So I want you all to learn from this, if you want to change, grow, and improve yourself, it happens NOW. It happens TODAY. IT HAPPENS WHEN YOU CHOOSE TO MAKE IT HAPPEN.

So onto the night...
A PHASE
I'm outside having a smoke before the club opens. A girl approaches me, "Do you have a smoke?" This girl needs a nicotine buzz and I'm playing her, teasing her and calling her needy.

B PHASE
I break out in laughter, kino tap and say, "I'm fucking with you! Jeez!" Then I banter about being new here, new to Hollywood and LA. She immediately becomes friendly and offers to show me around. I tell her to take me around Hollywood Boulevard but she can't. She asks me for my number. I act hesitant and she shit tests me, saying she shouldn't. I play it off and say,
"Awww, well you SEEM like a nice girl, so I GUESS I can give you my number." We exchange. I will hold her ass accountable for it


BLONDE HB10
A PHASE
I open this girl standing alone, bored looking at everyone dance. You're fucking beautiful

B PHASE
The first thing that comes to my mind is that her name is the same as my first High School homecoming date. I banter and tell her about another beautiful girl I had a thing with in High school, make funny, she laughs. We keep talking and talking, she sticks around surprisingly. I see Ozzie swing past me on my right as I continue to banter.

C PHASE
As we talk and talk, I couldn't isolate her. I keep building comfort and go for the number close. She agrees and says I'm the most energetic Asian guy she's met tonight (SCORE!!!!!). We exchange. First HB10 blonde's number. I feel great, rage mode starts to enter me. She ejects immediately after the exchange. I have a feeling this one is going to flake, but I'm glad I pulled the trigger.

A PHASE
Tall blonde, Amazon opener, she is taken by it... Somewhat.

B PHASE
She's cold. I kiss her on the hand and twirl her around. Nothing much happens here...


THE FUN PLAYFUL SET
A PHASE
I compliment and qualify a girl on her outfit. Her boyfriend immediately comes over to take her away. AMOG time!

B PHASE
I find they're boyfriend and girlfriend, but that's no excuse NOT to inject fun into their lives. I banter and banter about being new to LA, coming from Chicago, roller coasters and more. I joke with the girl about stealing her boyfriend and even go as far to PULL HER BOYFRIEND AWAY as if I was going to steal him like the mysterious stranger I am. She is laughing and her boyfriend is starstruck, not knowing what to say to the guy dressed 1000% better than him, in better shape, more attractive, etc. I inject as much fun as I can and eject, since I know that I probably won't get much from the couple. I am glad that I used this opportunity to jump on this group of people, inject fun into their lives and leave an impression of a fun, playful, and energetic Asian guy. The girl seriously laughed so hard she may have pissed her mini-skirt and they guy was so starstruck he could't pronounce his vowels after I was done with em.


LESSONS LEARNED
-Adjustment period's over! Fuck it, go party and rock up LA just like I tore up Chicago
-It's OK to act out of fear, in fact, It's probably a good thing I was scared!
-Approach, approach, approach... Even if its a new city, just grow a sack and approach the damn girl. You've got nothing to lose!
-HAVE FUN - inject a little bit of fun into the person's life. People will often forget what you say, but they will never forget how you made them feel.


It's been 3 days of nighttime sarging. I'm glad I did this and I'm looking forward to more adventures in the City of Angels. There's so much more room for my personal growth, and I believe that I'm in the right place to make it happen. I'm with the tier 1 dawgs now. No more small pond here, it's time to sack up, approach, and become the master I desire to become. I'm seeing the matrix again... It's not exactly green like in Chicago, more of a blueish color. It's different, but in a good challenging way. Time to kick some ass and get some results!

Glad you had a good time buddy. Nice job!

I would love to go sarging with one of you guys someday. Probably will when I decide to go to LA to do my electives. After the fiasco that happened today, my AA went from a 2/10 to a 10/10 and I'm getting really scared to go direct again. What do you do when that happens?

All that happened to you Raigon was that you were knocked down. Question is, will you get back up?

Rejection sucks, we've all been through it and it totally blows, but getting rejected is a part of growing as a human. Accept rejection and understand that it will only serve you well. I remember replying to this in your FR from earlier and on the Seddit Q and A. Go ahead and look at those replies.

Hang in there, direct game is a higher risk, but a much higher reward!

BenJ

Yeah, I saw those replies - thanks! I posted this here before you responded so that question was a bit out of date. But thanks for the encouragements! Will continue sarging.