4 months after bootcamp

It's been a few months since doing bootcamp, and sarging has been a bit on and off. Didn't do any over the summer, but back in NYC now and doing a bit more recently.

Last night I made up a good opener on the spot - just went up to a girl who was sitting by herself and said 'You look like a woman who needs some company... And I'm the man to give it to you!' She seemed well into that, and we chatted for 15 minutes or so. Good times!

I'm still a big newbie though, so not so good at getting numbers and escalating. I was on a date about a week ago, and had been chatting to this gorgeous woman for over two hours. Then doing lots of kino - magic tricks and hand games - then I said some stupid thing about her having high heels which meant she was a naughty girl... which totally turned her off. Her next words were 'I'm tired, I think I need to go soon.' We walked up to where we could get a taxi, and I kissed her on the lips - but she wasn't into that, offered her cheek and pulled away. So crash and burn.
How would you experts do differently?

Cheers..

generally physically escalating is very important, you have to learn to pull the trigger earlier with kiss closing early. It doesnt hurt you if she rejects you early, it just shows her that you are not afraid of that.

I can ensure you that making a physical move early on a date gives more positive results for the rest of the interaction.

Thanks Picks, I'm great at getting into comfort - like a lot of guys I guess. That's my problem, and I end up in the friend zone all the time. But will try and escalate earlier then. Will let you know how it goes...
Cheers.

Hey,
Its good that youre still going out after 4 months from a bootcamp. I wouldve done the same thing. Remember your here to get the skillset not the girl. So keep pushing all your sets and how far you can get way with things!

Cheers

Couldnt have said it better myself!