Kaida wrote:
Im single bed, and i think double bed kinda shows that u were anticipating a girl that she was gonna sleep there. Single beds shows that u were there didnt think she was gonna so you can fuck and ask her to leave or what not
I honestly wouldn't care too much. If you analyze too much, it'll show. So for me, I honestly don't care if it's a single bed or double bed. I'm living in a place where I can sleep comfortably. And if I get a double bed, yay! For room for me to sleep and I won't fall off the bed.
But I'm not thinking too much about Kiss closes or F-closes. K-closes and F-closes are stuff that comes and goes and it's not something you can hold on to - only a fleeting memory. I'd prefer going to establish connection and getting a number close and going further with that. One night stands aren't my thing. Empty sex with no future feels... well, empty. There's nothing meaningful about that. No development. Nothing. An empty memory. No more. A hundred of them, especially after my 2 experiences at the brothel, feel somewhat meaningless and just disappears and goes. In my opinion, I'd rather have one perfection relationships than a hundred wildly passionate, but empty one night stands. Of course, a one night stand is not impossible to develop into a long term relationship, but it's difficult that it's borderline on impossible unless you work hard or have something really strong going.
I don't mind sleeping around to get some experience. But I'm sure everyone long term eventually want someone they want to settle down with. Because no matter what it looks like, over the long term, if you're old and still a PUA without someone who you can spend the rest of your life with, a PUA will still be one of the most loneliest creatures on earth.
Of course, I'm not aiming to get into a serious relationship just yet. I'm still young and I want to have fun for one thing. I'm not secure or emotionally stable enough to maintain a long term relationship until I can learn to love myself and trust people again. I'm still in school and have a huge debt on my shoulder so I won't be able to support a long term relationship. However, casual dating and pickup, I still will do for fun and for experience.
