Haven't updated in a little while, my bad.
This first part is a post I wrote in my personal blog that I thought I'd share.
I meet up with Dick at Drinkers/Noche and I immediately start hitting on some chicks. One thing I noticed that really helps, along with dancing, is generally just being very loud and projecting my voice. Girls like loud dudes, what can I say. I suppose it's an alpha trait or simply not very effective if they can't hear a dude.
Anyway we start drinking, and start drinking hard. I no longer have any stock openers but last night I learned that going direct in a club is highly ineffective. At some points I was going up to some girls and straight up insulting them and that seemed to work pretty well lol. At some point I find two Korean girls and we go outside to talk cuz it's too loud. At this point Dick is upstairs, Dickin around with some chick so I figured he'd be all right on his own.
We start heading back toward my crib and I'm planning how I'm going to set up my first threesome. One of the girls (hotter one) starts complaining and their logical minds start going off: "Hey...what are we going to do at your place?"
Fuck! Forgot to give them plausible deniability (go back to smoke, eat, play DDR). The best I could come up with was to drink but they didn't want to do that. They left and I got their numbers but was blueballed. Shitballs.
(Lesson - don't push too hard, pushiness is a turnoff)
Sorta pissed, I left that place and went to an after hours spot called Pulse. I hung out with some random chicks I met there until they realized I didnt come with anyone, which apparently killed my social value.
At some point I sat next to two hot Vietnamese girls who took to me very well. There was a fairly hot Caucasian girl to my left, but I had called my Korean wing to come over and help me out and I figured he would be able to help me out with these girls. We brought them back to my crib and I was able to start playing drinking games with them in my place.
They invited their dude friend over without telling me, which is where it all got fucked. Why does this kind of shit happen?
I made out with HBViet for a while but she didn't put out because her friends were pretty much right there (I live in a studio). Oh my goodness, those knockers and that ass. I couldn't control myself.
She left her cell phone here and came at like 9 AM to come get it. I was trying to get in her pants again but her friend was waiting downstairs so that didn't work. Whatever man, I could have made it a quickie.
She wasn't as beautiful in the morning but the body was still out of control fine.
I've been commuting back and forth from NY a lot lately so my schedule has been exhausting and hectic, but I finally got back home to Philly last night. When I got back, I ran into a hottie (Czech, 5'6, sweet bod) while she was with her parents. Her mom stopped me and mentioned that we'd met before (elevator) so I started to get into a conversation with them.
I'm an only son, I know how to milk parents
After a great banter with them, I took the elevator up with HB Czech. She showed me a lot of compliance during our forty second interaction by holding the elevator until it started making an SOS alarm type noise. I got her number and called her today, but it turns out she went home for the weekend.
No worries. I sorta like the feel of this one and think she could make for more of an LTR type deal.
In other news, I daygamed again today to get back in the swing of things. After several decent but unremarkable sets, I went direct on a juicy blond in Daffy's. I've been going indirect to direct lately for a couple of reasons:
1. She complies by answering my first question and is able to see that I am a normal person who is capable of handling a conversation
2. I can get a sense of how much of a rush she is in
Anyway, I went indirect by asking her where the nearest bookstore is. She responded in a French accent. HOT.
I then went direct on her and she melted, just like they always do. I went into some banter about how I'm going to Paris in October although she is actually Swiss. After some light qualifying I decided that I had enough attraction and wanted to switch to a comfort building location. I bounced her to Naked Chocolate (hot chocolate place).
We went to Naked Chocolate and then Capagiro but both of them were sort of packed. In fact, I almost felt like we were being deliberately ignored at Capagiro for some reason. Anyway, I took her to starbucks where we got two lattes to go. The whole time I was just making banter with her. I try to keep the structure of my conversations simple because I feel like I'm naturally a decent conversationalist so I generally followed this pattern:
-Cold Read "You seem like a sporty girl"
-Qualify "Are you into any sort of athletics or arts here?"
-SOI "You do ballet? That's sooo sexy."
-DHV "I'm into salsa and breakdancing myself."
Then just random conversation. I try to avoid barriers to conversation as much as possible and keep the game related stuff more relevant to logistics (moving her around, bringing her to the crib).
After we got our lattes I brought her to a liquor store so that I could pick up some scotch, as I ran out last weekend with HB Viet. I then asked her if she wanted to come see my Shanghai pictures because they were totally awesome. She said yeah, for sure.
That was pretty good plausible deniability right there but for some reason I feel like it wouldn't have worked as well on a White American girl. I just get the feeling that, based on my personal experience, European women are much more attracted to/open to Asian men in general. I could be wrong, I just call it how I see it.
I brought her to my crib and we chatted for a while. I decided that I had to escalate physically so I insisted that I teach her how to salsa. We started to grind a little and I went in for the kiss, but then she sort of started freaking out about her boyfriend in Switzerland. Hmm, all right then. I took a step back and we sat back down. After ten more minutes of comfort I tried to get her back up to salsa but she wasn't having that.
At this point I had to make it to a prior commitment so I decided to call it a day. She hangs out with a bunch of French expat girls so I'm going to try to meet up with them. If I can't hit that, I want to see if I like any of her friends.
I set up a day two to get coffee with HB Czech. I think HB Swiss likes me a lot but is worried she will cheat on her boyfriend. She won't be able to hang out for two weeks from now, and I think by that time the attraction might fizzle out.
Oh well, there are other beautiful Euro women in Philly. Like HB Czech, who lives in my building.
As a side note, I definitely had a great rapport with her parents which I think gave me huge bonus points. Both times I met her, she was with her mother so I'm starting to wonder to what extent and degree that affected her first impression of me. Regardless, I think it was a win-win.