TANK's 30 days of Dominance

I have not figure out all the rules to this. I can do direct, but verbally escalating is tough. So to all those that know me and want to give their two cents on a rule to add in, feel free. Otherwise if I don't do at least one of these, I'll owe $5 bucks.

Rules
Verbelly Sexually escalate(ex. to use)
-On a scale of 1-10, how good of a kisser are you.
-Gimme a kiss here.
-Do you like to pleasure yourself
-Sometimes I have nasty thoughts about you.
-Kino them
-Kiss neck, cheek, avoid mouth for now.
-Talk sexual
-What do you think love was like when you were akid
-Whats your favorite position
(and dont laugh when you say this. Stop laughing period when this section hits.)
-Command them to do something from moving position to picking up your books.

Dominance.
-amoging




2. honest in reporting
3. post results
4. NO NEGATIVE COMMENTS ALLOWED by fellow posters, unless I know you.
5. f you fail to do a Kamikaze opener that day, you owe your Wingman $5.
6. Aiming for 5 dates by Valentines.

And if at anytime you feel weak or not empowered remember the bullcrap that jap girl put you through and how she used you. and throw in those other two abc girls too.

So did two sets today at the bars.

Approach a two set.
Attract: (touch shoulder) I think your absolutely beautiful.(she acts sorta disinterested) Thank you.(They start walking across the boardwalk) I ask her about her heritage. Italian. As I keep plowing, her friend pulls away.

In Neomez, see a chick by herself as her wing girl is quacking away. I open direct
A: Direct
B: This is hard. I start plowing. I relate on how I grew up in a mexican place with all mexican people. First crush is mexican. This sorta disarms her. Then I ask her if thats how she grew up. We relate. Then I try to thread it onto what cartoons we watched as kids. She says smurfs. I dunno a good smurf response is. I mentions ninja turtles and power ranger. I say she looks like the pink ranger, realizing she doesn't. Conversation starts getting boring again.

D:
TANK:So on a scale of 1-10 how good of a kisser are you.
Her: That's awfully direct
TANK:Yeah, thats how I am. I'm a 12
Her: Well I think you know
TANK: That bad huh.
Her:(laughs)
TANK: When was your first kiss
Her: Hmm high school
TANK: A late bloomer.
Her: Yea I'm only interested in girls
TANK: Yeah me too.
Her: (laughs, I try to disarm.)
TANK: So where is she.
her: she points to her friend whos still talking to this guy.

I try to plow a little bit more but its tough.

Things I did well
Went into sexual questions when the conversation stuttered. And held my frame.

Things I could have done better
If she says I watched the smurfs. I say What was your favorite smurf. She says, papa smurf, mama smuf, daugher smuft. Whatever. Then I do mini cold read. Oh that tells a lot about you.
etc.

Things I never done before
Plowed through that lesbian shit test.

Berry Beery ice!!


I have been called out on being bold before also. Its ok when a girl says "That was bold" or "That was Direct". The key is to be 100% congruent with it.

If a man is that direct then he is the one who is assumed to control the frame of the interaction all the way(or at least until he gets blown out).

So if there is a moment where I get "shit tested" and feel like
A. I might be loosing the frame
B. I have to explain why I am direct.

I just say 1 word....

Surprised?

This allows the conversation to fall back into place, she now is the one who has to explain herself to me. If she doesn't say this takes the heat of me still and gives me a window to stack forward.

If I explain or apologize for being direct then she knows that I am either:
A. Incongruent
B. Just looking to hook up somehow(horn dog).


While coming on very strong does work on some girls most might like a smoother transition.

I would have tried to stack it in this manner

1. Get into some C
2. Childhood story
3. "Fun" High school story
4. Transition into your --> D

It might have been better if you stacked your D backwards.


TANK: When was your first kiss
Her: Hmm high school
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TANK:So on a scale of 1-10 how good of a kisser are you.



Remember Just like with Kino it is always preferred if you prep first.

Thanks for the help Ozzie. I always love how your advice is concrete and not abstract.

Head out to Social with Dan, Hank, persian dude.

For some reason I was just out of it. Maybe it was cause there werent' that many asian chicks or I was still pissed at jap girl but I didnt' really try and go for numbers. I just wanted to play with interactions.



B
Bts I used that night.

a) I bet you have a pile of old photographs in your living room(didnt' work too long)
b) you were shy when you were young
c) omg your red boots are so gaudy.
d) whats with all that bling on you. Is p. diddy rolling in soon.
e) fat girl with bitchy drunk attitude dissolves wall once we get on the topic of child care and my heart melter nursing story
f) omg are you guys sisters.
g) i love philipino cause of your awesome round eyes.
h) Yeah i'm cuban too. I was adopted at a young age and I endedup in cuba. Then I immigrated when the chance came. (didnt' work)
i) Lemme guess your the responsible one. And when you are explaining your story to the police, shes the one you gotta lift her hair and stop vomiting
j) So I have to ask, the two of you have blonde and ones brunette. scapegoat or leader.
k) OK if you were a power ranger which one would you be. "PINK RANGER" Pssh so obvios, you even got the boots.


D
One polish girl I was having a decent conversation with. And I decided to verbally escalate.
T: So on a scale of 1-10 how good of a kisser are you.
Her: Um.. I dont want to talk about that.
T:(cant hear her)
We chatted a bit more. held my frame. and left.


I was hanging with a previous one-itis. I wanted to start applying being a doucbag to girls cause I'm always afraid I might offend them. I started applying to my female friend first.

TANK: OMG why are you fingers so fat. Their just horrible.
Her: OMG your such an ass(lauging). What am I gonna do. I think i'm gonna fail.
TANK: Give up. I mean.. cmon... i'm really good. how are gonna catch up to this.(smiling even more)
Her: Nooooooo.
TANK: You know if you lose some weight, maybe the teacher will give you a better grade.
Her: Nooo. You asshole. Oh yea. Well your losing your hair. (she gets up.) lemme see
TANK: That's all you got. Oh oh wait, dont' rise to fast, I can see your hips moving up.
Her: Laughing


Lesbians.
TANK:Um, I think you need to tell your gf to run some more. Cause .. shes losing her value.
Lesbian1.: haha OMG.
Lesbain2: I hate you.
TANK: Hey I'm a just a concerned berthren. Don't you want to be ready for next years anime expo. You dun want to be ebichu do you(fat hamster0
Lesbian1;(laughing hard)
Lesbian2: What the hell. Your fatter than me.
TANK: Yeah but I dont' lose value.
Lesbian2: You asshole.
TANK: Lol. Get away from me, your rubbing your poor on me.
Lesbain1: (her eyes open wide. OMG looks cause the lesbain2 girl is sorta poor)
Lesbian2:(smiling) I'll show you. Me and Lesbain are gonna work hard and make a ton of money. Your gonna be my employee.
TANK: Lol right after you clean my kitchen.


Korean Fob.
I get the feeling being assholish doesn't work that well. At least not at first.



Things I did well
Went into sexual questions. Had fun being an asshole.

Things I could have done better
My BT's could be higher for club. Make my mini cold reads really small. 3 or 4 words in a club environment.

Things I never done before
Hit regions of assholishness ive never done with my female friends and got good results.

Big props to William.

Being and asshole is a nice BT if you can pull it of right.

One thing to remember is that once their BT is high and they start to qualify themselves its time to switch phases.

If you continue being an asshole after that, then you become an asshole and not they guy who speaks his mind and doesn't care about approval (a man who does what he wants).


Good Job Asshole.

Sarging at Fashion Valley Mall with Non-pua friend

Started off in Barnes and Nobles in Mira Mesa and then slowly moved to the Mall for maximum sets.

Went direct on one high schooler. 4 hot white girls at the mall. I had no AA. But I felt off till till the asian set.


I saw her a little earlier standing around a cart. She seemed to be looking for something. I walk up to her. She sees me 3 feet before i even reach her.

Her: Are you the cart guy.
TANK: Oh no. I just came to say I think you really cute.
Her: Oh .. oh thank you.
(BLP. sit down to talk with her)
TANK: I'm looking at you and I cant quite figure what asian you are... I wanna say chinese but your eyes are too round. Phillipino?
Her: I get that a lot. What are you?
TANK: Guess
her: Chinese.
TANK: No Taiwanese. Where the microchips and tshirts are made.
her: (laugh)
TANK: So what are you.
her: I'm half chinese half vietmese.
TANK: Nice. I sorta see that now.
TANK: You look like a student. UC?
her: Yeah
TANK: Me too.
her: really. What year did you graduate from
TANK:2005.you
her:2007
TANK: You sorta look like a mm cog sci major.
her: really. no im' not
TANK: sociology.
her: nope i'm what most asians are.
TANK: Oh oh k your either a electrical engineer or bio.
her: lol. yep. I'm bio.
TANK: I'm a arist myself.
her: really. what type.
TANK: I do concept art for games.
her: I used to be ICAM major at UCSD
TANK: OMG your one of those.

We both rant on our hate for that major.

TANK: So I have to ask you, on a scale of 1-10 how good of a kisser are you?
Her: Lol. Wow your awfully bold arent you. Do you always walk up to girls and talk to them.
TANK:... of course, thats how us asians roll. I'm a 12
Her: Lol. Asians are normally shy?
TANK: Well I used to be when I was younger but a life-death situation made me see life diffrently.
Go into DHV Man of Passions story. I remember after that I totally changed. I got rid of my negative friends. In a month I left my well paying job and went into the arts.

She shares her story about changing life.

TANK: So . if you were a power ranger what type would you be.
Her: Hmm. Yellow ranger.
TANK: So obvious...

At that point she goes to do a return. i felt my energy was good and I could have gotten the number but i just wasn't that attracted and I wanted to go get another set and not have to wait for her to finish her set.






Things I did well
I think I held frame pretty well with the sexual kissing question.

Things I could have done better
I only kinoed once. I BLP and sat next her which was good. I felt the vibe was good. After i went into the sexual question i was almost at a loss. So I just went back to BT about the power ranger. Next time go back into comfort DHV stories.

1)Next time incorporate hand ring routine or moisterize routine.
2)Wanna incorporate some Grungy material
"Hmm I see something really interesting about you"
"Really tell me"
"I'll tell you but first you have to give me a compliment"

Roleplay
Wow. You got good taste in power rangers. I'm gonna make you my new girlfriend. You can try and cook for me. And I can pretend I like it even though I don't. walk hand in hand at the beac, and even watch dorky chick flicks together.

..Wait how tall are you.
Aww, you one inch too low.
I'm going to have to break up with you. Don't
worry; it's not you it's me.

Every time a woman does something that is naughty
(teasing you, making sexual innuendos, or acting
bad) grab her hand, spank it and say "You're such
a bad girl". Pretend to shake your head in
disappointment and have a sly smile at the same
time.



Things I've never done before

Owe $5. Drawing with some girl. Told her about some of my dates. Totally forgot to recognize her IOIs. She asked me if I was gonna draw again at this park. Invite. Also went out for dinner. She told me about how she didnt care if she went into arranged marriage. I asked her what she was looking for. She gave some min. requirements.

I wanted to acted douchy but i calibrated not to do it. Escpecially since she was a korean fob that i hadnt' seen in half a year.

haha, I laughed out loud.

I can see how you can keep going with this. like:

PUA: but maybe we can work it out. like if you'll carry a small chair with you.
...
PUA: and every time you want to kiss me, you'll hop on, onto that chair. And I'll pretend not to mind.
...
PUA: but then you'll have to have multiple chairs in different colors, cuz I'll get bored. Like Wednesdays will be blue. And Friday's it'll be fire red... Yeah that's hot.

Tank,

What is an ICAM?

-William