TANK's 30 Day Direct Challenge

Lol. I was wondering when you were gonna pick up that quote Sight.

At park

We go inside. I open one or two sets directly and they dont hook.

I'm tired and i really just feel like eating something good. Get one alcoholic drink to loosten me up but not enough so I look like a dumb drunk.

Waiter pulls by.

TANK: Yeah let me get a red bull
TANK: You look fun. Your not from around here are you. You got that midwestern charm about you.
...
Banter a bit.
I remeber I said some dumb ass stuff and it was still working. Like can you read me a bedtime story and how to get to sesame street. Those red bulls do their job.
TANK: On a scale of 1-10 how good of a kisser are you. Cause i'm like a 12.
(remember to stick this in early.)

....
I pull out the infamous Yellocab video recorder.
TANK: Hey I'm gonna film someting for my mom and sist
TANK: So mom this is Danielle. I met her at a place called Park
TANK: And she is gonna read me a bedtime story tonight (she smiles)
TANK: Then shes gonna make me some warm milk, and thats gonna make me very sleepy.
TANK: And apparently on a scale of 1-10 on kissing, she kisses very very good.
TANK: Hey kiss me on the cheek.
(no hesitation she goes for the cheek)
5 seconds cheek kiss later.
TANK: Oooh I like that=
Her; I thought you were gonna take a picture me kissing you on the cheek.
TANK: Now give me a real kiss.
Her: No
TANK: Haha thats ok.
...
At this point I ask will for advice. He mentions how I need to go into comfort. He gives me some lines to say and like a idiot I forget them.

I walk up to her with the intent of trying to ask her to hook up. But first I need to build comfort.
TANK: Hey.........(lost for words)
TANK: Oh I wanted to say that before I leave I wanted to ask you out for coffee after work.
Her: Oh ... I can't i have work tommorow again and I need to go sleep.

Basically I plow. Then relized I was supposed to go into comfort first before asking her out. Arghh. My mind is incredible slow. So got back int DHV family. DHV traveler. Then re ask her. Martyr tries to win me a date by guessing her name. That doesn't work. We hug and leave it at that.


Things I did well
Got a cheek kiss on video from the waitress. Improved a ton.

Things I could have done better
Got in the moment, but cause of that forgot structure. I was about to ask to hook up before William pointed out that I didnt know anything about the girl and she didnt' know anything about me except Im a fun guy. So i forgot all about C. Need to learn to juggle structure with being in the moment.

Things I never done before
filmed cheek close. high on red bull

Tank, great job on the progress and all the experience you're racking up!

Even though the waitress set wasnt direct, you esclated into direct sexual interest really quickly, which is a great thing. Good job!

Thanks for the support Johnny. That really helps..

Went direct on UCSD white girl eating at subway. Got facebook. Went direct on girl in library. Got email. Went direct on girl with mom and daughter. Man.. the fob accent was huge but man she was pretty.

Tank,

Your progress in A-B-C is great. I know you're working on your direct interest and sexual escalation, so just as a reminder, start out with "what did you think love would be like when you were little?"

Otherwise, great job man.

-William

http://www.dump.com/0cjjwd/video-Castin ... ucked.html

I thought this escalation LMR was amazing.. even though it may be fake. But just incredible plowing example.