Ralph's Beginner's Hell PUA Journal: Now with pics see pg 3!

Great stuff, Ralphie Ralph. Keep it up!

Alright so I met this girl a few weeks back and she was sitting there on the couch smoking. My wing and I sat by her and her friends. He opens the set and not much goes on. I thought it was going to be his target but then he tells me that shes too tall for him. So I chat with her and I walk away. She leaves the couch and comes back.

At this time I'm just like whatever. So I'm at the same spot and she sits by me, offers me a cig and I take it and BAM now I game her. I got her facebook and that was it. I see her a couple more times and during that time I felt as if my re-gaming part sucks. So then not much.

Last week I see her and this time its on. I started playing some role playing with her. About how our kids would be sooo cute like John and Kate +8. She plays along and says that we are going to have 2 twin boys and another boy and a girl. I say we cant have an odd number of kids because then there would be a middle child.

So this time I number close her and tell her I'm going to this bar the next night.



So now from the girl from last week. I went on our real day 2. Went out for sushi and watched a movie. Shes actually a really cool person. I found out we somewhat have similar lives which is kinda scary. I guess we're kinda "dating" now lol. The only shitty part is that we both live at home. Now I am trying to think of a way how I can get her to a hotel. I'll figure it out I'm not too worried about closing.

Another thing is that I feel when I go out saring I dont open much set as I did when I was not dating a chic. I think its because that I am getting comfortable since now I know I have a chic. I need to get out of that mode and be like pokemon - you gotta catch them all lol.







Ralph

Random thoughts:

So I am currently reading 4 Hour Work Week by Tim Ferris good shit!
I am going to do some of his missions lol there is one about going direct and asking for a chic her number haha.

So I am going to create my own new missions for myself:

On June 19th is going to be my 26h birthday and I have a party that I am throwing at a bar.

Goal: Starting tomorrow and till June 19th I am going to make new friends and possibly new girls to sarge and hook up with to come out to my birthday party. Goal is to have 5 new girls of different social circles to come out to my birthday party. All of them have to be cold approaches!

I will post my results!

Good work man....and I saw the your HB @ fin..she is definately a hottie so this party are there going to be free booze for your guests

Alright so I have been getting semi comfortable since I am kinda dating a chic so my opening has been a bit slow but last night I thought of a great opener that some may would like to use...

I was at the bar chillin out in the patio and my friend and I were just there chillin and talking. I see this super cute girl. Sitting at the table literally her back to me. So then I tap her on the side and I say:

"Is it me or is it just a bunch of cougars out tonight?" (There were so many older people out that night which is not normal)

So then I she goes along with it and was like "Is it normally a younger crowd?"

I was like yeahh. Then we talk and I banter with her for a bit and she was telling me that shes from Ohio and its about 1hr and 20min drive. She was telling me how she was from Toledo and I was like damn thats far. We chit chat and she told me she moved back. Her friends tell her that they are going inside. She stays and chats with me so then I notice there is some comfort between us since she decided to stay with me and chat some more. Also she had a water and offered me some so I drank some. There is some comfort there why would she let some guy she does not know at all drink from her shit unless shes super drunk!

So she was having some funky hair going on. I asked her if she was a hair stylest (she tells me that her parents are both stylests) Then I run my DHV routine of when I used to date a hair stylest (true story). Since she was about an hour away I went to see if she was staying in MI and possibly close or what not. Seeing what her situation is and who she is with etc. I find out shes driving home back to Ohio. So I was like shit!

She tells me how she went to school for dancing and I vibe with her on that. Talking about Save the Last Dance etc and all these other dance movies. I tell her I gotta see her dance moves. She leaves to find her friends.

30mins later I see her dancing like crazy on the dance floor and I noticed these surgeon chodes who I see at work trying to holler at her. Its about 3 dudes just standing there while she dances away. Earlier that night while I was talking to her the chodes try to tease her and they talk to me since I work at the same hospital as them. Nothing.

While those guys where just there I come in past them I Kino turn her on the dance floor and start dancing with her hahaha. I started doing some salsa. Damn she can dance well I see them all stare at me hahaha. Then they disappear and signal to her that they are gonna get a drink and ask her if she wants one. She dances with me and says no lol.

Anyway I got her facebook I thought "do I really want to holler at a girl who lives far" uhh no! Plus she leaves super early at 1230am. But Ill keep in contact with her via facebook. Also I found out she broke up with her bf like 2 days ago. P

So what did I learn from this?

A new opener. When there's a massive amount of cougars that's not normally there and you see a set with younger girls best opener

"Hey guys is it me or is there a bunch of cougars here tonight?'

Then go with whatever she says.

Also that I noticed that when she leaves and you talk to her and build comfort then run into her on the dance floor. Do a kino turn and start dancing with her lol. I am going to field test this again and see how the results are.

Currently doing the: My 12 Weeks Post-Bootcamp Motivation & Missions!

See post21066.html#p21066

A little update on my life on what is going on with my game.

I realized what I have been doing wrong with my day 2s and now I am able to fix it. So there was this girl I have been gaming since like April/Mayish and I have not even made out with her. She would give me the IOIs and everything was well. She would txt me almost everyday with big long texts. I would try to esclate but things were not well. So what I did. I froze her out for about a good month or so lol.

So then I saw her again at work and I stared making funny faces at her. Flriting with her again. The next day I started to text her and I told her that "I think we got off on the wrong foot and starts start over again"

She replied with "totally "

So then when we started over. We went out for ice cream/bowled/ate sushi/then made it a movie night.

So what did I do to change it?

I was being more dominant and flirty. I had my arm around her etc playing around with her. Have her kiss my cheek as a mini compliance etc. I did my photo kiss close routine and things were back to normal with the upswing of things.

That night when we were watching a movie I laid on the couch and I pulld her towards me and had her on top of me while we watched a movie. Then we made out.

What I realized in my part of my game was that JT pointed out to me that I need to be more dominant. This is what naturals normally do.

I realized that now from all my old experiences of the girls who I hung out with but never did anything because I wanted to play it "safe" and thats what I did with her in the beginning. When I first started sarging her she was the first girl in a LONG time since I had a day 2 with. It was sooo long ago thats why I have fumbled on her. Then after I stopped and froze her out for a month I was dating a different girl and I realized what I did wrong with the first girl I made sure not to make that mistake.

Its all good. You live and you learn and I am glad that I am realizing this now.

That's a really great epiphany. I'm proud of you!

Alright game is somewhat on hold for now... I am currently in the process of moving to LA. For now I am going to spend time with friends and family before I depart to LA on Aug 12th. I'll sarge here and there and fuck shit up! Stay tuned!!!