Ralph's Beginner's Hell PUA Journal: Now with pics see pg 3!

Story telling... work on your story telling and the attraction switches they are hitting.

Make sure you keep them shorter in A & B. Keep them appropriate to which phase you are in.

Alright so its a Sunday night. This is the first time I can recall sarging on a Sunday night in Michigan lol. So there is only one hot club thats really good on a Sunday night. Sadly there is not much industry nights here. Only times I went out on a Sunday night was the ABCs Bootcamp since its a 3 days/nights of learning.

So my wing and I decide to go to this 18+ club lol. I'm thinking oh shit a bunch of young bucks. All good they are still people too! haha. So then my wing and I walk in and we go straight to the bar. There was a 3 set right by the bar. One chic super short! She's literally like 4'10. My wing just taps her head and I tell her shes so small I can put her in my pocket.

We back turn them and order our drinks. I am right next to the 3 set. We notice 2 guys hitting on them lol. HILARIOUS shit I tell you, one guy opens them and asks if they have a boyfriend lmao (I look back and I think I said that at one point lol). I tell my wing to listen to that shit haha. So as they sit there I hear all the questions they ask, like what school do you go to blah blah blah.

So they are still there but off to the side with them. My wing and I were talking and saying how sad it is when you see 40+ old men at a 18+ up trashy ass club (Kevin if you're reading this, I was at Tonic Night club LOL). This club we went to was so ghetto/trashy that there are cops outside, now that is not a good sign when you see cops. Mostly a bunch of ghetto guys there. Not smiling looking all hardcore.

My wing was like yo they keep looking back at us, while I have my back turned to them. So I immediately thought of an opener. I open my target with "OMG can you belive how there are like 40yr old men here at this bar, like look at that guy in the blazer" (It turns out he was the club owner haha). She looks at me and was like "OMG I KNOWWWW" so I tell her the same thing I was telling my wing. She starts giving me IOIs so im like its ONNNNN!!!

I chit chat and banter with her. I ask her name and get to know her 2 other friends. We talk I kino her like crazy. OMG shes super young 19!!! LOL all good they are still people to holla at! Whatever Ill see where this goes. I started to dance with her a bit. She dances back im like yess! We make a connection about music of the same types of artists we like. I knew it was on. At one point I got bored as was on facebook and she's like "facebook?" I was like yeah I got a msg haha. So I ask her if shes on it she takes my phone and finds herself and I add her. After that we chat and with out looking at her I hand her my iPhone with the dial pad and hand it to her and look away hahahaha. I didn't even say "whats your number, how can I get a hold of you" LOL. (I'm going to try that again, have a chic find herself on facebook as she holds my phone, then once she hands it back to me chat for a minute or so then hand back my phone to her with the dial pad and look away haha. I am going to test it out again).

Then they leave and "go to the bathroom" So my wing and I chat and not lose value and just sit there and stare at people. They come back and we start making fun of the most random trashy people at the bar. We laugh HI5s etc. They leave again.

My wing and I talk. They come back haha this time my target was getting hit on. I just look away or just observe the game lol. Then I start talking to my wing when all 3 of the girls chat with each other so we dont look needy/chodey. Then they walk away again (during this time I did not follow them once when they walked away) As they passed us a couple of times I see my target look at me and I smile at her as she passes by.

So then we walk by them again, I see my target look back at me I yell her name she comes to me and holds her hand out. I comply and start holding her hand to the dance floor. Now my wing and I are on the dance floor. He takes it for the team and dances with the ugly chic. Other friend has some dude already. Man we were grinding like crazy and she can dance super good. I started to get a wood on the dance floor haha good times! So we leave the dance floor to get water with her friends.

As we dance by the bar her friend was like "you guys go dance" lol (wooo her friends know we like each other haha). So they leave I hug all her friends. It was so funny how so many dudes were hitting on her and her friend lol.

I think what I did right tonight was:
1. I did not follow them like a needy biatch.
2. As when the 3 talked among themselves my wing and I would talk.
3. When they walked away my wing and I chatted with each other of our next plan lol.
4. When dudes hit on her I would just sit and smile or chat with my wing and let them game her.

What I learned tonight: Was not to be super needy when a chic hooks and wait till the timing is right unlike the past week where I blew it. Wait for them to go back and see how much attraction she has towards me versus following them or "running into" them as my wing and I went around the club. Bottom line: I was not needy woo!

Ill edit this post with a pic later. Since those club photographers take a day or 2 to post it up on their site. All I know is that my wing and I are doing something right when club photographers take a pic of us. Since they only take pics of hot girls or a mixed set. Most of the time they never take a pic of just a bunch of cocks unless its like 2 dudes.

Ok its 3am it may not make much sense considering that Ill almost be up for 24hrs since I woke up at 530am yesterday

So I have not been opening sets lately. I have been on a few day 2s. So I am unable to sarge. I have been bringing them out at night. I usually like to chill with them during the day then sarge at night. Tonight I will start sarging again!

Dude this is so inspiring for me! , i'm actually tryin to work on my day game as well.
William tells me that during daygame, your energy during B-phase has to be lower and that your fuckups at storytelling are more evident, since your not at a scenario with loud music like a club or bar so you being confident is a must. Good job, on the approach and number close!

[quote="metaltoid"]Dude this is so inspiring for me! , i'm actually tryin to work on my day game as well.
William tells me that during daygame, your energy during B-phase has to be lower and that your fuckups at storytelling are more evident, since your not at a scenario with loud music like a club or bar so you being confident is a must. Good job, on the approach and number close!


Thanks man! Yeah usually during day game I am alot slower and more chill. But to tell you the truth I have not been doing any day game lately but I will soon!

Alright so I have not been posting up any FRs lately since I have not been opening well and most of them were not successful. Tonight is a different story.

Background info:
I went to this Betsy Johnson show after party (Betsy Johnson is some kind of style and known for thier hair or whatever). It was a hair show after party. So you know what that means. A SHIT LOAD OF CHICS!!!

In the beginning of the night I was just hanging out by the DJ Booth since I know the DJ and it was starting to get busy. So I'm sitting there chillin and this girl comes by the DJ booth looking for a plug to charge her phone. So I help her out and she finds one. She comes back with her charger by me and accidentally taps my ass. I say "hey this shit aint for free, Ill let the firs one be a sample and then after that it's $5 she touches me a bit more. Then I'm like ill give you a discount $10! shes like I'm broke! Then I introduce myself to her and tell her that Ill send her messages when she gets some texts! She walks away. Im still sitting chillin.

Few mins later she comes and checks it again. I chat with her. Suddenly some chic comes by her I turn and I say HI and Smile . She immediately introduces herself to me. Another girl from the hair show. Then they both walk away.

I think "hmmm I wonder if that was just her sublte excuse to pretend to say something to her and introduce her self to me"

So they walk away and start dancing. I Think [ Ok I need to start dancing with the phone girl because shes really cute and the other girl, I cant pick because they're both hot]

So then they start dancing phone girl and model hair girl with all the other girls that was in the show - so now its a 4 set dancing. I noticed the model girl dancing and looking at me here and there.

I'm still sitting there. So I walk up to the girl who charged her phone. Make some banter then Hi5 her and then start dancing with her she starts dancing. We dance for a few songs I position myself to be closer to model girl. Then I asked model girl "oh what was your name again" Then I was like oh cool started dancing with her.

Now the club is not that loud yet so I can still dance with her and we chit chat. I tell she's got good moves she says the same. She's a model and a public relations major. I noticed her veering away from her friends to dance with me. So now we're dancing. Do some kino kiss on the cheek. Hug her etc. Since the club I was at is knowing for their tappas they have salsa night. (I'm immediately thinking of a way to get her on a day 2) So I compliment her on her dancing and was like do you salsa. Shes like Noo thats so hardcore like the people downstairs are (the club has 2 floors one is salsa and other is top 40s) So im like ohhh you sooo can be my partner we should learn. She agrees. I number close her. Kiss her on the cheek again. Then she tells me shes gotta go and study for her exam tomorrow on Monday. I aim to kiss her on the cheek but she kisses me on the lips (I sooo wanted to grab her again and kiss her but NO!!! I HELD BACK! - THE AFC IS COMING OUT BUT DIDNT WHOO!) So I say bye and txt her.

So we'll see.

Later on I go outside to smoke and I'm standing there and some chic points at me and I'm like WTF?! She tells me that I have a cool style or whatever she uses some big word. She's loving my jeans (If you ever go out to LA go to Showtime and get the Mondo Jeans!! sooo many compliments on them) So she's like cool style. I say she does too. Now this is a hair party and shes got the really boyish haircut but adorable Im thinking (I hope this girl is not a lezbo because she can pass for one) We chit chat and then she shows me her style on facebook on her phone. She tried to add me but thank god she couldnt so shes like whats your number and ill add you later. So we exchange numbers. Then she finds out her friend who she came with is drunk as hell and throwing up. So she leaves and texts me her name. I aim for a day 2 for this awesome japanese restaurant thats authentic because she knows how to speak japanese. So that was the night.

And of course I forget my camera to take a pic with the two hotties damn!

I have been away from sarging since I had a family member pass away. I am back sarging and I will start back up again. Stay tuned!

So I finally started sarging and boy it is great to be back. I just got home and it may or may not make some sense. I had about 5 drinks in me and my head is pounding. Yes I am a light weight.

So anyway let me get to the point

Set #1 Social Circle game

A friend of mine was gaming this girl but I knew her though him. Her and her friend was sitting at the bar and I said HI. At first I was not attracted to her and did not think she was cute at all but in reality she is. So we chit chat banter a bit. She had to talk about how she had to leave early since she had to work (Its a thursday night). So we leave the bar to a different one. Then we come back. Then BAM time to game her. I started flirting and dancing with her and I started to qualify. Trying to find some commonalities between us. I BT spike her and yet ask her some ABCs stuff I go into.

A - Done from her friend (social circle game)

B- Make her laugh dance with her/spin her


C- I started asking her questions. Qualifying her. Asking her if she can cook etc what she does. Just bulding some comfort asking her this and that

D- I did not really do much asides from dancing with her and moving her around which was good.

E/F - Not done since she left

I did number close and yet set up a day 2 for some sushi lol.

heres a pic of her super cute



Set #2 (SITUATIONAL OPENER)

After that chic left then I was just cruzin the bar.

Suddenly I see this girl with a cool scarf. Its a black studded scarf as you can see in the picture. Not so bad but cute. So I open her with "OMG I LOVE YOU SCARF" Hi5 spin (thanks Tommy) Then we dance for a bit

A - was my situational opner

B - Hi5 spinning bantering BT was dancing with her and I told her how good of a dancer she was

C - I started asking her questions about her self. Basically quailfying the shit out of her. Asking her what her passions are etc.

D- I moved her around the venue. I introduced her to my friends and moved her around the club.

E/F - not done since she had to work. But her friends did leave her and she was with me. So basically a semi bounce. I was going to walk her to her car

Look at the scarf - Great situational opner. I did not just compliment it but I did describe it and told her how i have a studded belt and I am going to steal it from her haha





I will update this more with details but I am tired as hell and I am going to bed!

Alright read this whole thing to understand what happened. This was the best Ive ever done in my PUA carrier but read this whole thing to understand how things went. Things are just getting better and better!!!

Social Circle Game Set 1:

So I walk in to the bar and some guy comes behind me and asks what I'm majoring in? I turn around its this Dr. I know from work. He thought that he knew me from med school but nope, I told him he worked on my floor for a month doing his rotation. He had a girl with him which turned out to be his sister. My wing (Nicole) was with me as well. So I tell Nicole remember that guy who didnt smile at work lol.

She tells me "OMG RALPH HES SOOO CUTE" I say shit ill be your wing man. You take the Dr and Ill take the sister muhahaha!!! So Nicole is down...

So then I go back in and talk with him. Nicole is just sitting there being shy. Then BAM I start talking to the sister and I pull her towards me. I push Nicole to the guy while I chat with the sis.

A - Done since I was introduced to her

B - I hi5 her and dance with her for a bit. I ask about herself. Since she's majoring in nursing we both have some things in common. We talk about nursing etc. I do some banter. I kino hold hands dance etc. I run into my LA routine (its about me "moving" from LA to Michigan or how I was in LA for a month. Its basically a cold read. I say how ppl in LA are so uptight and not down to earth unlike Michigan people. In reality its the other way around haha. People in LA are alot more down to earth than people in Michigan. I say how shes seems like an open minded girl and looks like the type to be up for anything). - LOL She agrees.

C - So after dancing I say omg lets sit down because my dancing shoes are killing me haha. So I find a place to sit. Crazy girl asks me if I am Catholic - OMG who asks that at a bar? I tell her its too fast between us. So I go into a comfort routine. Take a pic with her. Number close her. Set up a timebridge for sushi (since I live at home).

D - I bring her back to the dance floor.

E/F - not done.

I leave to smoke a cig and she kept asking my wing woman Nicole where did I go hahahaha whoops! I disappeared like a ghost!



Shes a cute girl eh whateva



So after that I'm like this chic is nuts but whatever. I decide to go outside to have a smoke. I decided that while I smoke outside I like to open people. So I see this chic with a black rose on her head. I tell her that it looks like she has cat ears like what girls wear on Halloween. It turned out to be a black rose.

Then she asks. Whats your name?

I say Ralph. She was like Do you know my friend Sarah Im like I know a few of them. You met her last night.

RANDOMMMM !!! Im thinking HOLY SHIT how does this chic know me. It turns out that the chic from last night works with the girl who I was smoking outside with.

So I ask what she said about me lol. (You gotta get the inside scoop on how your game was from last night lol) She was like well she said that she met a guy, who was funny, cute, and has funky hair and makes her laugh a lot. - SCORE!!!

She was telling me how she went on my facebook trying to see what was up with me but my shit is blocked muhahaha!! FB stalkers well I dont blame them because I do the same when I'm interested in a girl. Look at all the pics and see what kind of girl she is like.

So then we were about done smoking and I wanted to game her a bit more and win her over. So I say lets smoke another cig and chat some more.

I was like woo! Good shit on the B phase and C phase last night!

So we go in and she wanted to play it off like we knew each other. We walk in I see her and shes a bit tipsy and she hugs me and we hug. Some guy is gaming her like crazy, I pull her friend to the dance floor and ignore her. Then he leaves and she comes to me.

A/B/C - Done from last night

D - I bring her to the dance floor. At this time she is all over me. Arms and stuff looking into my eyes and smiling like crazy. I move her around.

(This is the girl in my previous post the first picture in the pink top and shes blonde)

E - I started to kiss her on the dance floor and we kiss and make out for a bit. Then I bring her to the corner of the bar (dark area) so my other target doesnt see me makeout with the girl from yesterday lol. Funny part was that she was about 20 feet away and it was visible location haha. So Im like shit maybe Ill have Sarah block me while we kiss. I was the one sitting on the bar stool while she stood up and kissed me.

After we were done making out she was like "OMG this is going to make it awkward when I see you again" I told her dont worry about it was going to make out with her on Thursday when we go for sushi hahaha

F- So as the bar was ending. Her friend left her and she asked me for a ride. I was like well I didnt drive. (Suddenly my DUMBASS ALARM WENT OFF) "i thought shit she wants me to take her back" DUHHHHHHHH LOL. So Im like yeahhh its totally cool.

So my car is 4 miles away at a different bar. I had to think FAST good thing my wing woman Nicole drove and she took me back to my car.

So then we got in my car. I asked where her friend lived. While all this was going on I was thinking how can I close her?!?! So I tell her to txt her friend the address and ill put it in my navigation. She does. So as we were drving I was like well ill just pull into this subdivison while we wait for your friend to txt you back. I drive to a darker area of the sub lol. I think in her case too she was playing it off like she didnt know where she lived to make out more haha!

THEN BAMMM!!

MAKE OUT SESSION!!!

I stop and say you know what I dont want to get caught by cops or cars driving by, lets go in the back! HOLLAA!!! Now I drive an Acura RSX and that back seat is sooooooooo damn small!!! a 2 door sports car (next car I am going to get is a sports sedan gotta get that 4 door!) So we hop in the back she tells me I'm smooth lol. I was like well I dont want to get caught and get a ticket.

Then make out and you know what goes on there. Hands in the pants doing some stimulation there etc. She says do you have a condom. I say yes as I get started BAM LMR she says does not know me but its cool. I like her anyway and like Kevin Feng said to me "I dont mind closing them on a different day". After that I drive her back to her friends place we were in my back seat messing around for like 3hrs! hahaha woo!

My thoughts

To be honest. I never thought that bouncing a girl out of the bar and having her in my back seat would be possible but it is POSSIBLE. For the guys reading this out there it is possible! I even drive a RSX and the back seat is sooo small we managed to fool around in the back seat. All you gotta do is put the seats forward to have more room and it will be a bigger spot. I am just amazed with the past 2 days of my progress. I bounced a girl and was going to walk her to her car. My plan was to make out with her and go our ways after walking her to her car.

I also learned that ALWAYS bring your own car!!! So you can leave the venue to bounce her.

What was great with Sarah was that her friend left her at the bar lol. All you gotta do is just befriend her and be a cool guy and she will leave you alone. I mean this is a bit of a different situation since Sarah talked about me already to her so whatever. Even the other set her friends asked her if she is going to be okay and they left her too!

I think what works well is when you ask permission to talk to your target. Most of the time her friends would leave the 2 of you alone. Even sometimes walk away. Now to see the ultimate attraction is if she stays. If she says to her friends "wait dont leave me" then she is not yet attracted to you. I am not sure but thats what I have noticed when I am in field.

So to follow up on the 2 girls.

UPDATES:

Crazy Catholic girl definitely did not see me making out with my girl from the night before. I texted her and she did reply haha.

Sarah Pink top blonde girl- I texted her the next day not like being the asshole and not call her at all. So I am still in. I also called her yesterday and she was still asking if we were still on for Thursday the real day 2 haha.

Haha bro!!! Love my new car. I understand.... No back seat!!

However, the hottest and I mean hottest girl of my life just told me she wants to fuck.. IN MY CAR. Yeah...... car sex is the best!!!