Phil's 30 Day Special Direct Challenge

Right after bootcamp I was doing so well: always went out to approach no matter day/night game, wrote FR in my diary (coz I joined on this board last night, in the future I will post my FR every time I sarge), also tried my best to improve my game. Then I was busy dealing with school finals, bank problems, etc. I completely stopped my game for a week. Then I got fatigue, even I saw really attractive women I didn't wanna approach because I felt lazy to run my routine from A to D to just get a number or kiss-on-cheak pic. My approach anxiety went up again. I know I was being a bitch. I read a bit of JT's blog and listened to Johnny Wolf's MP3. Up to now I only approached 200 women since bootcamp in April, Johnny Wolf said "after you approach 1,000 sets your game starts getting good." I believe experience is the key to personal growth which eventually leads to success. I always know that, that's the reason why I journal down what I do, what I learn everyday. But recently I was not motivated at all, I was being a bitch, being someone else not me. So fuck it! I got to change right now!

The reason why I do 30-day direct challenge is that I wanna completely conquer approach anxiety (to as low as I can), create this kind of lifestyle to CONTINUOUSLY approach attractive women I desire, become a 24/7 PUA, become a real man to lead my life. Every time I setup goals to achieve, I push myself as hard as I can coz I really wanna see myself change completely. So I will make this challenge a little bit tougher but also special to fit my situation.

Rules:
1. Every time I see an attractive woman (above 6), I go up and use my direct opener, e.g. "You look fucking adorable, what is your name?" and try my best to number close. Not only 1 target per day, if I see any targets that are possible to approach, I approach right away. Possible means:
a. When I'm walking, my target is not far away so I don't have to run up to approach;
b. When I'm driving, I'm able to stop by her and approach either she's walking or driving (My car is a DHV for me, it generates so much attention for me. But every time I approached when I was driving, I fucked it up coz I was trying to be a badass);
c. When I'm in a venue, no matter who I'm with, I will walk up and approach. No matter the situation allows or not, I will approach.

2. Not only approach white/latino, also try other races, taste the rainbow.

3. If I miss one target that is possible to approach, I owe interpol987 $10. I can see him at least once a week, so I can give money to him if I owe him. I know it's a big deal, $10 per target not per day, I'm so ready to do it!

4. Night game: once I see a target, I approach the set immediately, but I use opener properly according to the situation. Direct/Indirect/Situational/Kick Start.

5. I will write completely honest FR and post under this topic. I will record the sets I open but not the sets I wing my wingmen.

6. June 1st, I will go back to China to stay with my family at least 7 days. Because I haven't seen them for a year and I have to have a rest from my crazy life in US. During that week, the only people I can see are my family members. I will not be able to meet any targets, so the days will be postponed until the day I start meeting attractive women. If I see any targets during the days with my family, I will definitely approach otherwise lose $10.

7. HAVE FUN and keep approaching even after 30 day challenge no matter when, where, who.

Starting today, 05/26/11.

I'm totally in favor of this! I could use the extra cash, but it would honestly make me happy if no money out of it. My first 30 day challenge was a huge step for me (it's posted in the forum too). I only went direct once, but it helped so much just to randomly start conversations with girls I found attractive. It's now common for me to start conversations with anybody. I'm leaving for Guatemala next week, so I'm not going to set up a 30 day challenge now, but I promise you and the forum that I will do 7 day time direct openers in Spanish when I'm there. (Yea it's shooting a low), but I've never done a daytime direct opener, so it's a first step.

Yea man! the thing is once I go back to china, I will be staying with my family in my house not going out. If so, my day will be fucked and I lose $10 everyday I stay in house. So technically I'm not doing "day" challenge, I'm doing "Target" challenge no matter in US or China. I will let you know how it goes this weekend.

Kill your test tomorrow and we sarge this weekend. Also enjoy your trip man!

05/26/11

Target number_
1. Right after I decided to do this intense 30 day challenge. I went to Five guys with my suit mate. I felt everywhere will be my field. So I pumped my energy up, I felt a bit nervous and I told myself "I'm already committed to it, so be the man". I talked to my suit mate loudly all the time and played jokes on him - Having fun with my group. Then I was driving with top off, music blasted. I saw this brunette 7 walking on the street. I told my suit mate she will be my first one. So I stopped right next to her, make a gesture to let her pull her headphone down. Direct opener: “You look fucking adorable, what’s your name?” She laughed and kept walking. So I repeated “What’s your name?” She didn't look at me and said her name quietly. Me: “Alright! You have a great day!” She rejected me right away but that was good start, at least I make her day. I felt so good and my energy was so high.

2. Then we went to CVS, I saw a brunette 6.5, she was walking really fast and got her bitch shield on. I hesitated only 3 seconds and she was gone. FUCK!!!! FUCK!!! FUCK!!!!!!!! I was a bitch! I regret so much. I owe my Kevin $10 on my first day of challenge.

What I have done well: I pumped myself up before I get into field, I was very socially aware bcoz I have to approach my target now. I made a girl's day even she rejected me right away.

What I should do next time: Once I see a target, I CANNOT think at all. I cannot even give myself excuse like she seems like she got to be somewhere soon/she’s on her phone/she’s with someone. Those excuses are bullshit! They "kill" my chance to close her!!! Forget about AA, forget about anything holding me back, just go do my approach in 3 seconds.

What I'm aware of: Day game is harder because girls are all doing something, especially HB got bitch shield on. However, it's easier to find really natural HB. I cannot take bitch shield seriously, it's just a HB's natural reaction because some many guys are tryna hit on her. BUT I got to show her how unique I am and show her I'm the best Asian she will meet in her life.

(Tonight I'm going out, to be continued...)

Night game@bars

3. I went to some bars with 2 white guys who just got into the game. Once I got into one of those bars, I immediately directly open a brunette 7, she was with 2 other friends. She didn’t even answer me and put her bitch shield on. So I repeated “What’s your name?” “(her name)” and she left. I said “You have a great night!”

4. I saw this Hispanic 6.5 walking towards me. I immediately directly open, she gave me bitchy face and “What did you say?” Then her boyfriend or whoever showed up with his shitty face, I smiled, introduced myself and ejected.

5. I was dancing and enjoying the music. I saw this 2-set behind me. I used my Asian movie star opener and talked to both of them, them 2 “Idk…”, then I did my background cold read, my target - tall Hispanic 8 “Yes I am.” “So how you like the heat tonight?” (The Heat just won.) “Hell no!” “so what team do you like?” “Celtics.” I was fucking surprised, first time I met a girl from Miami who loves the Celtics, I clapped and pretended walking away from her then came back. I told her I'm Celtics too and pulled out my phone to show her a pic when I was wearing Celtics jersey. My BT was high so I made her BT getting higher and stop thinking logically. Then I push&pull for a bit. I was about to get into DHV stories. Cockblocks showed up, a hispanic 5 and a shitty-face guy. I smiled, my target introduced me to them. Then they totally cockblocked me.

I winged my boys on some other sets and I did well, I put those sets in my FR.

6. We bounced and went to another bar, it was after 2am. Basically girls were all with guys or purely too many guys. So we decided to come out to bounce again. I saw this blonde 8.5 sitting there by herself. So I went up, directly open, she turned her back away and said something quietly. So me “Really!? That’s the way you respond when a guy tryna talk to you? You have a good night!” I didn’t give a fuck, if she rejects like a bitch, I say whatever I want and just leave a high value and move on.

7. When we walking on the street, I saw a really hot 3-set from distance. So I walked by and directly open all of them. They didn't give me a fuck and walked away. So I said "You guys have a good night."

I saw a friend and he was coming out with 2 girls and a random guy. They said hi to me, I number closed both of those 2 girls.

What I have done well: Firstly I was the leader of my group, I led them to walk around, I encouraged them to get into set, etc. I was not being bitch any more, once I saw target, I directly open her even though it's a big set. I don't take any rejections seriously, I just keep moving on naturally. I used BT spike properly, I made girls stop thinking logically. The first I told my entire DHV stories 2 in a row in a super loud club.

What I will do better: Use proper opener according to the situation: lone-set, direct; multiple-set, indirect. Address the cockblocks, talk to them, make friends and show them my target is having fun with me. Address the amog, talk to him actively, make friend and let him go. Once I got the 3-photo shots, she kisses on my cheek, immediately Isolate her and move to D. Don't be picky, close her if I got chance.

05/27/11

I went out at night with 3 friends.

8. I saw an Asian 2-set, I smiled at them, both of them were shy, smiled and looked down. Not my target, I walked away, Kyle grabbed me back and said “Yo, those Asian girls just pointed at you, they want you!” OK, I went back and talked for a bit. I introduced myself to both of them, then I did my background cold read on the one my side, she told me they from Toronto, I push&pull for a bit, cheers with the one on the other side and I ejected. Not bad, first time I approached an Asian set after I got into the game. Even no target in it, but I tried a part of the rainbow.

9. I saw this blonde 6, I held her waist and used direct opener, she told me her name, I did my background cold read, she told me she’s from Germany with her smile on. She talked to her friend, I told her have a good night and ejected.

10. The dance floor was really crowded, hard to even move 1 foot. I saw a brunette 7 dancing happily. I made SOLID eye contact with her and put my big smile on, I introduced myself directly, she told me her name, I did my background cold read, she said she from Germany and her group all from Germany. P:”I love Germany! I got a German car. I wanna go coz you guys can speed whatever you want! But here I got too many tickets.” HB:”What car you have?” P:”I got to show you the pic” and I pulled out my phone show her the 2 pic, HB:”Wah! How fast have you gone?” P:“150mph, it’s 200 something km per hour.” Here I can totally do my phone routine, so much DHVs in it. I did push&pull for a bit and ejected.

11. Then I saw this really really hot blonde 9.5 and she was cute too. I care about face as well as body. she was with a girl and a guy, her friends were doing their stuff or whatever. I could not wait, that was the hottest girl in the club! I went up, kino turn her, used my direct opener “You look fucking adorable, what’s your name?”, HB:”what?” I repeated, she told me her name and we shook hands. (I knew I got to make friends with my obstacles) P:”Introduce me your friend.” She introduced me to them, I smiled and shook hands with them, they went back to talk by themselves. (So now I can focus on her) P:”You having fun?” HB:”yea!” I did high5, pound and scissors to her and she laughed, I pointed at her and got my bad smile on. I push&pull for a bit, talked about some random stuff, I told her I'll be back then ejected. After walking around and gaming other targets for a while, I was thinking about her and wanna re-approach so badly. I grabbed my wing to walk with me. I saw her with some friends at the bar but got 200 guys surrounding them. I could not cut all the way to her and she didn’t see me. So I left for a short while and came back, she was at her original position dancing by herself, her friends were hooking up. I pretended just walking by. P:”Good? Having fun?” HB nodded:”yep!” I pounded with her. My body language was super indirect so I walked away. After another short while, I realized that I want her and I want her badly. So I walked back to her spot, she was still there dancing by herself, some guys were around but not interacting with her, her friends were making out. She saw me from distance, I made solid eye contact with her and put my big smile on. I went up, held her waist “Has anyone ever told you...how beautiful…” and I fell back a bit, face to face to her, smiled “my eyes are.” She laughed. P:”where you from again?” (actually I didn’t ask her before so should not say “again”, don't wanna show I forget something) HB:”Russia.” P:”I fucking love Russia.” (Actually here I should neg her for a bit) As I talked to her, I felt It was the 1st time me and my target's chemistry working so well, I could feel that she was sincerely happy when I talked to her. HB touched my back:”So where you from?” P:”I’m from Hong Kong originally but I live in Miami now.” (I should do my background DHV story right away but for some reasons she said her next sentence first. She armed me and whispered at my ear:”You are the coolest person I met tonight! Other people were like…(I didn’t hear the last few words)” Finally she complimented on me, I immediately replied:"Was that your best pick-up line?" She laughed and said no. I didn’t even think too much, I wanna get her number so badly, so P:“Yo! Let me get your number, so we can hangout.” HB:”But I’m here with some friends, blah.” (wah! That was a friend’s shit test?) P:”That’s cool, I’m in Miami with bunch of friends too, we should all hangout together!” HB:”My friends are from New York, we will blah blah.” I didn't wanna beg her, P:”OK, at least let me take a picture with you.” HB:”OK” and fix her hair. P:”Your hair is fine!” she laughed. I took out my IPhone, took the 1st one with smile. P:”2nd one, don’t smile, be serious” and we took it. P:”the 3rd one, give me a kiss on cheek.” HB laughed:”No way." That's one of sexual compliance tests, I didn’t feel I could move on, so I ejected “You have a great night.” She smiled and said bye. Fuck! I was being a bitch, I should go back to B phase again. I opened her well, made friends with her set and sent them away, BT spike her a lot and she laughed a lot. I was really surprised when she said I’m the coolest one. She meant my peacocking outfit? Yes. She meant the way I approached her? Yes. She meant I’m fun? Yes. If so, I'm proud or myself that I showed her I’m the best person and made her think about me. But was she just being nice? I'm confused, guys. But seriously did I try to number close too soon? I think so. I generated so much attraction but I should DHV and move to C phase first, I should also show my social proof to her, stay in her line of sight and have fun with my group/other girls. So I can make her think that I’m a winner, I’m the man she wants!

12. I stayed at the bar, a set walked by, I stopped a blonde 6.5, directly opened but she rejected right away.

13. I was going to approach the moving brunette 6.5, but I missed, she went away too soon. I owed Kevin another $10.

14. I was at the back bar with Bo. I saw this brunette 7 was dancing so I spin her 2 rounds, I should say “stop, stop, nice!” and game her!! She went back to her friend.

15. I saw a blonde 7 walk into bathroom, I should open her when I saw her immediately but I directly opened her on the other side of the bar, she didn’t give me a fuck.

16. I also directly opened a blonde 6, we shook hand, I did my background cold read, she said she’s from Russia. I did the “How beautiful my eyes are” but she said “Thank you.” I can fall back face to face, then make her lean to me and say the last words. I asked if she wanna drink and show her the Vodka, HB:”You wanna give Russian drink? And that’s bad Vodka” (she neg me. Wah!) P:”I’m not Russian, I don’t know that much.” (I DLV myself!! Never say “I don’t know…” I should neg her back “yep! Your Russian people brought this shitty Vodka to us.”) Then I got amoged, I ejected.

17. I was dancing, I saw this Latino 7, I wanna open but she was with her group and amogs. I hesitated but still went up, direct opener, introduced myself, shook hand, and I kissed her hand. I ejected and bounced.

Lesson:
1. Get myself fully pumped up before I get into field.
2. Be cool and make friends with the bouncers.
3. Once got in, talk to set and make friends with people especially guys, I never know what they will bring me.
4. See target: kino turn dominantly, use direct opener, kiss on her hand, qualify her, neg her when her value is too high.
5. Immediately let her introduce her friends to me, so I make friends with her set, not get cockblocked easily.
6. Back to target, BT spike her, DHV stories and push&pull, 3 photo shots. If she rejects, so what!? Go back to BT spike again. Be smooth to move forward and backward.
7. Don’t rush to close the deal too soon, be aware of what phase it is, close her after she passes the hook point, all my sexual compliances. But I got to close my target, that’s always my GOAL!
8. If eject, Leave a high value, then stay in her line of sight, have fun with my group/other girls.
9. Moving target: Stop her completely and game.
10. Got amoged, don’t stand there, talk to him, make friends with him and get him away.
11. Always 110% focus and show up my best to everyone, HAVE FUN!

05/29/11 night@Set Club

18. I saw this 2-set, I just wanna warm up, I went up, used my Asian movie star opener, Latino 6.5:”what!?” I repeated then she started asking my obstacle. My obstacle gave me a super shitty face, I introduced myself to both of them then said have a good night.

19. I walked around with my group. I saw a big 4/5 set in table, I went in directly to my target - Hispanic 8, direct opener, NB:“But I like girls.” Wah! A homo shit test. I said “that’s cool!” Then I introduced myself to her friend, brunette 5, she smiled back. Then I ejected.

20. I went back to the dance floor again, Kevin got the bachelorette 3-set. I went in and asked my target-the bachelor-blonde 7 “This is not a bachelor party, right?” HB:“Yea!” and we both laughed, Kevin introduced me to all of them, I kissed on my target’s hand. I started gaming on my target, I did background cold read, HB:“No, DC.” P:”yep, he’s from DC too. I drove from here to DC before.” HB:”what?” P:”Drove! Drove!” HB finally understood:”wah! How long?” P:”less than 20 hours. But I got so many tickets, you know you can speed whatever you want in Miami, right? But once you go up to the north, you just like fuck.” HB was hooked:”yea yea! Like NY those places all got camera and stuff.” P:“yea! I was in Maryland for a week, there was so many cameras and I drove like this” and showed her my driving pose. HB:”How many tickets you have?” P:”I let you guess, that was in 10 days.” HB gave me 10 hand sign. P:”No then I’m gonna be in jail, I got 3 before.” HB was not that surprised. P:”I got to show you my car then you know why I got so many tickets.” HB:”what car you have.” P:”I’m gonna show you” and pulled out my phone. HB:”wah!” and showed to her friend, Indian 5.5. Then the whole set danced for a bit.

21. I realized a tall Latino 8 was right behind me, I felt I got so much social proof, so I opened her, P:“Hi, I’m Philip.” HB:”…” I did background cold read, HB:”Brazil!” P kinda of neg her:”You should live in Miami now, it just so much fun.” Then she went back to her boy…

22. I saw this blonde 9.5 was dancing on the stage, I really wanna her. Finally she came down in a 3-set. I was about to pass by, I struggled but I went back to open her. I approached from their backs, used my Asian movie star opener on my obstacle, she:“what!?” then asked my target. Then I introduced myself to my target, she told me her name but turned her back. BIG MISTAKE! I should KINO TURN them, go in STRONG!!!!!!!! YELL my opener to them! I got to be super loud in a club environment.

I was tired and my energy was going down but I told myself not give up.

23. I was kinda dancing wanna game the ones dancing besides a table, I took so long…. Finally I made up my mind and I kino the Latino 7’s arm, let her come down but she rejected. Fine.

24. I saw a blonde 6.5 in 2-set, direct opener, HB confused:”what?” I repeated and just introduced myself to them, they were rejecting me so I ejected. I should speak LOUDLY! Loud people are not scared but quiet people are scared.

25. I saw this Latino 7 walk by, I kino her arm, HB:”Do we know each other?” P:”No, that’s why I say hi to you. You look fucking adorable.” HB:”I’m going to restroom, I’ll be back.” Kevin said my body language was not good, I should stop her, direct body language + direct opener.

26. I saw a Latino/Indian 7, I made solid eye contact with her, she smiled, I felt this is on. So I introduced myself directly, background cold read, kino her waist. HB:”I’m from London.” P:”I have been to London for a month, so that’s why I come to here. But I like your accent tho.” P:”Has anyone ever told you how beautiful…” and HB pushed herself back and said:”No! No!” (I don't know why she didn't let me finish my sentence...) but I still told her:“ My eyes are.” HB:”You messing my slush." I was like”what!?” HB repeated and said ”you have a great night.” I said OK and ejected.

What I have done well: I bring people in, sarge together, wing each other, so my boys performed well. I didn't miss any targets last night, didn't lose any money. I kept trying hardly.

What I should do next time: Always go into set with HIGH ENERGY: HUGE SMILE, speak LOUDLY & CLEARLY, dominant body language. Should not just purely introduce myself, use my direct/indirect opener. BT spike her right away, don’t let her think logically. Keep the conversation going, keep her engaged all the time. If she wanna eject, pull her back and say "a quick question...". If see the set I already opened, don’t just walk by, say something or just purely have fun with them! Keep my energy HIGH all the time, don't take rejections seriously, it's just feedback and experience. Every time I walk away, I take a step closer to the man I desire to be.

To the I like girls line, I would say "So do I! Wow we have so much in common!" I respect your ballsiness, you go out and talk up the HB10s. Set was a good time, it was a good night sarging, definitely a learning experience.

Thanks man. The most important thing is I didn't miss any targets so I didn't owe you another $10 haha. That was a great night for my growth for sure, every time I walked away from a girl, I took a step closer to the man I always desire to be.

I keep you post when I'm in China. I will read so many books and sarge in a totally different country. And I will be back in August and we will sarge again, by the day we will both have so many successes and become so good at this. Cheers!

06/02+06/03/11

I was on my 20+ hours flight back to China. I could not eat anything bcoz I just put lingual braces on, but I got used to it soon.

The only target I saw was a blonde 9 with good ass in airport, but she was with her parents. I was thinking to approach her family, talk to her parents first then move on to her. However, I felt that I can only be a talker and got nothing to do in airport/with her parents. So I didn't approach. Then I realized that she was on the same flight with me, I was so wrong! I can totally email/number close her and we can date in Hong Kong even I don't live in Hong Kong. I regret so much! Kevin, you win another $10 from me!!!

06/04 - 06/08

These couple days I stayed with my family all the time coz I haven't seen them for a year. The people I hangout with and the places I go to are no-target environments.

For this month, basically I will do my errands like surgery, physical examination, etc and chill with my family, relatives and old friends. This challenge is postponed. I will come back to the game after my errands, then the challenge is on for me again. I will keep posting on here.