Phil's 30 Day Special Direct Challenge

I couldn't log on to this forum lately in China.

For the days in China, I did some surgeries and rested at home most of the time, sports, dancing, ate well, rested well. I have taken some spiritual trainings and focused on my inner game. I did a good job being the social center in many social situations like my dancing studio, dinners. I closed an Asian 5 in a business training. I did go clubbing 3 times in 2 months, I performed well especially when I was on the dance floor showing my moves, I could feel I was the attraction center. However, I didn't close too many girls as I intended.

Deeply inside, I have grown a lot and ready to succeed more! Now back to Miami.

These 4 days since I was back. I still feel I got some approach anxiety before I approach. The reason of an English environment? Not DHVing as I did in China? White bitch shield? These are all bullshits/excuses my mind gave me! I do whatever I want and keep doing it. Before I approach, remember I'm gonna show her I'm the best guy she will meet in her life, have fun with her! And go in 3 seconds.

I'm restarting this 30 day special direct challenge. This is really helpful for my current situation. As I go out, day game/night game, I have to go approach her every time I see a HB6 or above. Try my best to close her. Otherwise lose $10 per target to Kevin.

Right after I restarted the challenge, I went out with my energy and motivation. I talked to random people, smiled, everything seemed good. I went to a plaza purely looked for target to practice.

27. I walked into Gamework. I saw this Latino 7, I passed by immediately and looked at her from distance, I felt more and more nervous after the first couple seconds, I left. I immediately yelled to myself I was a bitch.

28. I was standing outside, reflecting. Then I saw really good ass under a white dress, another Latino 7 walking up from distance. So I pretended I was walking that way and tryna meet her. But she walked the opposite way and got back to her friends/family or whatever. I couldn't open that huge set so I left.

I owed Kevin $20, I was such a wussy today!! I couldn't imagine that my AA was like this high. I got more and more nervous before I made my move. I concluded the reasons and solutions. I didn't focus that well, that was way too much going on in my head, telling myself to do this to do that, I should simply focus on right now whatever I'm doing, approach my target in 3 seconds. I fell into this stupid pattern recently that I was not able to take my step out of comfort zone to interact with her. This is not me at all, deeply inside I know that. I never got this kind of AA since the 1st day I joined in the game and I LOVE CHANGING and IMPROVING. I will push myself to do it again tomorrow, take some advices beforehand to motivate me, then do it!

I went to a mall aimed to practice this challenge by myself.

29. As I walked, I saw this latino 6 holding 2 pancakes, so I opened immediately “This is for me?” “what” “This is for me?” She smiled “No.”

30. I was standing with this latino 6, she didn’t have good energy. I got influenced, some AA again, hesitated over 3 seconds, in my head “I got 2 choices, one is worries and regret, fuck it! Two is approach her now.” I was looking for opener, but finally I situationally opened her “Can you give me that plate pls?”

31. I went into A&F, this blonde 6 said hi to me, I said hi and fucking looked away! I was being a bitch! Then I was tryna reopen her and kinda chased her around but didn't get a chance.

32. When I checked out some phone cases, I looked up and saw this latino 6 in front of me. Firstly I was talking about phone case normally, she got a bit interested. I made a decision to forget about the case and game her, but this took way too long. She already got impatient.

What I have done well: I realized I got to improve myself more so went out by myself. I didn't get influenced by how others think about me, I just do whatever I want.

What I can do better: I got to open in 3 seconds! It's a golden rule for me, I got to do it right away. Say fuck it and go approach her. I got to be able to stay in set and phase shift from A to B to C to D more smoothly and naturally.

I got to do some more practice.

I hit a plateau so I decided to have a professional PUA to give me some advices. So these 2 days I took a 1-on-1 in Miami. My instructor was really aware of what I have been doing, he gave me instant feedback after every set I approached. I overcame some sticking points that I always wanna overcome. 1st one, plow through any obstacles/tests she throws to me and stay in set. 2nd, always go for the close, find the best time to number close. 3rd, don't use canned routine and just be natural to interact, live in the moment. I have improved a lot, and still got a lot to work on. Step by step, I'm getting better and better!

I'm not gonna get into detail of every set I approached. I got to say I approached every set I felt attracted and set he sent me into. My approach anxiety was almost 0, I immediately approached without hesitation. I got lots of rejection but I kept plowing through, being fun to interact. I got some number close and facebook close in 1 day game and 1 night game.