Joined: 03 Mar 2009, 23:48 Posts: 132
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Howdy!
Been out the scene for a while but hoping to make a strong redemption. What better way to come than to post up my official 30day challenge! I figured I should test new waters and try day game for 30 days straight and post up my results. After hanging out with Bullet and seeing him do some major damage in the field, I was literally inspired to be the best I can be in day game.
Here is the only stipulation I have set for myself
I will approach at least one person or more and go direct. If I don’t, I owe Bullet a lump of cash for the day I don’t approach. I will also record how the interaction went and try and post up nuggets that I run into as I go through my 30day journey.
Enough said, let the fun begin!
Nineteen.
Mike Smooth
Post subject: Re: Ninteen Does 30 Days!
Posted: 28 Aug 2010, 11:19
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Good luck, nineteen!
I'll check in on you every now and then to make sure you're still doing your challenge.
_________________ Mike Smooth Certified Coach ABCs of Attraction
“Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.” --T.S. Eliot
nineteen
Post subject: Re: Ninteen Does 30 Days!
Posted: 28 Aug 2010, 19:50
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Day 1
My first day wasn’t all that bad. I decided to pump myself up by hitting the gym and listening to some music. This definitely got me into state.
Although I was in state, I felt the jitters creeping up- I was going to be alone sarging So I decided to go to my local street that happens, sometimes, to be full of hotties. I literally walked for an hour trying to calm my jitters and luckily I found a really cool friend of mine who was waiting for some friends to pick him up to go to Santa Cruz. I talked to him for an hour until his friends came. Another hour went by and still no approach, damn!
I suddenly come across a minx who caught my attention. She had as super plumpy ass and I could not pass on this fine specimen. Immediately, I start walking quicker, which then turned into a jog, which almost turned into a marathon run just to catch up to her.
A-Appraoch
Me: Wow I had to come and say you are SOOOOOOO hott
HBPlumpy: Thanks! (Smiles really big)
Me: What’s your name?
HBPlumpy: HBPlumpy
C- Comfort
(I went straight to comfort as soon as we were done introducing ourselves. She had her full attention towards me so I figured there was no need to banter at the moment)
Me: What’s your story?
HBPlumpy tells me she’s from Oakland and briefly touches a sensitive subject.
At this point I’m getting nervous as hell talking to her. I just wanted to eject and not mess this up. I proceeded to ask her to join me for coffee sometime and she should give me her number. I also told her I wanted to stay and chat with her but I had to meet up with a friend. (It was bullshit, I was just nervous as hell and wanted to eject!)
She happily obliged and gave me her number. I also tried out this fun prop that I got from Tommy’s field report where I call her and role-play.
Me: (I tell her to answer her phone): OMG, I met this super fly chick today, her name is HBPlumpy!
Her: (Laughing hysterically) Really, what did she look like?
Me: She had….blah blah….I asked her out for coffee too. I hope she comes out!
Her: I’m pretty sure she’ll say yes. I’ll put in a good word for you if I see her!
I then proceeded to say goodbye ☺
Although this all happened, I fear that I didn’t build enough comfort with her because we only talked for a short period of time- I think the whole interaction lasted about 5-10 minutes.
Anyways, I’m planning on setting up a day 2 with her on Monday to see how things go.
Cheers!
Nineteen
nineteen
Post subject: Re: Ninteen Does 30 Days!
Posted: 29 Aug 2010, 20:09
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Day 2
Ouch!
I saw this uber hott girl selling necklaces at a stand inside the mall and had to go talk to her. I however, was a little hesitant to go straight in and open her direct since I felt I would be intervening in her work. I also started getting too much into my head and began getting a little nervous when thinking of approaching her.
A-Approach
She was sitting down and had her back against me. I put my hand on her shoulder to gently turn her around.
Me: This is so random but…..
Her: OMG you scared me for a minute.
Me: (I just smile) You look gorgeous and I had to come say hi. What’s your name?
Her: blah….
I noticed her giving me an unwelcoming vibe. She probably wanted me to pull out and leave. I wanted to stay and plow through.
C- comfort
I once again shot for comfort. I realized that I made a mistake going straight to this phase since she wasn’t really receptive and totally unresponsive. I should have continued working the B-phase instead.
Unfortunately, she found the perfect opportunity to escape my approach by going out to help incoming costumers.
This was the only approach I did today. I’ll do more tomorrow!
You win some and lose some.
On a better note, I set up a day 2 with the girl from yesterday. We’re meeting up for coffee on Thursday…Hopefully ☺
Cheers,
Nineteen.
nineteen
Post subject: Re: Ninteen Does 30 Days!
Posted: 30 Aug 2010, 18:00
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Day 3
Today I woke up early to help out my older bro move out. Damn, I was there helping him one hour, two hours, three! I thought I was never going to get the opportunity to make an approach. Fortunately, six hours later, we finished. Thank God!!!
As I was driving back home alone, I spot a girl wearing a short mini skirt. Boy, did she give me a throbbing boner ☺.I knew I wasn’t the only one since guys were hollering at her from their cars. However, I was hesitant to approach her for two reasons
1.I was driving my car and didn’t want to pull up next to her to converse. It probably would have looked like solicitation.
2.I was wearing gym shorts with a faded black shirt. In other words, I was not really dressed to impress. She probably would have thought I was a bum trying to hit on her.
Anyway, I really wanted to express my intentions toward her. Then it hits me! *light bulb* Why don’t I just park the car and make it seem like I was walking the whole time. Brilliant! So that’s exactly what I do- I park my car and walk toward her direction. I made sure she didn’t see me park- I parked about a block ahead of her so that she’d be walking my way while I walked her way.
Once we met, I let her briefly walk past me and turned around to approach her
A-Approach
Me: OMG I had to come up and say you are Sooo hott
HBskirt:: Aww that’s so sweet
As I say this we are both walking together. I shot for comfort
C- comfort
Me: Where did you just come from?
We talked about her getting out of school and taking astronomy class. I shared my experiences in astronomy class and about how difficult it was.
Me: Before I go, we must have coffee later on, give me your number.
Complies and gives me her number. She also agreed to the coffee later on today. Unfortunately, before we parted, I totally had forgotten her name and called her something else! Damn.
I will call her later on to see if I didn’t completely screw it up and set up a meet place for coffee. Cheers,
Nineteen.
nineteen
Post subject: Re: Ninteen Does 30 Days!
Posted: 31 Aug 2010, 21:51
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Day 4
Zero approaches.
Went out and did some day game but found very odd sets that didn’t allow me to execute. For example, I saw MILFs, galore, that I wanted to approach but I saw them with kids! Does anyone have any tips on how to get around that? I was thinking about just going in but I couldn’t man up to the situation. Another thing I noticed were that the hotter looking girls were rolling with large sets. I thought it’ be awkward approaching them direct. Any thoughts?
Tomorrow = new day. I’ll make shit happen!
Oh yeah, I didn’t get to hangout with the girl I number closed yesterday. I called her up two times yesterday; 1st time, she didn’t pick up. I called a 2nd time and left her a voice mail to call me up and, unfortunately, didn’t call me. Thinking about calling her tomorrow to make some arrangements.
I will make up for this day!
Cheerio, Nineteen
nineteen
Post subject: Re: Ninteen Does 30 Days!
Posted: 01 Sep 2010, 23:17
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Day 5
Today I opened two different sets. I just noticed that I was doing the bare minimums by opening one set per day and calling it done. I‘m going to start approaching at least three different sets a day.
Set 1
I spotted a lonely girl at a gasoline station. She was a petite girl wearing short booty shorts and a spaghetti strap. Perfect attire for a nice warm day. However, I got into my head and didn’t want to approach. Not because I was paralyzed with anxiety, but rather she was in the phone talking with someone. I wanted to man up and just go for it, regardless. As soon as she paid for her gas and started pumping her car, I walked confidently up to her and proceeded with my usual routine.
A-Approach
Me: You are so feakin’ hott and I just had to come say Hi
HBpetite: Thanks.
Me: I’m Nineteen,, what’s your name?
HBpetite: (I interrupted her so she decided to end her phone conversation) HBpetite
Me: This is so random that I’m doing this at a gas station but life is too short to pass up opportunities.
B-banter
I didn’t shot straight for comfort since I thought it would be really weird to try and get to know her at a gas station. I just went straight for her number.
Me: hey, what are you doing tomorrow? Give me your number so we can go for some coffee so I could get to know you beyond your looks.
She started testing me about how she will not give me her number and about how I should give it to her instead.
Me: I can’t give you my number. For all I know you might be stalking me 24/7 ☺
HBpetite: You might be the one stalking me.
I didn’t know what to say from there. She looked kind of serious about not giving me her number. The conversation got awkward and we both reached a stalemate as to who was going to get the number. Whatever, I gave her my number.
I thought the set wasn’t going to go anywhere so I just gave her my number and wasn’t really expecting a call from her. I could tell that I had made her day by giving her the compliment though.
To my surprise, an hour later, she gave me a call and told me to save her number. I talked to her for a bit over the phone and again made sure to tell her that I thought she was hott but wanted to know her at a deeper level. I thought it was a weird, but hey, I got her number. We agreed to meet up on Sunday ☺
Set 2
I saw a Latina walking my way. OMG, she was amazingly hot. She also wore booty shorts- she had legs and booty to die for. She was mine.
A-approach
I pretended to talk to my friend over the phone and let her pass. I didn’t tap her inorder to stop her. I just walked right next to her as if we were walking together and delivered my routine.
Me: Hey I think you’re adorable!
She was completely unresponsive and continued walking away. She also gave me a mean mug when I said it. I guess she was having a bad day. Too bad she didn’t get to experience any Latino love ☺
Tomorrow I go to SF wooohoo!!!I'll try and go for an insta date
Cheers, Nineteen.
Mike Smooth
Post subject: Re: Ninteen Does 30 Days!
Posted: 02 Sep 2010, 02:02
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For that second approach, when you go direct, don't do it side by side because that is more for indirect. Instead, with a direct approach, make sure you and the girl are right in front of each other. Going direct is kind of an in your face type of opener in my opinion. When going direct, get her entire attention and her body to face you. In this case, kino turn her so that she is facing you. If you don't want to kino turn her, make sure you get right in front of her. Remember to smile!
_________________ Mike Smooth Certified Coach ABCs of Attraction
“Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.” --T.S. Eliot
nineteen
Post subject: Re: Ninteen Does 30 Days!
Posted: 02 Sep 2010, 20:00
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Day 6
I went down to SF to hang out with Bullet and to also charm some ladies. Unfortunately, I didn’t do as well as I wanted to. My anxiety was kicking in full throttle, which prevented me from making the approaches that I wanted to do. I was super paralyzed by the thought of approaching someone in a large social setting where a bunch of people could see me picking up a chick. I personally don’t hate having an audience during night game, but in the day I kind of feel like shitting my pants if there’s a crowd that could see what I’m doing. I guess this is something I have to fix.
While I was paralyzed with anxiety, I did manage to muster up enough courage to approach a girl. She was wearing small gray shorts with a tight white shirt.
A-approach
She was eating and had her back against me, so I tapped her to gain her full attention and deliver my usual routine. To my surprise she was a nerdy Asian girl who I fancied at the moment. I’m drawn to nerds sometimes ☺
B-banter
As soon as she responded to my remark, which was pretty good, I went to Banter
Me: You looked so lonesome and bored here by yourself; I just had to come and rescue you from boredom.
She laughed.
I went to comfort but for some reason I was just too nervous to keep the interaction going. She was very engaging on our oh so brief conversation- she kept asking me question about where I was from, where I was born etc. But lo and behold, I didn’t take advantage of that brief interest and left. I also tried to get her to sit down with Bullet and I, kind of like an insta date, but she had places to be.
Yo Bullet, thanks for pushing me mate. It really does help when you have someone encouraging you to get shit done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hip Hip Cheerio, Nineteen
Mike Smooth
Post subject: Re: Ninteen Does 30 Days!
Posted: 03 Sep 2010, 00:41
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I was too nice. I'm pushin your ass harder next time foo. lol.
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