Ninteen Does 30 Days!

Day 14

Today I finally managed to insta-date.

I saw this fine chick, HB8, crossing down the street and get hit on by this dude who obviously wanted some action with her. I observed their interaction and noticed that it didn’t last long. As soon as their brief chat ended, I went in for the approach confidently. I was walking right behind her so I just gently put my hand in her shoulder to turn her over. The guy was watching all this and saw us both walk into the coffee shop too.

A-approach

Me: I know this is random but you look smokin’ and are definitely the hottest girl i've seen all day.

HB8: Thanks.

I proceeded with some brief comfort routines like asking her where she was going etc. She opened real nicely. We were walking down this place too where there’s a plethora of coffee shops.

Me: Hey, lets go get some coffee.

She took the bait and off we were to get some coffee. This also demonstrated that she was very compliant, a crucial step in the Comfort phase.

We both went in and I decided to buy her a doughnut (Kind of like a reward for her compliance to briefly hangout with me). We talked for some more, about 15 minutes, and I tried to connect with her but failed miserably. Nevertheless, I still tried to plow through to see how far I could get.

I also noticed that I did some things that I need some working on. For instance, I would tell her that I didn’t want to hold her back to long and that if she had to leave, she could leave. (Lame, I know)

After our small insta-date, I told her we should go outside and hangout. We talked for another 10 minutes until I told her that I had to leave.

I told her about hanging out and she also agreed to it. I number closed and left happy. I noticed that the guy that had originally talked to her was looking at me and was wondering how the hell I managed to get her to comply. All I could do was look at him and smirk. Small victory for me

Good job nineteen. Remember to kino.

Day 15

Pardon my French but, F*ck, one of the most gorgeous girls I’ve seen in awhile briefly walked into my life! She was about an inch shorter than me, had some super tight cheetah looking spandex, had some black heels, had sleeve on tattoos and a fuckin’ tongue piercing. She reminded me of one of those suicide girls. Holy shit, she was also a stunning blond too! I was smitten at her devilish display.

We met at an intersection and I proceeded with my standard routine. I was SUPER, and I mean SUPER, nervous walking up to her. I was hesitant to approach her initially but something inside me said, Fuck it, just do it or forever be neutered. I went with the former. I literally chased her and gently turned her over to face me. My heart was beating 1000 miles per hour when I had her attention.

Me: This is really random but you are SO fine. I had to come say hi to you. I’m Nineteen by the way. (I stammered these words)

HBfine:… (She just smiles)

She told she was taken aback for a minute

C-comfort

I tried my best getting into comfort.

Me: Where are you headed of too?

She was heading off home and I decided to cut this short.

Me: lets hangout and get a drink soon.

She immediately lights up and completely agrees to it. (I think it was simply the fact that I had approached her that won her over)

Me: Wait, I don’t even know your name…

HBfine: HBfine

Me: what’s my name?

HBfine: ummm…

I tease her about forgetting my name.

HBfine: (Laughing); I knew that was your name. I just don’t remember uncommon names.

Me: What a fuckin’ liar (I say this teasingly again)

She started laughing uncontrollably.

She gives me her number; we hug and then part ways.

I send her one of Gareth’s carefully crafted phone texts 20 minutes later with a few minor modifications.

Me: Hey dork, its Nineteen, the charming guy that scared you. Save this number. It’s the most important number in your life, so take care of it

HBfine: LOL HAHA you’re too cute! Consider it saved!

Hopefully she doesn’t leave me hanging. I didn’t pull through with the comfort as much as I wanted..

Day 16

Went out today and met up with G-Love to do some major damage in SF. Good times! This time I had to approach several lovely ladies before getting an actual number. Even then, the number I got today was little bit sketchy and a potential flake. But, I’ll never know until I give a call ☺

Set 1

I approached a super thick Asian chick who was on her way to do a project. I went direct on her, asked for her number but failed. She said she had to work and had upcoming projects to give attention to.

Set2

Saw a blond walking towards my direction, let her pass, and went after her. Opened her direct and mentioned she looked like a sexy zebra (she was wearing a black and white stripped top) The convo was actually pretty smooth with this one, but when I asked for her number, she told me she had a boyfriend. Sexy girl, I wouldn’t doubt it: ☺. I gave her a hug and parted ways.


Set3

Saw this big booty fly chick walking her dog. I gently touched her shoulder to get her attention and delivered my directness. She hooked well, we continued talking for a bit, but I felt it was just fluff talk. Tried going in for a number but told me I was too young for her. I thought of something to say to her after our interaction ended. Too bad I didn’t think of it on the spot.

Set4

There was this cute, and thick of course, Central American girl outside of a smoke shop selling phone cards. I opened her direct, not with too much enthusiasm (dumb move on my part), and soon realized that she was not too fluent in English. Talked to her in Spanish about where she was from and the things she was doing. Somehow I found myself acting really odd with this girl; I kept asking her the same questions over and over again. Nevertheless, I tried getting her digits, but no go.

Set5

I was completely infatuated by a girl that was sitting down while sipping on coconut juice. Went up to her, told her she was SOO adorable and immediately lit up, completely. “OMG this is so awesome, thank you!” was her response. I immediately sat down, tried hard to get to know her but I was stuttering worse than Porky the Pig from Looney Tunes (I was messing up bad). I did ask for her number and she did give it to me, but I don’t think it was smooth enough. Before giving me her number, she mentioned something about church and being celibate. She told me that to inform me that sex was out of the question. I teased her a bit on that, gave her a hug, and left.

Set 6

A foxy MILF was hanging around with these two older looking guys in front of some apartments. I was hesitant to approach her, but G-Love told me there was nothing to worry about. Lo and behold, I find myself going back to tell her she was fine.

Me: I know this is random and I don’t want to disrespect the guys, but you look hott.

She thanked me. I did talk to her and the rest of the guys for a short time and left. I didn’t ask for the number since at this point my phone was completely dead. I think I could have got the number.

Set7

My last set went nowhere. I approached this tall brunette and told her she looked hott. She just thanked me and kept on walking.
I feel proud of what I did today. I’ve never approached so many girls during the day and didn’t take any of their rejections personally.

-Nineteen

Day 17

Missed out on posting yesterday since I was mildly busy with a few things. Nevertheless, I did my approach in order to keep the 30-day challenge going.

My first set was a girl that was working at a mall. I was reluctant opening her since I thought I’d be intervening in her daily work. Since the store where she worked at was forsaken at the moment with only her presence, I decided what the hell, lets do it.

A-Approach

Me: I know this is random, but you look so hott

Her: Thanks

Me: (Awkward pause for 5 seconds)…. Ok bye

That was it. I guess I didn’t continue because I didn’t want to bother her. (Weak mindset)
That was basically the only approach I did at the mall.

I also called up the girl from day 13 and we both arranged to meet at her job. When I got there, I was being really social with her peers while she was being a little too quiet. She left me alone for a while with her peers and I was thinking what the hell is wrong with this girl? She text me apologizing for the sudden leave but wanted to meet up after she was done working.

So while I waited for her to get done with work, I decided to take a stroll and discover some more amazing girls that would enjoy Nineteen ☺. Unfortunately, I came across one MILF who was worth approaching. This approach was awkward as hell because once I delivered my direct routine, I suddenly came to the realization that she was a bit too old, but had a banging body! My next words coming out of my mouth were “how old are you?” She told me she was too old for me and just walked along. Oh well.

Day 2

The day2 with the girl from day 13 went pretty smooth. We talked about our families, school experiences, past relationships etc. I also ran the cube routine on her. I Found out the girl is actually pretty down to earth. Our chat lasted about an hour, until I gave her a ride back home.

One thing that I did notice with this interaction was that I wasn’t pulling the trigger like I was supposed to. When we were sitting at a bench, the girl kept on asking me why I was sitting so far away from her? There was mild kino going on, but it sure as hell wasn’t enough IMO.

After that ended, she gave me a text and wondered what I was doing. Somehow we got into the dirty text game where I was a bit more direct and dominant. It got to the point where the girl wanted me to send her a “very close up picture”. I didn’t really feel right doing that and somehow managed to dodge that bullet.

Anyway, we are still talking and she still texts me. I want to arrange a day 3 with this girl and see what happens.

P.S I’m praying that the blonde girl from day 15 to come out today for some coffee once I call her up!

P.P.S I still need to post up my day 18 today so stay tuned.

Cheers,

Nineteen

Day 18 (yesterday)

Didnt have time again to post up yesterday but i went and did my challenge.

Set 1

I approached a MILF who was exercising. We met at an intersection where i delivered my direc routine. Unfortunately, she didnt hook well and told me she had a husband and kids. She thanked me for the compliment and off we parted.

Set 2

There was this girl who was holding up a Metro PCS sign. This again didnt hook as well I wanted either since my energy wasnt that great and the eye contact that i gave her wasn't strong enough.

Set 3

I saw another cutie waiting at the bus stop all lonely and i approach her. My body language was on key and she responded very well to my directness. We talked about where she was from (New York) and made comparisons about living in NY and SF. Number closed easy.

I felt a little down this day because the super hot blond i had number closed a few days back never went out to hang with me. My mood was basically all pessimistic and what not...

Day 19 (today)

Unfortuantely didn't approach all day. I owe Bullet some cash...

Just keep it comin... heh heh...

Day 20

Today I only approached one cutie. She had a really retro type of style and was walking her wiener dog. Awesome, I like wiener dogs! I noticed her walking towards me, so all I did was stand right in front of her and deliver my routine.

A-Approach

Me: you look gorgeous! It must be the glasses and the retro style you have on!

She started questioning me at that point and wondered whether or not I did that to every single girl that I saw. I told her that I only say this to girls that are truly appealing to me.

I started playing with her dog and started going in for the comfort phase.

C- Comfort

Me: where are you headed?

She was going home. She really seemed like she was into the convo because she was doing so much of the taking- my ears were about to bleed! She was originally from Sacramento so I told her that I knew Sacramento since I studied out there for college. Soon we started talking about politics, hobbies etc. The conversation was pretty smooth.

She offered to give me her number so I just punched it in. All of this was happening while her mom was watching both of us interacting. I was surprised to find out that the mom didn’t say anything to try and cut the conversation short.

I decided to leave because there were some ppl complimenting the dog and I didn’t want to be left hanging. I just gave her this awkward hug and left.

Text
So I decided to once again give her the same text I did to the blond cutie to make her save my number:

Me: Hey dork, it’s Nineteen, charming guy that thinks you have a snazzy style. Save my number, it’s the most important number in your life so take care of it ☺ (credit:Gareth)

Her: in my life not so accordingly (I didn’t know what she meant)

Me: most important number in all eternity. This is a secret code only you know about. Guard it with your life ☺

Her: ur weird

Me: aren’t we all?

Her: umm…

Me: thanks you’re weird too…

Her: I guess but your text messages are a bit off, including you just met me and it was ironic to get my attention that weird way yo!

Me: indeed it was surreal. Sometimes you meet ppl in the most unorthodox ways ☺

Her: I wouldn’t say unorthodox, considering you are still weird.

Me: I am amazingly weird. Besides, it takes one to know one.

Her: I guess, but that was totally ironic for you to say that I look gorgeous with my sunglasses on. I don’t get that every day.

Me:I was about to ask you whether or not you get complimented. I still stand, you are gorgeous. But if you truly believe that I am a weird fellow and don’t want to talk then I totally understand.

Me: lol, I normally don’t text, im old fashioned.

Her: ohh not bad u don’t look it but anyways im busy I got to do some stuff. Later

Me: see ya.

In sum, this was a weird text exchange. Don’t know whether or not she hates me or likes me LOL. I’ll give her another text tomorrow!

Cheers,
Nineteen

Day 21

I went to the mall again to do some approaches but only ended up doing one. None were really worth approaching: if they were, the girl was almost always with her boyfriend. It was obvious based on their body language.

I saw this super attractive Latina working at this retail store where they sell hipster clothing. She was wicked hott and I had to approach her. The problem with this lonesome girl was that she wasn’t so lonesome after all- there were literally ten tall black dudes surrounding the store and trying to talk to her. I think there was only one guy who was smaller than me but the rest made me look tiny. I could smell testosterone in the air.

Anyways, I didn’t want that to discourage me, so I had to go in. Once I made it into the store and approached this girl, all the guys literally looked at me and started to listen to what I had to say. Now this attention made me nervous because the girl and were under the spot light. Given that I was nervous, I decided to kind of play it differently, which backfired on me on this one.

A-approach

Me: hey, I know this is random, but will you marry me?

The guys had this baffled look on their face. I think they were thinking, who the hell says that to a girl?

Girl: (starts laughing uncontrollably): I think not…

Me: you’re right; I don’t even have the wedding ring. We could buy one tomorrow at one of those 25 cent machines.

Girl: (laughing some more): no, I can’t.

Me: yea, I wouldn’t marry a stranger either, what’s you’re name?

Girl: Girl

Me: well lets get coffee.

Girl: I cant, I have a boyfriend and I’m working right now..

Blown out. All the guys were looking at me exit. I was shaky inside, but I left with my head held high and felt proud that I did something like that!

Day 2

Today I managed to secure a day2 with a cutie I met from day 18. She was an awesome girl but definitely on the shy side. But damn, I am literally in love with her ass yo!!!!

We met in Berkeley and had some tea. I was doing all the talking since I had the feeling that she was a girl that took time to warm up to people. We talked a little bit about her NY life, dancing, and cracked a few jokes about random shit. I was basically trying to build enough comfort to the point where she was COMFORTABLE being around me. We did this for ten minutes when I told her we should bounce and see what new things we could find.

We ended up going to the park talking about our families, passions etc. My whole goal here was to gauge her compliance. She was definitely very compliant when I told her to follow me. We did this for about an hour or so, until I told her I would walk her to her destination. I walked her to the Bart station chatted some more and agreed to have a day3 but this time at the movies.

I definitely plan on going more direct and sexual on this day. The thing is, the girl is a little conservative and probably would get freaked out by my advances. Never know till I try…

Oh yea and the girl that thought I was weird text me today. I planted the seed that we should watch the movie Kickass since she’s completely into comedy and superheros. It’s so convenient since the girl hasn’t watched the movie. Will update with this girl soon…

Cheers,
Nineteen

Day 22

I just can’t resist the ladies of SF- so off again I ventured to find some excitement with G-Love! Also hanging out with us was this pretty cool ABC alumni brother. Had a great time hanging out with the guys…

Set1

My first set was this white chick who had a funky green haired wig. She was a cutie and I had to make an approach. Unfortunately, accompanying her were her 2 other girlfriends, who happened to be grenades in my opinion. I walked right behind them, gently turned green haired girl towards me and delivered my routine.

A-approach

Me: You look amazing. Kind of like Lady Gaga, but much more wicked.

She thanked me, and I immediately introduced myself to her and both her friends. I have to thank the two girls for not interrupting my game; I thought they were going to pull her out from me. Lo and be hold, she had a boyfriend and we part ways.

Set2

Wow, my favorite girl out of all the girls I saw in SF was this one. She was a short and thick blond who screamed sexuality. She had some tight spandex and a short dress on. She had a nose piercing too. She probably was a very freaky girl ☺.

I saw her when she was walking right towards me- we were walking opposite directions. She did see that I had made eye contact and because of that I no longer wanted to approach her. Well I had to approach this fine devil and at least tell her she looked fine. Thus, I had to run after her and tell her how I felt.

She was so nice, I wouldn’t have imagined. We talked for a bit, and I had her BT pumped, but when I asked for her number, she told me she had a boyfriend. She told me if I had seen her two weeks earlier, she would have given it to me. Not sure if she said that to be nice lol. I gave her a hug and we parted.

Set3

This girl was a hot petite girl. Definitely not my style since I’m in love with thick ladies, but for some reason I was drawn to her. I told her she was fine and it turned out that she was from Argentina; she could barely understand what I was saying. I tried my best to vibe with her in Spanish by asking her where she was from, etc (COMFORT, COMFORT!). She was definitely a girl I wanted to see later on in the future. She gave me her number and we parted ways.

That’s all folks ☺

Ninteen