Too much on my plate those day which prevented me from doing major damage!
Day 10: Date
Today I was supposed to hangout with the girl I met in Day 3 and it went by great. I was really taken aback with this one since I felt our interaction the day I met her wasn't really going anywhere. The beauty about this game is, however, that you never, EVER, really know what's going to happen. I honestly didn't think she wanted to go out but she did.
I didn't want to do the whole coffee or Jamba Juice thing with this one. Instead, I organized that we meet up at the park to chat. I don't know if any other playa's out here would use this as a day2, but i decided to just try it out.
Here's the text that I sent her to make it clear to meet
Text: I think the park sounds like a fantastic idea. We shall meet there, talk about pure randomness and enjoy the fantastic weather today.
Once we met, I remembered that I had to work the comfort game a bit more since we barely exchanged words and the number close came off a bit too odd and forced. This part was easy- all i said was "what do you do?" Another thing that I love about day game is precisely because I can get away with saying things like this and actually get to know people in a more genuine level as opposed to night game. (I still love night game, don't get me wrong LOL)
That question alone gave me a plethora of information about her and allowed me to tell her stories that were related to what she did or what she liked. I found out she was a fashion design student in San Francisco and had a penchant to write poetry. We talked so much about fashion that it almost consumed our entire time together. I'd tell her the things that I knew about fashion and the culture of it. I also found out that she was an advent salsa dancer which gave me room to tell her that I did Salsa as well. All of this was done with the intention of building more comfort with her.
I was also throwing in some bantering along the way to make the conversation a bit more fun and intriguing. (fractionate)
However, there was still plenty of room for improvement-I didn't Kino enough (I only did one high five and left it at that) and didn't go onto the D-phase. I might be saying this to justify why I didn't move onto this stage but she seemed a little conservative. For instance, she would tell me that guys were only going after one thing when it came to girls, that guys harass her too much etc.I didn't want to fall under that category and instead decided to unleash my full D-phase power on her until the next time we meet.
She also threw me the "how old are you" shit test. I found out she was 24. I'm only 22 and she didn't look too excited about that. I just responded with "age ain't nothin but a numba" and brushed it off.
I still feel like I should have shown more of my balls and gone somewhat direct. Alas, that wasn't the case today.
About an hour and thirty minutes later, we parted ways. I decide to shot her a text and tell her that it was great talking to her. I think what I wrote wasn't the best thing but i sent it anyways:
Me (text): Hey, it was great chatting with you! Hopefully we have another opportunity to hangout if you're up for it. Regardless, good luck with fashion school
Her(text): thanks. I really enjoyed our convo too. hit me up sometime, I'd love to do it again.
That was it. I'm thinking of setting another day with her and this time pushing the D-phase.
As soon as that was done I walked for a bit and spotted a HB7 (still cute) sitting alone by the bus stop. I went up to her and told her she was cute followed by a where you headed off to? This one didn't hook at all considering she telling me she had a boyfriend. Oh well, at least I don't owe Bullet for this day