Mr Dream's 30 day direct challange

First day will be tomorrow 11/25/2008

By joining this exclusive club, I pledge to approach and compliment one beautiful woman every day for the next 30 days and post the results- both good and bad- for my fellow brothers to see. Even if- for whatever reason- I miss one day's worth of approach(es), I will still post my results, but I will also owe my Wingman / Big Brother $10."

By becoming an ABCs Wingman, I pledge to daily encourage my friend to approach and compliment a beautiful woman every single day. I do this not out of the desire of monetary gain, but a genuine desire to see my friend succeed. I further pledge to provide constructive comments and encouraging remarks on his field reports, daily and religiously. I will allow no negativity to filter into my thoughts and comments.

Game on.

Whatsup all,

Saw a very good looking girl in the bookstore, approached, "Hey, you are so fucking pretty I just had to come say hi." For a split second couldn't tell if the reaction was positive or not, it could've been one of those 'oh jeez this again' smiles. She was giving me her attention so I introduced myself. Turns out she was just visiting for job interviews, which is always a good thing in terms of receptivity.

Anyway from there just vibed. Asked her about herself, what she was doing in the city etc. Basically vibed from work, to where we were from, she moved around a lot so went to travel to what books she was looking at etc. She had a 'nice girl' personality, very compliant, sensed a hint of nervousness.

My game is very bland, not sure if I need to add some personality or not, have actually been contemplating this for a long time. The conversation definitely had great energy in the beginning but at the end I think it was just more of the same stuff.

Anyway things seemed to go downhill when she asked what I was up to and I looked at my watch and said "actually I have to meet some friends soon" (total lie) and she said I should probably go meet my friends and she should probably continue browsing. I continued the conversation for a bit and then said I should probably get going. Number close was a little tricky (this is when I realized I had fucked up at some point). She said she was going home for thanksgiving but she'll give me a call when she's back in the city and that she'd take my number. Bla bla I finagled my way into getting her number and then we talked for a little bit longer and right before I left I asked her to take down my contact info (probably shouldn't have done that, seems like a needy thing to do).

Probably weak number, texted her a nice to meet you text, no response yet. I think it would've been solid cutting things off earlier and getting a quicker number but I need to learn to keep things going.

Whole thing lasted about 30 min.

Edit: Ok I think I was being overly pessimistic, she responded. I could've sworn there was hesitance when I asked for the number and also the energy seemed to have changed by the end of the interaction.

Anyway glad to be part of this 30 day challenge!

Girl wearing hot tight spandex at the mall, strolled up along side her said "Hey, you're so fucking cute I just had to come say hi" She mouthed something but didn't really say anything and didn't really look at me. I asked her how old she was (she looked kinda young) she did the same thing so I bounced.

All the stores were closed on Thanksgiving, ffwd to Friday Night

Club dance floor looking for a hot girl, see a hot Asian girl dancing with a tall white guy. I do the opener as a kamikaze not expecting a result. "Hey you are so fucking hot I just had to say hi" positive reaction but it becomes apparent they know each other. I turn to apologizing to the guy and leave (legitimately had to go and was doing a last minute kamikaze) Girl says to the guy, "no he's nice" and the guy backs off and disappears(turns out he was a bodyguard). She wants to dance, I need to leave, she's very hesitant to giving her number but I get it with some solid persistence.

First of all I need to take a hiatus from the challenge for the next four days. I'm very dedicated to another self improvement mission and starting tomorrow it requires that I don't pay any attention to attractive women let alone approach them. I will continue the 30 day direct mission as soon as possible. If someone thinks this is cheating I'm willing to pay the $10 per day.

Day 4
Walked around for a bit and it was really difficult for some reason to approach with the "fuck" kamikaze opener so after walking for a while I saw a girl with cool dyed hair and blurted out "hey you're hair is really cool - it's really creative - are you an artist?" kind of a variation of one of the other openers. She was intending on continuing her way after the opener but then I said the are you an artist part and we talked for a little bit longer and then she said "thanks for the compliment" and I decided not to persist any further.

After this approach the pressure was off and I found myself with the urge to approach. On the subway platform I walked a couple steps past a beautiful girl and then went back and said, "You are so fucking hot that I just had to come say hi"

Keep pushing. I love your posts.

If your having a hard time going direct because of school do what I did to complete the challange. Just drive to a jack in the box/del taco/kfc and go direct on her. Even if shes fat or ugly or whatever. Just tell her, You are by the far the cutest jack in the box girl ive seen all day. Who knows one of those girls might be your next day 2.