Loren247's 30 Day Direct Challenge.

First day will be today 25th of November 2008

By joining this exclusive club, I pledge to approach and compliment one beautiful woman every day for the next 30 days and post the results- both good and bad- for my fellow brothers to see. Even if- for whatever reason- I miss one day's worth of approach(es), I will still post my results, but I will also owe my Wingman $10.

I'm in London, so that will mean £5.00, which will be one drink. Probably a Mojito, in a Brazilian Bar.

I will paste the various Kamikaze openers to remind myself when I post each day:

I feel comfortable using them apart from the "fucking" part. I seem to only use that when I'm in the process...



May the Force be with you.

Field Report Day 1:

Time 1620 hours

Weather Conditions:
Arctic Winds and require warm clothing.

Mode of Dress: Casual. Work wear
Blue Jeans
Cardigan
Lowe Alpine Blue Jacket
Light Tan and Brown trainers.


I needed a new mobile phone accessory and ended up in Brixton, London.

In Brixton, one disadvantage is that the area tends to have belligerent men shouting “compliments” at women.

“You look really fit” or “You look hot” so I had feelings of trepidation about doing the same thing. At least, I won’t be shouting at women.

First HB I saw was too far away before she entered the Underground Station. Annoying.

Errand done I was going back to work.

Saw an HB8 and made my Kamikaze opener.

I said:

“Excuse me, you look really hot.”

She took a step back and blushed, open mouthed.

Then I said: “I just had to say it.”

Then walked away.

MISTAKES:
I ended up with a Whining voice, for some unknown reason of Approach Anxiety...sheesh.
I should not have walked away.
I should have engaged, but felt good that I made the approach.

Will do better next time.

Good shit man sounds to me like you created a major emotional affect on her. Probably made her day, she was attracted, try and stick in there next time. The more you do it, the better you'll do and the easier it'll be.

Field Report Day 2: Wednesday Evening 26th of November 2008

Time 2000 hours

Weather Conditions:
Arctic Winds and require warm clothing.

Mode of Dress:
Casual from work. Black Cardigan, jeans.

I currently live and work in the area of Brixton/Clapham borders. It has the unfortunate tendency of having a dearth of beautiful women in the daytime.

I see them at times in the morning and coming home, in the evening. I can do the direct approach during the summer months, but during the wintertime it would most likely come across as a bit stalker-type scenario.

In order to achieve the 30 day challenge, I have to make it a point to run an errand to the centre of London/ West End area.

Second day, I decided to buy a book.
How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships by Leil Lowndes

I have perused the book before, but didn’t think of purchasing it till now. Well, After recommendation from Asian Rake.

FIRST GOOGLY (CRICKET TERM MEANING WRONG ONE)

I ended up in Clapham North Tube and managed to strike a conversation with a HB Black Girl. Tall, slim
I simply told her that she had not read the sign by the escalators and she asked me what it said.

Turns out a University student for Event Management.
Lives in Balham. I mentioned having to wear a stab vest to live in the area.

We were waiting for the tube and I should have gone for the number close. I realised afterwards that she WAS WAITING FOR ME TO ASK!!!!

She said
“bye” and
“nice talking to you”

That certainly threw the first googly into my evening…sheesh.

SECOND GOOGLY

Saw a HOTPlatinumBLONDE.
Massive AA since the tube had several other people.
I did not act like the Alpha Male who sees what he wants and goes for it.

Changed tubes and sat opposite a HOTHoneyBLOND putting on make up.

She looked at her mirror to check and put on her fur-lined hood to check again.

I mouthed to her and gestured with the O.K. sign that she looked hot. She ended up with this huge grin and said bye when she got off, at the next station.

Changed Tubes again to get to Leicester Square.
Saw these THREE TALL HOT BLONDES, POLISH from what I can recognise of the language with one male companion. He was with one of girls.
They walked past me and I had AA again, due to the crowds around me.

Got on and ended up sitting beside a HOTSCANDINAVIAN (FINNISH).
Again looking at her mirror. Had a tiny zit on the side of her nose…lol

I said: “You look GREAT.”

Should have said HOT..sheesh… “Great” is how your friends would say you look.

Then mistake that I mentioned my cousin being concerned about the same thing.
Should have said “girlfriends” and lady friends.

Missed that the THREE TALL HB’s got off at the previous stop…

Arrived in Leicester Square in a timely fashion.

Went to Borders and that evening chose to be a quiet night, even the cashier mentioned it.

Bought the book and left.

FINALLY

Finally spotted a HOTpetiteBrunette and I stopped in front of her. She took off her ear phones and said: “Hi”

I said: “Hello, I just had to say that you look hot.”

She was surprised “thanks.”

I smiles and said “Sorry, just had to say it.”

She replied “That’s okay” and put her headphones back on.

And I walked off and bought a bag of caramel peanuts.
The Vendor was also looking at the HOTbrunette and stared at me…lol

Bloody Heck...Haven't been this nervous since I went skydiving...sheesh.

iNspiration.

ill see how i do tmr.

"Sorry, I just had to say it"

I wouldn't say sorry, don't be apologetic in your mindset or body language either. I wouldn't even say "just".

THanks. you are correct.

British do say "sorry" a bit too much..lol

Field Report Day 3: Thursday Evening 27th of November 2008

Time 1800 hours

Weather Conditions:
Winter

Mode of Dress:
Casual from work. Black Cardigan, jeans

Wingman Dress:
Suit, tie and dress shoes.
Dark Grey Coat.

Location:
Bond Street
Thursday Late night shopping.

I arranged to meet my wingman for dinner. St. Christopher’s Place, just off Bond Street has a great Indian restaurant for the West End.

Went straight from work, so casual jeans again.

Got off at Oxford Circus and walked towards Bond Street. Due to the late night shopping the High Street was jam packed with people.

Saw my chance when I spotted an HBPlatinumBlonde by the station. She was eating a bag crisps. I made my phonecall to my Wingman, leaving voicemail asking for his location.

At the same time, I spotted this lady eating a waffle, half covered in chocolate sauce. I asked if it due to it “being half fat.” She replied, She won’t feel as guilty..lol

Left the voicemail.

(Practice session, I suppose.)

I went up to the HPlatinum and I said “I know I shouldn’t say this, you look very HOT.”

She blushed a bit and said thank you.

Managed a conversation and I introduced myself. She had to wipe her hand and then take it. From the accent Australian, off to meet a friend rather than a date.

“You’re here to meet a date?”
“No, A friend to do some shopping.”

“I’m ****”
“I’m Hailey.”

The brush off was that she had just received a message, but my phone was also ringing. My wingman was also calling.

We said "bye".

St. Christopher's Place
Met up at St. Christopher’s Place and wingman was looking dapper. Dark
Suit and Coat. Makes me miss wearing suits.

We were discussing this when I spotted a Three Set. 2 HB Brunettes and 1 HB Blonde having drinks outside a winebar.

I went up to ask them.

“Excuse me Ladies, but my friend and I were discussing mode of dress. Which do you prefer? Pointing to my self in jeans and trainers whilst he was in a suit and shoes.

The HBBlonde replied: “You. Forget the suit.”
The others agreed.

(Complete lie, of course)

"I was thinking that I should start wearing suits again."
"No, definitely, doesn't matter what you wear."

I was running out of canned material so I jokingly asked; “Will you marry me?”
She replied; “No.”

We all laughed and I said "enjoy the evening Ladies". We departed to their goodbyes.

In the Restaurant we analysed the situation and knew he HBBlonde was the cockblock.
If we had continued, we would have ignored her and focused on her friends.
I should not have asked the marriage question. I did know that I wanted to bug out. Perhaps comfort zone was being breached.

After Dinner.
I needed to buy moisturiser from the BodyShop.
The was an HBBrunette hiredgun who ended up helping us.

She was on the makeup section, when I spotted her.
My wingman asked her if she could recommend any make up for me.

She did say they had something for my eyes and perhaps glitter.

She ended up "They didn’t have any makeup for men".
I replied “That’s sexist.”

I wanted to try the coconut moisturiser.

I did enjoy the banter and ended up asking about her accent. Polish and the usual attempt to say a sentence in the language. Friends, colleagues and girlfriends.
my mistake was mentioning having a Polish girlfriend. Should have emphasised EX.

Mentioning visiting Krakow and other places and too much techno music in the Warsaw clubs.

From her: “Yeah, too much techno music and beautiful women.”
I grinned and said "Well, yeah..."
She went back to selling and when she mentioned free gifts. I asked if it was her phone number?

Grinning: she asked: "Are you here to shop?" I said Both...lol

She said “you have a girlfriend.” I said “Girlfriend as lady friends.”
Sorry “boyfriend for six year.”

I asked “When’s the wedding?”

She doesn’t believe in marriage and one reason she’s in London. All her friends in Poland are married.

A bit more banter, but the conversation died after that.

We know that she enjoyed the banter and probably made her evening of a boring 13 hours. She had mentioned she was studying to be a beauty therapist.

We were doubtful about the six year relationship and I might make it a point to buy my stuff from that particular Bodyshop.

Will shall see.

Point of note:
There are a lot of Polish and East European women living in London and they are quiet popular. There are loads of British men who are ending up with East European partners.

Field Report Day 4: Friday morning 28th of November 2008

Time 0800 hours

Weather Conditions:
Winter

Mode of Dress:
Casual from work. Houndstooth Cardigan, jeans

Location:
Clapham
Off to get milk for coffee.

I enjoyed the night before and wanted to engage in Kamikaze this morning. Spotted a few likely prospects, but had AA.

Needed to buy milk and single cream.

Went out and spotted an HBAuburn. Wearing light blue jeans and black boots. Voluptuous, especially with the tight jeans. She was also pulling wheeled luggage and carrying a handbag.

I walked beside her said "Excuse me, with the jeans and boots. You look HOT."
She smiled and said "THanks."

As we continued walking along, she turned out to be a nice English rose.

I asked:"Going on holiday?"
"No, off to see my father."

"Where is that?"
"Lancashire."

"Yeah, my friend is off to Athens.(Wingman)". "Better weather than here."
"Well, Lancashire is cold."...lol

Car came past us and the driver blew his horn.
I said: "I think he wanted you to look back."
She laughed some more.

I said "see you later".
She replied "Later."

I really need to work on my number close.
Even if she had not given her number. I could have given my business card.

Field Report Day 5: Saturday Afternoon 29th of November 2008

Time 1600+

Location:
Clapham and Brixton
Shopping.

Checked Brixton Market. Not much of a market, but some good food stalls. Could not find anything.

I did spot these two HBs carrying large packages from Argos. Probably flatmates. I offered assistance and they both insisted they were okay and getting a cab. Should have insisted and perhaps grabbed the heavier looking box.

Managed to find a shop selling massage oil.

Went to Woolworths and spotted an HBbrunette-in-Cardigan. I went up to her and said she looked hot in the Cardigan.

She blushed and said "It keeps me warm." It did engulf her and bugged out. Spotted the boyfriend, with her, afterwards.

Went to the Supermarket for shopping.

Saw a HBRedhead. Got AA due to too many people. Spotted her again in the Dairy section. Went up and said. [b]"Hello, may I say, you look Hot". [/b]

She smiles and said "Thank you".

I cheekily asked: "Do you come here often?"

She replied with another smile "Quiet a bit." and walked away.