LordShamino's 30 Day Challenge

Heya everyone

I recently completed the 30 day challenge with a non-community friend of mine. I'll admit in the beginning I felt resistent to it, but once I got it all kicking, it was soo much fun meeting all these new hotties, that I didn't really see myself stopping.

I've been doing Day Game more these days and in my opinion its more fun, definately gives you more time to develop an interaction with the hotties I like to approach and less obstacles.

I talked with Jamestopdog and hes agreed to take me up on this challenge. Since we're both working, we made some alterations with the 30 Day Game Challenge.

1) Make 1 approach per day
2) Must be a chick that we're at least attracted to
3) If one of us is on a date, no approach is required on that day =)
4) Midnite is the deadline per day (i.e. if we're out with Night game, approach must be made by Midnite.)
5) If dating progresses into a relationship, then no further gaming is required.
6) $10 per day for no approaches
7) a little report must be made on the each day

The challenge will begin this Thursday 12th November and end on the 11th of December

All the best Jamestopdog

The challenge officially starts 15 minutes ago

I'm looking forward to the next 30 days - haven't done day game before - it'll be out of my comfort zone but hoping it will no longer be soon!!

I've integrated my 30 day challenge posts into my FR journal
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Day 1

Sydney been really nice and sunny these days. Decided to give one of the parks a go. I catch a glimpse of a short cute blonde eating her sandwich while reading a book. Decided to sit and soak up some sun before making the approach.

Once the cute little blonde had eaten her sandwich, she whips out a little cup cake. I'm like, fuck it, its time to go.

LS: Hi
HB: *looks up*
LS: I was just sitting over there and I just had to come over and tell you I reckon you're really cute
HB: *smiles* Oops, I'm still eating my cake
LS: haha, yeah I was waiting for you to finish your sandwich and then you whooped out that little cake hahaha

LS: I was just looking at this cool event, I think its called international recycle day.

Basically I talked about topics that are pretty recent such as recycle day and backpackers day. It pretty much gives me the opportunity to talk about travel.

We go through some comfort topics, like where shes from. It happens to be in the same area as where my cousins used to live, and I joke around about a certain cathotic clubs having a bad reputation.

I find out that she left school in year 11 and is a legal secretary, that she is half Aussie half Argentine. By now shes pretty comfortable talking to me, except her body positioning isn't facing towards me. Somewhere throughout the conversation she mentions her boyfriend, since I went direct.

She also takes out a cigarette and offers me one, which i politely refuse. We got along fine, but by now, I decided it wasn't really worth pursing. I generally prefer girls that don't smoke. We were talking for like a solid 20 mins before the both of us had to go.

She offered to shake my arm, which I signal a hug instead. She responses well to it and also askes for my name. I was like wow, its been a while since I waited for the chick to ask for my name.

What I did right: Approach! Banter well and some good connection going. Direct was a given. Controlled my pace of talking, energy levels.

What I could do better: Well, I remember in BC they said once you go direct, you can practically skip the bantering and stuff. I dunno, but it seems like a reflexs of mine to just jump straight to bantering and then comfort rather than just ask to know about them. lol

As much as I love to write these reports word by word, its pretty much the same themes that I generally interested in and current topics

Day 2

For day 2, it was time to hit the bookshops. I reckon book shops are great place to meet girls and I often make my way towards to travel section first. Pretty much had like 10 mins left before I had to return back to work.

I picked up a book about Germany and in the corner of my eye I see yet another blonde fiddling around with some maps of europe. Lots of people around, decided to go situational

LS: Hey...Do you reckon these maps are worthwhile getting, even tho there are GPS out there
HB: *seems a little startled* Umm, I'm not sure
LS: Yeah I was just at the Backpackers convention the other day, did you happen to go there

By now, she looks like she was pretty young, like maybe 17 or something. I decided not to press on with this one, wasn't any point really.

I decided to shelf the germany book and just head back straight to work.

Day 3

It was a friend's birthday, so I hit the shops to get her a birthday card. Department stores are pretty awesome, you'll occassionally see a lone wolf here or there, just depends on whether you have the courage to make that approach.

I see a cute brunette, shes got some nice wavey hair going and shes looking at some wedding cards. I was with a friend who was talking about his experience with hitting onto women you work with. Withing 2 seconds...

LS: Hi, I'm looking for a gift for a girl who is turning 21, any suggestions?
HB: *she has a think about it*
LS: You know I reckon its way harder to buy a gift for a girl compare to a guy. Guys are pretty much just happy with a gift voucher
HB: *smiles* If it was me, I would take the gift voucher
LS: Hhaaahah, you serious?? You're not a Tom Boy are you haha
HB: *laughs* No. I just happen to know what I would get for myself
LS: What would you get, let just say its your b'day and I was to get you a present

By this stage, i'm pretty sure she knows I'm flirting with her lol. She mentions that she would get a good sci-fi book and oddly enough I'm talking about Star Trek, even tho I've only watch the most recent Movie with Sylar from Heroes starring in it. I tell her I'm more of LOTR fan, except reading those books urghhh.

We do a bit of role play, where I go I'll dress up as Gandalf the Grey and she can be the Spock and we'll meet up somewhere to do battle. hahhah I love role plays, especially with chicks who play along

By now my friend has disappeared, allowing me to game for myself

I asked her what shes planning to get, which she mentions that shes getting a wedding card for her sister in law. I asked her, why not just say your brother's wife, which she counters that its actually her fiance's sister hahahaha

mateeee where do I find all these attractive taken women lol

Although I generally don't bother with numbers with taken women, I thought I give it a go. She was interesting enough and I wouldn't mind increasing my social circle. But it seems like shes pretty loyal to her fiance so we left it at that

The journey continues

Day 4

Woke up, feeling clustered, can't seem to stay at home these days... Life seems too short to procastinate. Today I decided I needed a new haircut. Went looking for my gym friend's card, its really hard to find a good hairdresser who knows how to cut my hair. Had some real shockers lately hahaha

Afterwards, it was time for me to head off to Bondi Beach. There was a Sea Sculpture event at the beachside and today was the pretty much the last day. Messaged a few of my mates to come, but looks like they're scared of the sun. geeze, dunno why some asians are like that haha, it was a great day for a stroll and to check out some chicks in bikinis

By the time I arrived at the beach, it was like 3:30pm. To me, today was just about having a walk. Yeah I know, should have more intent, especially with this challenge, but I'm managing this emotional intelligence the ABC guys are talkin about.

Not the easiest of things to do, it seems like whatever the outcome, with emotional intelligence you keep on going. Got a date, keep chasing other women, chicks not responding to your liking, keep chasing other women lol

I guess nothing is a certainty, expect for yourself. You know what you're capable of, if things work in your favour, then its a blessing. If not, well at least with emotional intelligence, you didn't waste your time chasing that one girl

Warm up sets. Meet a chick on the streets, said Hey, stood my ground and asked her if the Sea sculptures was at bondi. Easy enough haha, thought she look alrite from afar, but definately older close up.

Didn't really matter, I need to go check out these sea sculptures, new ideas and current stories for other future hotties that I'll meet.

Ok there is a grave yard along side these coastline beaches, I'm gaining pace on this other brunette chick

Instantly went in, same opener, but got more of interaction. Shes from Britain and supports a football club called Crystal Palace. Too bad it wasn't one of the bigger teams, like maybe tottenham, would have full teased her on it. Then again, this was a moving set. We happen to be walking in the same direction. If she was hotter, I'll probably plough more lol

The sculptures were really awesome. Also saw some gorgeous hotties with sexy bikinis

Day game rules

Lol, thats where all the fun lies. If you're on opposing teams, you can role that you're long term rivals and tell them that you obviously wouldn't get along. lol, its one of the funnest things to disqualify, even tho they know you don't mean it

Day 5

Its a Monday, been having a think about the women i've met in the past. Like I've been on dates, and with the chicks I've been really interested, things just don't work out. How on earth William actually gained insight of the whole game within a year is totally insanely crazy. But those are stories for another time.

Was at the department store today and I walked to the book shelf. Crime and Thriller. Oddly enough, there are a lot of chicks out there who seem to love reading this genre. A brunette is standing towards my right.

LS: Hi there
HB: Hi there, how you doing today?

OMG, this is a first, I was actually surprised with this. Most replies are Hi, but she actually went further lol I laugh for a bit and then go through my plot

Told her that I'm more of a fantasy person, but I'm looking to buy a book on crime and thriller for a friend who is interested in reading this genre. She askes a friend (an Azn guy surprise surprise) which he recommends reading the 5 dragons. I talk about the author a bit with him, but wow. This girl shocked me twice in a row lol

We shortly ejected from each other.

I'm beginning to realise the importance of intent

Take bigger steps. You already took the bootcamp so you should know what to do besides just approaching. You're not talking to her so you can work on your, "Hi how are yous." Don't play it safe bro. It just sounds like you're out to have safe conversation. Pick up artists talk. They can make a girl laugh, they can DHV. You're not there to talk, you're there to fuck her brains out. The key is sexual intent. An approach is not an approach unless you have sexual intent.

edit: my examples are stupid. i'll make a new post

I owe you $10 LordShamino, i didn't talk with anybody Day 5. :
however that said, you ain't getting anymore from me.

Girls.. lock yourself up!!