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 Post subject: Is "Direct Game" the answer to Day Game?
PostPosted: 19 Jul 2009, 01:10 
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I do Day Game mostly just because I'm not a "high energy" guy. I've been using situational openers or opinion openers mostly. I did use some direct before just to push myself a bit out of my comfort zone. But I guess it does drain a lot of my energy so I haven't been doing it lately.

Recently though, I feel like situational and opinion don't allow me to approach EVERYONE. Sometimes I can't think fast enough or the opinion opener doesn't fit the situation so I missed a few opportunities. So I thought if I can master DIRECT opener, then I can open anyone without missing out. Cause no matter what situation, I'll be saying the same thing.

So I wanna test out direct opener next time I go out. But I wanna ask first on how to do it correctly. If you've been doing direct game, please share some tips and suggestions on it. Thanks.


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 Post subject: Re: Is "Direct Game" the answer to Day Game?
PostPosted: 19 Jul 2009, 02:24 
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Hey!

Direct on day vs night is different. I prefer going direct on a girl you really like on day time.
You probably chase her across the street and will be nervous when you see her. She probably sense it and will likely to give you credit for trying. That is extactly what happen to me.
Regarding mastering it, I believe in doing direct like 2000 times until I'm comfortable and she is also comfortable in receiving my direct opener.

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 Post subject: Re: Is "Direct Game" the answer to Day Game?
PostPosted: 19 Jul 2009, 03:18 
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I truly think going anything but direct on day game is kind of pointless. Your gonna be that friendly guy that talks to her. what ever.

This is how I run day game. I stop them with "HEY, stop." Sometimes I actully RUN after them and yell "SOTP SOTP STOP SOTP STOP."

The cutie stops, and I proceed with "Hey, your really cute, I had to meet you. Hi i"m _________" And, oh yeah, Make sure your smiling. Like, HUGE Ass SMILE. :D Like that. :D

They usually give a little resistance to test you for a bit. Just PLOW threw that. Ask her what she is doing to see how much time/logistics are. Go to comfort. move her around the venue. insta-date. # close.

If I'm walking and I see a cutie, I do RUN after her yelling. I have even ran out of restaurants to stop chicks. ahhaha.

Day game is a little more solid then night game because there is a feeling that you get to meet the "real" person compared to the bar.



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 Post subject: Re: Is "Direct Game" the answer to Day Game?
PostPosted: 21 Jul 2009, 02:33 
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thanks for the replies guys.


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 Post subject: Re: Is "Direct Game" the answer to Day Game?
PostPosted: 26 Nov 2009, 18:49 
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Things I learned from doing direct during the day over the past couple months

- i noticed when I do about 30 directs i tend to get a solid date. I weight 246 so maybe thats a factor
- after doing direct on a girl, she doesnt know what to think of me yet. Therefore I shower her with my prescriped dhvs. If I get past 10 minutes and were sitting down, its probably good sign.
- If she is by herself sitting, I know I got about 5 minutes at least to game her
- you can hit on a girl in the KFC line and get it to work
- when i hit on fobs, i tend to get instadates pretty well
- i get rejected by ugly girls and hot girls at the same rate. so why bother hitting on ugs.
-community college is better then the mall for me.

hope that helps.


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 Post subject: Re: Is "Direct Game" the answer to Day Game?
PostPosted: 27 Nov 2009, 14:06 
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Tank: "The community college is better than mall."
Oh hell yea. I went back to my old community college and hitting on chicks. It was like revenge time.


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 Post subject: Re: Is "Direct Game" the answer to Day Game?
PostPosted: 16 Mar 2010, 00:25 
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I don't daygame much and most of my game is either night game at a pub, karaoke bar or special club function (hiking club who puts on an occasional pub night). But hearing how girls at a college class or college food court etc is considered day game -- I have a few tips:

1) The girl you met in class is easier to game when she is the food court since you already met.
2) You never crap where you eat -- meaning you don't game at the gym...but if you attend the aerobics classes and meet a girl from that class in the nearest grocery store ect... it is easier to game.
3) I try to dump in a few attraction spikes before I go direct.


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 Post subject: Re: Is "Direct Game" the answer to Day Game?
PostPosted: 31 Jul 2010, 08:27 
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mymeowcat wrote:
I don't daygame much and most of my game is either night game at a pub, karaoke bar or special club function (hiking club who puts on an occasional pub night). But hearing how girls at a college class or college food court etc is considered day game -- I have a few tips:

1) The girl you met in class is easier to game when she is the food court since you already met.
2) You never crap where you eat -- meaning you don't game at the gym...but if you attend the aerobics classes and meet a girl from that class in the nearest grocery store ect... it is easier to game.
3) I try to dump in a few attraction spikes before I go direct.


I don't understand what any of this means.

"Don't shit where you eat" is a phrase I'd apply to people you work with. This is so that you don't put yourself in a situation where you'd lose your job because you were chasing tail. It has NOTHING to do with the gym or school, both of those places are great to meet women. Remember that just approaching a girl doesn't mean you're digging a hole and I feel like that all of this advice is coming from that place.

Also, I dont know what 'dump in a few attraction spikes' means, but if you're doing something before you open direct, it means you're not opening direct, you're just being direct at some stage in the game which we recommend.

Going direct in the daytime is highly reccommended. It takes a lot of guts to walk up to a woman in broad daylight and tell her you think she's beautiful and, to a degree, women see that and respect that. Also, women in the daytime don't have the kind of shields and guards that girls at clubs do, so they are more likely to consider your actual statement, rather than brushing you off as someone just hitting on them.

Your personality will shine through immensely in day game and that is why your energy level can be so low (along with the fact that her energy level is low, too). Use this opportunity to smile and make strong eye contact (this will be a super advantage in daygame) and insert witty or thought-provoking situational conversation starters.

If you want my opinion, l love both situational openers and going direct in daytime, but if I had to choose one way to open, it would be direct, for sure. This will boost her confidence, which will boost your confidence in turn, which will make a stronger impression.

Good luck!



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