Hank 30 day direct challenge

I'm in!

I now need an Alumni who will keep me in check and feel happy to take my 10 dollars if I chicken out and make stupid excuses not to go direct.

Who is in the Pasadena/San Gabriel Valley area that is interested and wants to keep me in check? PM me and we'll go over the details so that you can collect your money if I chicken out.

Ill be more than happy to collect our money!

my brother Tank, sounds like you got a deal.

I will start tomorrow. I will text you on your cellphone for 30 days straight whether or not I fulfilled my obligation.
After 30 days, I will make a payment to you if there is any day that I did not go direct.
Also, feel free to text me when you go out and do day game. my schedule is pretty flexible.

Hey Hank.

Try to post something every day if you can, it will keep you motivated and disciplined.

It doenst always have to be a FR, but something that lets us know that you are out there trying.

It can be something as simple as:

Hank and Tank doing a 30 day challenge.

The only excuse you can have is if you have a Day2 with a girl.

for Wednesday November 26th, I went direct

for Thursday November 27th, I chickened out at Wal Mart and owe Tank $10

for today, Friday November 28th, I'm gonna hit the clubs later tonight and will definitely open direct.

I have taken the advice from others that clubbing during the weekend is the worse way for us going through the six months of hell.

I prefer day game or direct approaches in busy centres of the city.

Friday November 28th, I went direct at the club

Me: Hi, I think you're really attractive.
Her: Thanks. (w/ a weak smile)
Me: so anyone tell you that smoking is not attractive
Her: Nope.
(her friend hears the entire approach and pulls her away)

Next set:

Me: Hi gorgeous, what's your name?
Her: -----
Me: my name is hank, how do you girls know each other
Her: from work
Me: I see...work sounds boring...so what brings you girls here?
Her: we just having a girls night out
Me: Me too, i'm having a night out looking for girls
Her: really? too bad i'm not hereto help you get laid
Me: uhhh...( i eject the set)


Saturday November 29th, went clubbing again (I am a certified club whore)

Prior to going club, I met up with Myself and we had a good conversation. from the conversation, I was gonna try to go clubbing and NOT open a single set. Let's see if i could enjoy the music, the crowd, and just have fun without needing anyone.

I got in at 10:40 pm and ordered a drink. from 10:40 pm to 12:40 am I do not open a single set. The cool thing is that within the 2 hours, two separate groups of girls actually open me. too bad they are not my type, but I do chit chat with them, and have NO desire to close.

It's around 12:40 am, and I'm about to leave. I spot one girl who i find very attractive. she's on the dance floor and I go up to her and say

Me: Hi, I think you are incredibly gorgeous!
Her: what?
Me: I said you're gorgeous!
Her: (she looks at me with a puzzled look)

I promptly eject the set.

What I learned: Do not go direct on the dance floor. she won't hear you, unless you shout really fucken loud.

tomorrow is Sunday and I will not be clubbing, so it's gonna be a challenge to go direct during the day time. I'm planning to go to the mall, i'll do my best not to chicken out and start talking to her.

I went to Target to buy stuff.
I see one pretty good looking gal while I'm looking for contact solution. I did not open her.
(i'm telling myself, this shit is nerve racking)
I see another pretty good looking gal while I'm looking at electronic shavers. I did not open her.
(i'm telling myself, just go up to her and ask for her opinion)
I see another pretty gal while I'm picking up a box of Q-tips. I did not open.
(as I'm leaving, I'm telling myself, fuck, I don't think I've got the guts to go direct today)

I go to the Arcadia Mall
I'm at H & M, and I see this tall good looking gal and just as I"m about to go direct on her, her husband/boyfriend walks up to her. (I casually walk by and pretend I'm looking for a jacket)

I'm walking by Gilly Hicks Sydney and I spot a HB on her and phone. I wait for a bit but she's still on the phone, so I just leave (I tell myself, fuck, this is making me feel sort of creepy)

As I leave, I see this Macy's employee sitting there alone and smoking a cigarette. (I tell myself, this is it)...but then AA kicks in and I don't do shit.

So I didn't go direct today and I owe my brother Tank another 10. ouch.

Positives: Overall, I am at least aware of my options and choices. I feel good knowing that I can meet women during the day by going direct. Also, it's good to read Tank and Martyr's direct thread because I get some ideas that I maybe able to incorporate into my daily direct challenge.

Negatives: I have to stop being so negative internally. I noticed that internally, I scolded myself for not going direct. Instead, I should tell myself, just have fun, because you probably won't see her again anyways. I need to remind myself that I have MUCH more to gain than lose.

Hank-

Honesty is not always the best policy. Ha ha ha.

Try changing it to 30 day direct DAYTIME challenge like we said. Then Tank will be $$$$$$$$ unless you start doing it!

But I feel yo pain buddy.