How to NOT Look Like a Random Creepy Guy

The point of passive value is to show that your default (non-creepy) personality is attractive to a woman and, since we all know that confidence is the most attractive quality about a man, our job is to show that we’re confident in every method that we can. Who’s more confident: the guy threatening to pound on some dude, or the one smiling, telling him to relax? Who’s more confident: the guy with a frown on his face, alone at the bar, or the guy with a smile, chatting with his buddy? Exactly. Continue reading Continue reading

What is the A Phase? A: Attitude, Attract & Approach

The actual approach is, paradoxically, both the most important- yet at the same time- least important, stage of seduction. In the A Phase of the ABCDEF structure, we break down the beginning act of seduction into three main components: Attitude, Attract, and Approach. Continue reading Continue reading