The Expat’s Guide to Dating Western Women & Asian Girls In: Shanghai, China

If you didn’t already know, I’m Chinese by ethnicity, American by nationality, Asian-American by culture and Taiwanese by heritage. Confusing, I know, like most Asian-Americans, it took me years to figure out what the difference was between race, ethnicity, heritage, and nationality. My … Continue reading

PUA Movie Review: Crazy, Stupid Love Review

Legs wrapping in amorous, scintillating conversation at a dimly lit restaurant opens up one of Steve Carell’s self directed films starring himself. Crazy Stupid Love pretty accurately describes how love is just that, crazy and stupid. Cal Weaver (Steve Carell) … Continue reading

Relationship Skills: How to Use ABCs of Attraction for Long Term Relationships

Different people sign up for the ABCs of Attraction bootcamp for different reasons.  In my case, I really just wanted to get a girlfriend. But even after you’ve used the ABCs structure to successfully find the girlfriend that you want, what … Continue reading

Creating a Future of Positive Male Asian Role Models at Wharton Business School of the University of Pennsylvania

It’s become a time honored tradition for me that on each Valentine’s Day that I’m an invited feature speaker at an Ivy League Unviersity. First it was Harvard University, then Yale University, and later the University of Chicago. This year, … Continue reading