“This is Johnny Wolf (Founder of the SoCal Lair and Co-Founder of the PUA Summit) and I’m here to give you the unbiased truth.
I want to talk to you a little bit about why- to me- the ABCs is about being HOLISTIC… it’s fundamentals, order, structure and most importantly GROWTH!
See, my game grew like ten fold after discovering the ABCs of Attraction.
It finally gave me structure and a method that dispelled all the PICK UP MADNESS I had been learning. I felt like I had bits and pieces of really good game, but I had no idea how to put it all together and have a perfect set or interaction with a girl.
Reading tons of ebooks, watching dvds and attending seminars gave me plenty of pick up knowledge, and sometimes I would do really well with girls but it was still “getting lucky.” The parts of my game that were really good was opening, I was good at building comfort, and if I got the girl to kiss me, I was good at everything after that.
But the problem was, I had no idea how, when or what to do to transition between the steps. That’s what the ABC’s taught me.
It filled holes in my game, and taught me how to properly move every interaction forward. It’s what we like to call HOLISTIC GAME, which incorporates the three most important elements of pickup and self improvement into one “plug and play” structure – the famous ABCs Model.
And those elements, that you find in EVERY phase of the ABCs model from A to F, are:
- Inner Strength
- Outer Confidence
- Verbal Attraction
I didn’t realize that between opening and comfort I needed to make sure she was out of her logical mind and her buying temperature was high, I didn’t realize I needed smaller sexual complacence tests before going for a kiss. I didn’t know what went wrong or how to learn from my sets because I wasn’t following a game plan anyways.
The ABCs of Attraction is a structure that works really freaking well.
So well that after using it I realized how much time I was wasting not moving forward, and the best thing is, that it is in an easy to follow order. If I had taken the bootcamp years before I did, I would have saved myself a lot of distress, headache, lonely nights, and unlearning.
Because I was trying to learn it on my own, I had picked up a lot of bad habits and learned a lot of contradictory information.
Now that I think about it, if I wanted to learn how to cook, I would take a course or find someone who is knowledgeable and willing to teach me. It would have been stupid to read a hundred recipes on line without ever going into the kitchen.
Having a proper foundation, and learning the fundamentals are extremely important, yet it seems that most PUAs are built on a pieced together, make-shift foundation. I used to logically think that people should wait a year and have 3,000 sets under their belt before taking a bootcamp.
But then I realized that the students that come in with tons of knowledge, also tend to come in with tons of bad habits, crutches they rely on, and it takes a lot of time to help them unlearn it all. We often have to break someone before rebuilding them back up again.
So if you’re just starting out, I want to stress how important it is to learn proper structure, and the fundamentals first before trying to learn more advanced things.
The other thing that I love about the ABCs of Attraction is that even though it is really simple and perfect for beginners, it also left me a lot of room for growth. Because the ABCs incorporates direct game, indirect, natural, and allows for social circle and other lifestyle based game, it was perfect for my journey from beginner/aspiring pick up artist to becoming good enough to be an instructor.
So wherever you are in your pick up career, and journey in self improvement, to be good with women or otherwise, be glad you found the ABCs of Attraction!”
– Johnny Wolf (former ABCs student-turned-Certified Instructor)
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